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Kenda, 52

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About Me

Back here again after my last date if you call it that didn't pan out. I'm not looking for the perfect guy just one that I can have a connection with. I am independent and financially secure so if you are the type of person that needs to rescue someone... I may not be it. I would like a full time person. Meaning... I would like to see you more than once a week? If you tell me you are going to do something.. you need to follow through with it. I get along best with someone who can joke around and make me laugh. Someone that knows when to be serious. That is some what a romantic. Someone that can mentally challenge me in conversation. Someone that gets the analyst in me. Someone that enjoys cooking together, home projects or building things, yard work. Lets face it everything isn't fun and games but we could make it be. I've gotten pretty good at driving a deere. I like to do a lot of things from watching a movie at home cuddled up on the sofa to going on a zip line. I will try anything... well almost. Why limit yourself. I don't like to run ***but I like to go out too. I like to have a happy middle ground. I like to plan stuff because certain things have to be planned but also like to fly by the seat of my pants. I am ***percent dedicated to anything I do. I am a person you can count on ***percent. I will have your back at every turn as I hope you would have mine. I am not perfect and I do have a few flaws but I have identified them and I'm working on them. If someone says they don't they are only kidding themselves. Everyone does. At this point in life I'm just looking for an honest, faithful, caring, thoughtful man can that can be my best friend and partner. I don't need someone I would like someone to experience what life and time as to offer. Let's leave options open and be creative. Surprise me.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Shakia

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    Hi -- I'm a smart energetic positive person with very little baggage. I have a good job but enjoy my time off too. Spending time with friends, entertaining/cooking and travel are a few of my interests. I LOVE live music, concerts and love to dance (but Im not very good). -- classic rock, blues, jazz and country. My favorite vacation is the beach - so relaxing. Im a grown woman and a very happy person - would like to share my happiness. I enjoy LSU football too (probably more the tailgate parties, lol.) A bit of a social butterfly ***cant have too many friends. Profile says Im interested in "dating and nothing serious" but who knows. Im fun, easygoing and funny - lets get together. Drinks then maybe dinner if we hit it off. Im easy. Wait...that didnt come out right.

  • Josefa

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    Looking for a friend/lover/companion. Someone to walk & talk or hike with would be great!!I'd like someone who is physically and emotionally available, will love me for my mind, not my body but would rather play with my body, not play with my mind. Seems like a pretty simple concept....easy to grasp =). Someone who can carry on an intelligent conversation. For every person you meet who has that spark of genius there are thousands more walking around with *** I enjoy the company of someone who has a sense of humor and understands my warped one. ; ). Someone who can laugh at themselves - I don't think anyone should take themselves too seriously.I'm a pretty happy person. That doesn't mean that everything is perfect. It just means that I've decided to look beyond the imperfections. We all have things for which to be grateful. I don't need someone to "complete" me. I look at it as icing on the cake. I'm a huge Bears fan, I prefer a pub to a club, my political views lean more towards the liberal crowd. I like lots of different music, except for rap and really really heavy headbanging metal. I believe everyone should go to a Jimmy Buffett concert at least once, if not more. It's as much fun as a person can have without breaking any laws. Fins up!!! I look forward to finding someone to slow dance with.....I haven't done that in ages. It would be nice. Addendum: Just to save time, I'll add here that I prefer dating non-smokers (kind of a big thing with me). I'm not being b*tchy, just being honest. I prefer meeting single men. I'd rather have my own to play with, not someone else's. Thanks for respecting my wishes. =).If you're looking for someone to accompany you to church, I'm probably not your girl. Yes I was raised Catholic but I don't attend church anymore. I lean more towards good karma rather than misguided dogma. I believe there is more than one road to the Divine. I haven't had good luck dating people who aren't fairly "local" (actually I haven't had good luck dating at all!! lol) so I tend to avoid that frustration now. when I get these "so and so" wants to meet you, I take it with a grain of salt, someone saying they like my picture. I usually don't respond unless someone actually writes to me. Just an FYI. by the way, I've been transitioning to a more plant based diet. so I won't be going for a steak or a burger on a date. He's my best friend and we walk all the time on the bike path!! He gets me off the couch just like a best friend would do. She died a couple of years ago. but thanks for your interest! Rent the DVD if you want to experience an "older woman". The Graduate is a great movie!POF made me choose a word to describe my personality. I chose hippy but I think it's supposed to be hippie, lol, like... peace signs, getting back to nature, etc. oh well. And, I'm actually 58. I was told (by a male friend) that nobody would see my profile if I put my true age here. Yes, the pictures are fairly recent. So if it's a problem, I guess I won't hear from you. But at least I made ya look ; ) a first date..hmmmmm. coffee. walk on the bike path. keep it simple.p.s. I hate that they required me to "post my intention, i.e. dating or relationship, etc. If you put "dating" it makes you look like a serial dater. if you put "relationship" it makes you look like you're hunting for a spouse. I'm doing neither of those. It would be nice if I meet someone nice but I don't have high hopes. I haven't even been meeting or dating in a while. I have some things that I'm trying to improve about myself. I've worked 12 hour night shifts for the past 5 years and I've put on a few pounds that I'm not happy about so I'm trying to get them off. But then again.... if someone doesn't want me at my worst, they sure as h*ll don't deserve me at my best. ; )

  • Sacha

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    ..etc...etc. You know, who are we all fooling here, most people enjoy getting out of the house with a friend and having a little fun. I want someone I can go out with in my spare time and enjoy life.I'm not high maintenance. I like most things simple and easy. Really not stressing over finding a relationship...figure if that is going to happen it will and I won't even see it coming.One final note: If your profile says you are looking for a relationship or dating or even just hanging out BUT what you are REALLY looking for are (as they put it on here) intimate encounters (read: sex) than please don't message me. Don't get me wrong I like sex but I am not looking for a hit and run. I am really amazed at how many seem to be baiting women with the idea they are looking to settle down but all they really want is to see if they can get laid. Ok I will get off my soapbox now. I have no preference on a first date location. See told you I wasn't high maintenance. ;)

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