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Shavonda, 53

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About Me

Hello and Thanks for stopping by : )Very laid back, down to earth, honest, intuitive, sincere, lovable and usually a lot of fun to be around once people get to know me. Not the kvetchy or negative type, maybe a little stubborn, lol, but I'm actually very easy to get along with and a good person who believes in the golden rule. I enjoy learning about different cultures and trying out the different types of food - love indian food!Like being outdoors, winter, snow, fishing, bicycle rides, thunderstorms, mountains, beaches, my coffee in the morning, movies, music (except for pink-haired-devil music, cant go there!) and I love the smell of chocolate chip cookies in the oven : ) I am also a photographer and an artist.. I can say that, lol, because I've actually sold a few of my paintings.. but mainly paint more for the relaxation and pleasure. As most of us, I know what I am looking for.. Chemistry, of course, is very important and I tend to favor those who are honest, tall, positive, active and its important to me to be with someone that 'gets' what it means to really know God, having a deeper understanding of his word and willing to grow strong together in our faith. So, I am hoping to eventually meet/connect with someone that shares the same morals and goals as I and also that's really ready to give his heart to someone and grow together if by chance we hit it off. In my opinion, people and interests change so hobbies and likes are just a small part of who we are.. I am not perfect, nor do I expect you to be.. We all have our boundaries but the things that are important to me are Core Values (God, Family, Honesty, Faithfulness, etc..) That is the glue that will hold us together and what I look for in a match. Anyway, I have a good life, It would make it even better to be able to share it with someone special. Maybe its you : )If you have found interest and would like to learn more then it would be a pleasure to hear from you. I get winks, if I write back I never hear anything so I have pretty much stopped replying to those. Have an incredible day.. and good luck to you in your search!When it comes to you, think with your mind... But when it comes to others, think with your heart. Some place public, yet quiet (so that we can hear each other! lol). Go into it as friends.. and leave as friends if it doesnt feel right.. if nothing else, we gain a friend that way : )

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Karyn

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I like to do many things ..Movies, books, baseball, football... or nothing at all. I can relax and read or go fishing or hiking. I love to watch sports on TV or go to the stadium. Never been to the Linc... I go to the gym ***days a week, but still a work in progress. I love to garden, go antiquing and yard sales, listening to live music, picnics in the park... I prefer the mountains over the beach (I'm a redhead.... think lobster) Just about anything...I have one kid in college, one back home after graduating. I have two cats ..... so if you're allergic...Have been dating for three years after being alone for too long. Have met some great people and not so great. I'm low maintenance, easy going, kind, very honest (can't handle liars) and a great listener. I'm definitely a PDA type person...I do love to laugh. I love tall men. (6'+)... in jeans... and a black t-shirt. My favorite :)I want to feel like I'm important to someone.. What I want, need, feel matters. Someone that makes me feel special. This is how I would always treat the man in my life.... Wegman's is a great place for a first meet and greet.... Coffee or drinks? Or anywhere that's not too far away!!

  • Malach

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    PREREQS: Must be a believer and have a relationship with God; pray and give thanks. Adore me; adore my kids and give me the opportunity to love on yours. Treat me and others with kindness and respect. Make me laugh!! LIVE WITH INTENTION. Also, looking for someone who has a bucket list; don't want someone with "destination disease" (feel like they have arrived and have no more goals in life).PHOTOS: Pics taken Summer ***. Yours are recent hopefully ..... outgoing, intelligent, witty, kind, generous, great mom, enthusiastic, adventurous, optimistic, genuine, high energy, creative, classy and confident. I strongly believe that "Our beliefs about ourselves are the most telling factors in determining our level of success and happiness in life."FAMILY: Son Sam ***and daughter Andie Elise ***.; (Mom passed when I was 19.)LIFESTYLE: If you treat your body like a garbage disposal, or are a couch potato we would not be a good match. I'm seeking someone to "do" things with - not just "be" with ... (One of the few blue water lakes in the world! No I wasn't a military brat - just had an adventurous spirit before getting married at 35. Met my husband in AZ and came east for a career opportunity. I've been in NJ for 8 years but really haven't been interested in dating until now. Feels really good to be emotionally free to want to date (and perhaps love) again. John, St... lots of the US. Ha. FOOD: Sushi, sushi, sushi! Oh yea, and designer salads and healthy stuff; clean food. I do enjoy going all out on holidays and special occasions with some comfort food, however, no red meat or corn.) LIBATIONS: A couple glasses of red/white wine to thwart off heart disease, yet not enough to bring on cancer. A beer or two on a hot summer day.PET PEEVES: Jealousy, people with no empathy and those who can't forgive! Oh yea, men (and women) who seem to be desperate. Lastly, people that are *** choice.GOALS: Fall in love again, publish a book ("A Museum of Memories"- I keep a list of ***things and when I accomplish one I replace it. WHAT'S ON YOUR BUCKET LIST?EDUCATION: Undergrad -; Mass Communication) and Grad - ASU (Higher Education and Counseling)WORK LIFE: Independent Career Coach, College ***, Corporate Trainer, Outplacement Specialist, Asst. Dir. Experiential Learning, Career Consultant, Training & Enjoyed all of them .... however, being a Mom is the best!LEISURE LIFE: I like to move; very rarely watch television. Took up knitting and started to read and write more to force me to chill out once in awhile.BLESSINGS: Happy, healthy "fun to be with" kids, supportive family, great friends and prayer warriors. On-Star navigation (a lifesaver), willpower, laughing with the kids, being able to provide new experiences for me and my kids. A roof over my head, food to eat. A wonderful church home. A satisfying career. Chocolate covered strawberries. And the list goes on, and on ... FAVORITE WORD: "Hope" - tatoo strategically located inside wrist over six plates from rollerblading accident. Hope heals; anticipate happiness! MUSIC: Almost everything but angry music; not a big fan of country. Contemporary, Rock/70s and 80s, Native American, enjoy live music.Thank you for reading. I hope we have some things in common ... and good luck to you! And guys, remember, a profile (and resume) is supposed to tell the reader what you have to offer, not what you want so much. So, beef yours up! Keep it real, share, laugh, open and honest. Laugh some more. See if there is some chemistry ... if not, perhaps a friendship! One can never have too many friends, can they? Meet for coffee, a quick lunch or a walk ...

  • Selina

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    My hobbies are cooking,gardening,photography,the ocean,painting,drawing,antiques.My goals and aspirations are,having more time for my art work,teaching families healthy cooking skills,write a book. I feel I'm unique for my long wavy hair,I'm creative,For my love for cooking. I love nature,My taste in music is classic rock, some country even some rap sorry. I like to always try new adventures . I love people, having fun with family and friends. Very passionate about everything in my life. I tend to be very nice and kind with a crazy side also in a good way. Love the rain, walking in the woods after it snows and just lying there and listening to nothing. Watching a fire in the fireplace of course. Listening to music and dancing mostly with that special person alone. Not in clubs but would go once in a while. I usually melt when I meet a man with a little edge to him, with a sense of humor is a must, nice eyes kill me and I love smiles always a good thing. Simple things in life are the best, you do not have to be perfect who is. Confidence in a man I love. I am starting a whole new life very exciting I was in the restaurant business for years. If ya feel like chatting I am a click away. My first date, I would like to meet for coffee in a cozy cafe and maybe take a little walk and talk to get to know each other. Second date who knows what ever we decide together fun and exciting I am sure.

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