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Joy, 53
United States, Pennsylvania, Pen Argyl

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I have been divorced for a few years, and looking for that very special someone; not because I need him, but because I want him. Not looking for someone I can live with; I'm looking for the one I can't live without. Trustworthy to a fault, and expect the same of my partner. Gainfully employed and financially responsible. I am told I am caring, classy, friendly, compassionate, affectionate, sincere, and a good listener. Respect is not negotiable. Hold myself to a high degree of principals and morals. Would be nice to find someone with the same traits. I'm not easily impressed by material things; rather by character, confidence, independence, motivation, kindness and other admirable attributes. I come from a stable background, and would expect mutual stability from any partner. I am drama free and what little baggage I have is kept in the garage. Yours should be kept there, too.I have a daughter who is married and lives in the area. She has given me the most beautiful grandaughter in the world!Bought a cabin at Lake Texoma where I spend some weekends. (While I am enjoying it immensely, it would be nice to share it with someone who enjoys spending time at the lake as much as I do.) I am open to spending weekend time sharing your interests, and doing what you want to do, also.Whatever happened to the day when a man actually courted a woman? And I'm not talking about a man spending a bunch of money on a date. I mean simple stuff ... movies, dinner (taking turns paying), a walk in the park or at the mall (just walking and talking), getting to know one another, learning things about one another, doing fun stuff together; yada, yada, yada. Are those days long gone? Why do men think it's ok to have expectations after a mere cup of coffee? Are most women flattered by this? I just don't get it. I find it all rather insulting, so please ... don't go there. If the sparks are there, AND a relationship, everything else will fall into place.I am here to meet people. If a few e-mails back and forth warrants talking on the phone, great! If phone conversations lead to meeting, that's even better. But if you're simply looking for a pen pal, don't waste my time. Meaningless one line e-mails will hold my attention for 0.2 seconds, or less.My biggest pet peave is when someone makes reference to God with a small "g". For Pete sakes, do we not understand the concept of a proper noun? My second biggest pet peave is when a man doesn't trim his mustache. Nothing looks worse (or feels worse) than a hairy lip!! Ewww!I am not interested in drama, one night stands, or a sugar daddy. I am also not interested in being your sugar mama. I prefer a man with some meat on his bones. I am not a serial dater. I'm looking for one quality man. I'm far from perfect, and I don't expect him to be. Are all the good ones gone?I just bought a new Harley, so if you ride, we could go riding together :)I have given up cigarettes, but I do vape (vapor). Note: 1) I do not date outside my race; 2) I do not date for sport; 3) I do not date married men;; and 5) If you expect or request a response, you must have a photo posted. C'mon guys, photos taken with sunglasses, or photos taken ***mile away from the camera are as good as no photo at all.UPDATE ***: 1) Does meetville suddenly have alot of 5'5" men joining this site? Or is the height default for men at 5'5" and men aren't changing it to their own height? Seems I've been seeing an awful lot of 5'5" male profiles recently, which seems a little odd! Guys, please make sure your height is correct ... you may be getting unfairly overlooked... :***I'm seeing alot more mens profiles with comments like "winks, picture likes, and flirts do NOT work for me. If you think we are a match, please send an *** me why". Really??? Send you an *** the reasons I like your profile, before I even have the slightest clue if there MIGHT be a common interest? It's not going to happen. Any woman with the least amount of class isn't going to get wrapped up in a game of chase by herself. This is a social/dating site, it's not rocket science. If I flirt with you, run with the ball, or drop the ball. It's that simple. ***Put this on your***profile if you***know someone that***died of old age***looking for their***perfect match***on a dating site!P.S.: If anyone asks ... we met in Vegas! For a meet and greet, I prefer coffee only ... no pressure ... just relax and talk, long enough to determine if there is mutual interest. Coffee provides us both with the means for a quick escape. And no, I do not kiss on a meet and greet. If you're looking for a buckle bunny on a first meet, you're looking at the wrong profile. With the exception of the first "date", I believe it should not always be the man's responsibility to pay the tab. Share and share alike.PRIVACY NOTICE:Warning--any person and/or *** this website or any of its associated websites, you do NOT have my permission to utilize any of my profile information nor any of the content contained herein including but not limited to my photos. You are hereby notified that you are strictly prohibited from disclosing, copying, distributing, disseminating, or taking any other action with regard to this profile and the contents herein. The foregoing prohibitions also apply to your employee(s), agent(s), student(s) or any personnel under your direction or control. The contents of this profile are private and legally privileged and confidential information, violation of my personal privacy is punishable by law. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this or you may copy and paste this one.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Caribbean Mexican Spanish Snowboarding
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