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Bernice, 53

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About Me

Thanks for taking a closer look! :- Friends describe me as upbeat, teasingly playful, and quite the comedian (somewhat sarcastic at times.. but always in a harmless playful way). They admire my confidence (which I have a lot of in spite of the fact that I'm not a slender gal), and how honest and communicatively open I am about myself. I live alone, work days and have most evenings and weekends free, and my parenting days are long over as my one and only child is now almost 35 and he left the nest long long ago. I'm relationship-minded and I'm here to get to know new people, make new friends, and date in hopes of someday stumbling upon that one last someone special who totally sweeps me off my feet, can touch my heart, and is ready-willing-able to let me in to touch theirs. The kind of guy I'm seeking is someone caucasian (no offense intended to other ethnicities) who is upbeat most of the time, honest all of the time (unless I ask if something I'm wearing makes my butt looks big... lol), has a great sense of humor, believes wholeheartedly in monogamy, and is very communicatively open to me about themself. He should find himself attractive to more than just slender gals (as I've got some cush to me as you can see... lol), and be interested in possibly spending a substantial amount of time doing fun things together - going places together - discovering new things together as we get to know each other better and see where it may lead. You never know.. something wonderful, lasting, and unforgettable may develop!! I'm not however into long distance relationships so I wouldn't be interested in anyone who doesn't live relatively local to me (as in within an hour's drive.. preferably less), I do expect basic independence (such as.. having a job, vehicle, a place of their own), and unfortunately anyone who works evenings or nights or a lot of weekends or travels a lot for work just would not be compatible with me (since my free time consists of evenings and weekends), nor would anyone who is allergic to or loathes cats (as I do have a cat and a kitten).IF the above has left anyone un-excluded (lol) and I've sparked your interest, drop me a line! I'm really quite friendly.. and seldom bite ;-) Good luck to everyone in finding whatever it is they are seeking! :-)P.S.I answered that I don't smoke... which I don't. I do however "vape" which is using a rechargeable battery-operated electronic device/ecigarette that does not burn anything, it simply vaporizes (by heating) a nicotine or non-nicotine, flavored or non-flavored, liquid known as eliquid/ejuice. The only thing I exhale from the process is a harmless water vapor. There's no second-hand smoke (because there is no smoke in the first place.. only a water vapor) and no known carcinogens. I'm not trying to be deceptive in any manner so this is my disclaimer. If we meet and you don't look like your picture, you have to buy me drinks until you do! :-D (lol)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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