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Melva, 51

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About Me

I'm an easy going person who enjoys going with the moment. If you're going to put me in a box, then I suppose I belong in the "spontaneous" box, because I hate being constricted or tied down (for this purpose anyway) by a schedule. We all have to have schedules for some life events, but it's the unscheduled parts of life that, at least for me, are the most fulfilling. Laughing and being playful are two of my greatest joys and I try to surround myself with others who enjoy that as well or whom enhance that quality in myself. I tend to be a risk taker as well, though I'm not foolish with it.I have great duality in my personality. On the one hand, I'm the poster child for hopeless romantics. I love spending time with my someone special, making dinner, enjoying long walks in the mountains or at the shore, dancing at the spur of the moment for no particular reason except to hold someone close, snuggling on the sofa as we watch a movie (and I do like other types of movies than "chick flicks") and doing silly little surprises to let you know I'm thinking about you. On the other hand, I like a little spice in my life and have been known to deviate a little to the left of norm, if you know what I mean....lol. If you don't know exactly what I'm alluding to...well, just ask!!I have a curious mind and am always thinking about something. I enjoy learning new things.I'm definitely an affectionate person. I've always been touchy/feely with my friends and whomever I may be dating. I have no problems with public displays of affection and love snuggling or cuddling. However, I'm not looking for a friends with benefits/sex only situation, so if that's what you want, look elsewhere.I have a variety of interests including: music, watching movies, photography, reading on my kindle fire, exploring new places, intelligent conversation, good wine and food, jazz festivals, museums, history, architecture, culture, art, board games, drives to nowhere, picnics by a lake or in a park and a few other things that one doesn't necessarily discuss in polite company.Anyone with a quick wit and intelligent conversation is bound to get my attention, for I seem to have little use for those who can not carry on decent discourse. Come on, be creative and come up with something unique. Intelligence and wit are the ultimate aphrodisiacs. Something casual....like a drink at Starbucks or a walk at a park

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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