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Lydia, 54

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About Me

I am a widow and I have 1 daughter that just returned home from Army training on her 20th birthday! I absolutely love all children and they love me too! They keep me "Young at Heart" and many refer to me as a "Kid Magnet"!! I provide Child Care during the day and by night I am a Dance ***! I'm so excited that along with the Dance Studio where I teach, I am celebrating my 40th Anniversary of teaching dance!! :) I am a very kind, caring and compassionate person and people constantly tell me that I have the "Patience of a Saint"! I am also a very honest, down to earth and responsible woman with a good sense of humor and respect for others as well as their feelings. I value my family and friends immensely! I am very appreciative of what others do for me and I of course ALWAYS reciprocate every kind deed! I am "up with the times" yet a bit "old-fashioned" as well. I place a lot of importance on keeping my family traditions alive and my specialty is preparing/serving all the ethnic foods on Christmas Eve ...my favorite Holiday of the year! I have "varied" interests and I always dress according to the occasion! I enjoy going to casinos, movies, dining out, day/weekend trips, relaxing by a lake or on the beach, picnics, festivals, yard sales/flea markets, amusement parks and more but I am always willing to try new things too! I am a "Jack of ALL Trades" and a master at pretty many with the exception of anything electrical or car repairs!! LOL! I'm NOT afraid to get my hands dirty!! I can do anything from cooking, cleaning and sewing to gardening and home improvements! As far as T.V. shows, I like Sitcoms, Home Improvement Shows, the Food Channel, American Pickers, Pawn Stars, a good Drama and anything to do with Dance! I love music and since it goes with my job, I enjoy all types of music with the exception of Heavy Metal ...but I could bend a bit on that! I believe that COMMUNICATION is the key to any GREAT relationship and romance is very important to me as well. I'm the type to leave little notes or small gifts to surprise my partner but expect that they would do the same for me. I also LOVE preparing special romantic dinners every now and then with a beautifully set table, candlelight, good food, wine and soft music. I'm looking for a SPECIAL man that knows how to treat a lady and I am the type of lady to give my partner lots of TLC!! I want a "MAN" that is HONEST, RESPECTFUL, CARING & CONSIDERATE. I have many good qualities and I'm in search of a partner that has those same qualities too ...someone who doesn't play mind games, lie, cheat, etc... and would like to take the time to get to know me and see where it might lead. For now, friends and dating but eventually hoping for a long term relationship with the right man!P.S. If you IM and I don't respond, it's only because I have trouble w/my IM at times! I am NOT a computer tech so I don't know how to correct the problem with it! :(**Another thing to add... I keep getting *** meetville about specific men that want to meet me and also notice that some have chosen me as a favorite so if that's YOU, why not just send a message to me, if only to say hello??!! A quite dinner with good conversation!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Maira

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I walk before I run. Reduces the risk of tripping and falling on our way to a destination...I might not be the most beautiful or the sexiest, nor do I have the perfect body. I might not be first choice, but I am a great choice. I don't pretend to be someone I'm not, because I'm just too good at being me. I might not be proud of some things I've done in the past, but I'm proud of who I am today. Take me as I am or watch me as I walk away....It seems I need to clarify my previouns paragraph based on comments I've received regarding it. I, in no way, have an issue with self-image - quite the opposite - I'm perfect the way I am; and so is everyone else. That is my point in what I've written above. I'm perfectly imperfect and I expect you are too. So based on that - we either connect or disconnect. No one is for everyone. Now that that's a little clearer. I hope... I spend a lot of time with my female friends, and realize that what I really miss is the one-on-one interaction and company of a man; conversations that bring a different dimension, perspective and understanding. I live my life without expectations, but with plenty of optimism. It all begins with dating and friendship, if there is meant to be more, it will be. Would like nothing more than to experience the 'spark', the 'butterflies' and the passion, yet am secure in knowing time is on my side and patience is a virtue.I am your 'regular girl' (ok, woman)... comfortable in my own skin and secure in my life. Interested in getting to know others who are similar; who like to enjoy life, are optimistic and would rather spend time on the move, than living day to day forming a mold in a couch cushion. You? It's time to be upfront... physical attraction is key. You're someone who takes pride in his appearance. That doesn't mean dressed to impress ***, but well groomed and can look great in a pair of jeans and a t-shirt as well as at that black tie event.-accepting attitude he possessed. So you're open-minded and accepting and are active enough that your belt isn't fastened 7 inches below your waist. You possess some old fashioned values but appreciate what the 21st century has to offer without fear or judgment. You are financially healthy (as am I) and emotionally and physically available to pursue a relationship. A mixture of masculinity and softness and, because I like to wear heels... hopefully taller than 5'9". ;) Negotiations limited, but possible.I feel the need to say that I am not at all looking for a casual relationship. After a 20 yr marriage, I spent some time reintroducing myself to myself and know clearly who I am and what I want/need and don't want/need in my life. I will not settle nor compromise myself and I hope to enhance my life with someone who is open, emotionally available and looking for the same. There are great people out there... I know, I've met quite a few. Dating can harden even the softest of people, but you cannot let it be defeating; there is far too much life to live and enjoy! Mutual respect, being upfront and open are key. This, I know. =) I am not here to find a perpetual *** People were meant to interact and meet, please be ready to get together in a reasonable amount of time if we find there is mutual interest. Texting has its time and purpose, but many misunderstandings can occur. The voice and all its inflections is a beautiful thing. Let's use it.So here's my sleeve. Interpret what I wear on it as you will... ;) “They may forget what you said, but they will never forget how you made them feel.”(Carl W. Buechner) I'm beginning to believe that most on here are using this site as a form of entertainment when they're bored and are either not who they claim to be or are extremely hesitant to take that next step and meet. Please prove me wrong. If you're going to take the time to click 'Meet Me' or make me a 'Favorite', please take the time to send a message. I don't see the point in the first two and pay them no attention. If someone is genuinely interested, I assume they'll reach out Upfront and honest - I have tried to correct my age on this site, which it won't allow. I am one year older than what it says on here and very proud and confident about it!

  • Kalyn

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    ***PLEASE STOP AND READ CAREFULLY***...If you're just looking for sex, move on to other profiles. If you're ready to have a nice phone conversation to decide if there's some sort of chemistry, read on. I'm not here to waste your time, so please don't waste mine. Thank you!Let me start by telling you a little about my background, I was born in Argentina of Italian descent. I consider myself very fortunate to be multi-cultural and multi-lingual. I'm a very simple, low maintenance type of lady. My friends consider me very hard-working, responsible, loyal, honest, dependable and very good listener. I'm interested in a long term, one on one relationship. I don't have time for head games; so if that's what you're into, don't stop here, keep searching. My ideal partner would be a gentleman who's considerate, honest, responsible and would give me the affection and attention I deserve. But in reality it's all about chemistry and a good connection...I don't believe on chatting through the web. It all starts with a phone conversation and if there's some sort of chemistry then we can meet for a cup of coffee or tea and take it from there. We can decide this after we meet for the cup of coffee or tea. If the chemistry is good, decisions are made together from the get go in any good relationship.

  • Dione

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    Hello, I've just relocated to the seacoast area and am enjoying exploring and making new friends. Since life is much more fun and meaningful when shared, I would like to find an active, social, healthy, great guy who enjoys similar interests. With ski season nearly upon us, I want to meet an avid skier who enjoys live music venues, dancing, a lot of affection, making and eating good food and wine together. Turning the page in life since my son's college graduation, I've sold our home of 25 years to begin a new chapter, which includes more travel and creating a lifelong relationship. I have much to offer, with a positive spirit and a warm heart. I keep myself in shape and want a partner who works at staying healthy and young.

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