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Lydia, 54
United States, Pennsylvania, Pen Argyl

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About Me

I am a widow and I have 1 daughter that just returned home from Army training on her 20th birthday! I absolutely love all children and they love me too! They keep me "Young at Heart" and many refer to me as a "Kid Magnet"!! I provide Child Care during the day and by night I am a Dance ***! I'm so excited that along with the Dance Studio where I teach, I am celebrating my 40th Anniversary of teaching dance!! :) I am a very kind, caring and compassionate person and people constantly tell me that I have the "Patience of a Saint"! I am also a very honest, down to earth and responsible woman with a good sense of humor and respect for others as well as their feelings. I value my family and friends immensely! I am very appreciative of what others do for me and I of course ALWAYS reciprocate every kind deed! I am "up with the times" yet a bit "old-fashioned" as well. I place a lot of importance on keeping my family traditions alive and my specialty is preparing/serving all the ethnic foods on Christmas Eve ...my favorite Holiday of the year! I have "varied" interests and I always dress according to the occasion! I enjoy going to casinos, movies, dining out, day/weekend trips, relaxing by a lake or on the beach, picnics, festivals, yard sales/flea markets, amusement parks and more but I am always willing to try new things too! I am a "Jack of ALL Trades" and a master at pretty many with the exception of anything electrical or car repairs!! LOL! I'm NOT afraid to get my hands dirty!! I can do anything from cooking, cleaning and sewing to gardening and home improvements! As far as T.V. shows, I like Sitcoms, Home Improvement Shows, the Food Channel, American Pickers, Pawn Stars, a good Drama and anything to do with Dance! I love music and since it goes with my job, I enjoy all types of music with the exception of Heavy Metal ...but I could bend a bit on that! I believe that COMMUNICATION is the key to any GREAT relationship and romance is very important to me as well. I'm the type to leave little notes or small gifts to surprise my partner but expect that they would do the same for me. I also LOVE preparing special romantic dinners every now and then with a beautifully set table, candlelight, good food, wine and soft music. I'm looking for a SPECIAL man that knows how to treat a lady and I am the type of lady to give my partner lots of TLC!! I want a "MAN" that is HONEST, RESPECTFUL, CARING & CONSIDERATE. I have many good qualities and I'm in search of a partner that has those same qualities too ...someone who doesn't play mind games, lie, cheat, etc... and would like to take the time to get to know me and see where it might lead. For now, friends and dating but eventually hoping for a long term relationship with the right man!P.S. If you IM and I don't respond, it's only because I have trouble w/my IM at times! I am NOT a computer tech so I don't know how to correct the problem with it! :(**Another thing to add... I keep getting *** meetville about specific men that want to meet me and also notice that some have chosen me as a favorite so if that's YOU, why not just send a message to me, if only to say hello??!! A quite dinner with good conversation!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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