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Lydia, 54

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About Me

I am a widow and I have 1 daughter that just returned home from Army training on her 20th birthday! I absolutely love all children and they love me too! They keep me "Young at Heart" and many refer to me as a "Kid Magnet"!! I provide Child Care during the day and by night I am a Dance ***! I'm so excited that along with the Dance Studio where I teach, I am celebrating my 40th Anniversary of teaching dance!! :) I am a very kind, caring and compassionate person and people constantly tell me that I have the "Patience of a Saint"! I am also a very honest, down to earth and responsible woman with a good sense of humor and respect for others as well as their feelings. I value my family and friends immensely! I am very appreciative of what others do for me and I of course ALWAYS reciprocate every kind deed! I am "up with the times" yet a bit "old-fashioned" as well. I place a lot of importance on keeping my family traditions alive and my specialty is preparing/serving all the ethnic foods on Christmas Eve ...my favorite Holiday of the year! I have "varied" interests and I always dress according to the occasion! I enjoy going to casinos, movies, dining out, day/weekend trips, relaxing by a lake or on the beach, picnics, festivals, yard sales/flea markets, amusement parks and more but I am always willing to try new things too! I am a "Jack of ALL Trades" and a master at pretty many with the exception of anything electrical or car repairs!! LOL! I'm NOT afraid to get my hands dirty!! I can do anything from cooking, cleaning and sewing to gardening and home improvements! As far as T.V. shows, I like Sitcoms, Home Improvement Shows, the Food Channel, American Pickers, Pawn Stars, a good Drama and anything to do with Dance! I love music and since it goes with my job, I enjoy all types of music with the exception of Heavy Metal ...but I could bend a bit on that! I believe that COMMUNICATION is the key to any GREAT relationship and romance is very important to me as well. I'm the type to leave little notes or small gifts to surprise my partner but expect that they would do the same for me. I also LOVE preparing special romantic dinners every now and then with a beautifully set table, candlelight, good food, wine and soft music. I'm looking for a SPECIAL man that knows how to treat a lady and I am the type of lady to give my partner lots of TLC!! I want a "MAN" that is HONEST, RESPECTFUL, CARING & CONSIDERATE. I have many good qualities and I'm in search of a partner that has those same qualities too ...someone who doesn't play mind games, lie, cheat, etc... and would like to take the time to get to know me and see where it might lead. For now, friends and dating but eventually hoping for a long term relationship with the right man!P.S. If you IM and I don't respond, it's only because I have trouble w/my IM at times! I am NOT a computer tech so I don't know how to correct the problem with it! :(**Another thing to add... I keep getting *** meetville about specific men that want to meet me and also notice that some have chosen me as a favorite so if that's YOU, why not just send a message to me, if only to say hello??!! A quite dinner with good conversation!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Karyn

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I like to do many things ..Movies, books, baseball, football... or nothing at all. I can relax and read or go fishing or hiking. I love to watch sports on TV or go to the stadium. Never been to the Linc... I go to the gym ***days a week, but still a work in progress. I love to garden, go antiquing and yard sales, listening to live music, picnics in the park... I prefer the mountains over the beach (I'm a redhead.... think lobster) Just about anything...I have one kid in college, one back home after graduating. I have two cats ..... so if you're allergic...Have been dating for three years after being alone for too long. Have met some great people and not so great. I'm low maintenance, easy going, kind, very honest (can't handle liars) and a great listener. I'm definitely a PDA type person...I do love to laugh. I love tall men. (6'+)... in jeans... and a black t-shirt. My favorite :)I want to feel like I'm important to someone.. What I want, need, feel matters. Someone that makes me feel special. This is how I would always treat the man in my life.... Wegman's is a great place for a first meet and greet.... Coffee or drinks? Or anywhere that's not too far away!!

  • Reita

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I am attractive woman who likes to laugh and have good time with a right person. My children are all grown now, so I decided I wanted my life back......lol I like to travel, skiing, tennis, books and movies. Cup of good coffee and nice conversation.

  • Cammy

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    Warm Greetings, to all you Gentlemen! Well, I'll start by saying.... I have returned after being away for 8 years in the South. At first, it was a long cold winter, with a long awaited spring. Then, Spring finally bloomed... that was Awesome! Next, was a nice first summer back! A little beach, some hanging at the lake, gathering with old and new friends, picnics, a few parties. All that brought joy to my heart, helping reconnected me back to a place that I love. I am blessed! Now, summer has passed and the vibrant fall colors are raining down on us. I missed that in the south for sure! So, just taking delight in the last of the warmth, that I know will be fleeting! Not sure I can say I'm excited about the winter moving back in? However, maybe it will bring new opportunities to meet a wonderful man? Somehow that image, brings a little warmth to the scenario! Ever hopeful!Fire places glowing, the aroma's of harvest cooking...apple pie, winter squash, stews and roasts.... as we change gears in our life styles to suit the new season that's fast approaching....a good book, maybe? (well I'll let that thought go for now!) Also...Thanks Giving is just around the corner...with so much to be thankful for!ABOUT ME... I'm a fun, open, down to earth, lady!I like to pay attention to all the little things in life. If you seek a relationship where love and kindness are exchanged everyday in your life... then perhaps we have something in common? At this stage in life, I'd like to put away the drama that seems to seep in, when we aren't looking....for a more relaxed, peaceful and meaningful life. It's important to live right now, the lessons that we have learned in the past. Being open to our future, as a place where we can thrive, share, and enjoy the best things in life. Keeping it FUN is important too, while understanding each others needs. I'm also going to say... Knowing my maker, and having a daily relationship with Jesus, is something that is important in my life. I am not looking for perfection, just a good, loving, relationship, with someone that can relate to me and what I believe.ME PERSONALLY... I love being near any body of water, it soothes my soul. I enjoy nature, being out doors. I like...gardening, long walks, flea markets, traveling, going to festivals and fairs, art galleries, boating, and beaches, theater, I love most live music and dance. I love meeting new people, learning about new cultures. I have been fortunate to have traveled to many places in the past, both in the US, and abroad. I am a creative thinker and have many artsy/crafty things I like doing and learning. I like working side by side on everyday, or weekend projects around the house, with my someone special. So you wont have to do them alone, unless you want to! I love a good adventure and being spontaneous too! I am open to trying new things and sharing interests. I'm usually pretty flexible and adaptable in most things and situations. I try not to watch much TV but, a good move is nice to share. I'm a hopeless romantic too! I enjoy finding new ways of pampering and caring for a mate. Being intimate and affectionate with the right person, can be magical! I also hope you would enjoy fine dinning, theater, or live music on occasion, I enjoy a nice glass of wine with dinner at times. I really enjoy cooking and entertaining, as well as down home BBQ's and picnics. I love fun gatherings with friends and family! I am looking to get healthier as I grow older. If you are into that, then that would be a huge plus for me! Sorry I'm not a sports buff per say. However if you are, I can be supportive, enjoy, and compromise on things that make others happy.To list the things I'm looking for in a man, is a little difficult because... I don't want to put anyone in a box! However, That being said...I tend to like tall men... that are even taller in integrity! Not perfect...Just a good, honest, a little old fashioned, yet worldly and wise, inner strength, with a gentle affectionate side, silly and playful is great too, can be serious and focused when a need be, supportive, and considerate of others, A good communicator, an even better listener! Trust worthy and loyal is a must! Do you seek to open your heart and share what is within you...Your hopes, prayers and dreams, and your fears? You don't have to be just like me, you just have to like me, and be yourself! I hope that offering a smile comes easily to you, and you have a vibrant outlook on life. Please be a compassionate man, To be able to give and take... when the occasions rises...to rise to the occasion!..not having to go it alone!To sum up what I am looking for.....I want to be able to honor you with respect, be able to open my heart completely, with trust and love... thus making you feel comfortable about sharing your heart with me!. JUST FOR THE RECORD! I would simply say...I am a woman of faith!My beliefs are simple...I try very hard, not to cast stones at anyone! Although I am not perfect...I do desire to live a better way in life .... I desire to have "GREATER LOVE" be the force that within me! I am open to idea's on a first date! I think the most important thing is to create a comfort zone in which we can be genuine and open about who we are, and what we desire in our lives'. We get to make fun stuff happen, by being open to it! Please be kind enough to let me know if you are not interested , if I send you a message.....I would greatly appreciate that!God bless each one here, and light your path to find the perfect love for you!

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