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Arla, 54

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About Me

I like drama on the big screen rather than in my life. I'm looking for a good guy to that is financially grounded, kinda handsome, a partner who will join me in a loving, committed and playful relationship. I've always been a career woman; when at work I'm a driver, leading the charge & calling the shots, but after I leave the office, I prefer the man in my life to take the lead. On an average weekend, I balance the work week with getting out and about socially, maybe to have a drink & listen to a band or catch up with friends for dinner. The rest of the time, I spend at home playing around in my garden, getting a little sun, doing some yoga or dabbling with a little something creative. I've gotten to an awesome place in life so I'm grateful to be able to pay it forward -- I actively volunteer as a coach & mentor to people enrolled in transformational personal growth training. I own my house and a cat (or should I say she owns me :) I choose to have a simple easy life; my days of being a workaholic are over. I'm close to my family and have amazing friends; these relationships are important to me. I've been single for little while now and I would like to meet a man that is in a similar place in his life -- to be able to share, play and discover together new and familiar experiences. Yes, I do love to explore, be adverturous and I'm open to new things. And I'd rather be happy than right. The word I would use to describe a first meeting or date is CASUAL conversation. You can take the cue from there!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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