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Maira, 51

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About Me

I walk before I run. Reduces the risk of tripping and falling on our way to a destination...I might not be the most beautiful or the sexiest, nor do I have the perfect body. I might not be first choice, but I am a great choice. I don't pretend to be someone I'm not, because I'm just too good at being me. I might not be proud of some things I've done in the past, but I'm proud of who I am today. Take me as I am or watch me as I walk away....It seems I need to clarify my previouns paragraph based on comments I've received regarding it. I, in no way, have an issue with self-image - quite the opposite - I'm perfect the way I am; and so is everyone else. That is my point in what I've written above. I'm perfectly imperfect and I expect you are too. So based on that - we either connect or disconnect. No one is for everyone. Now that that's a little clearer. I hope... I spend a lot of time with my female friends, and realize that what I really miss is the one-on-one interaction and company of a man; conversations that bring a different dimension, perspective and understanding. I live my life without expectations, but with plenty of optimism. It all begins with dating and friendship, if there is meant to be more, it will be. Would like nothing more than to experience the 'spark', the 'butterflies' and the passion, yet am secure in knowing time is on my side and patience is a virtue.I am your 'regular girl' (ok, woman)... comfortable in my own skin and secure in my life. Interested in getting to know others who are similar; who like to enjoy life, are optimistic and would rather spend time on the move, than living day to day forming a mold in a couch cushion. You? It's time to be upfront... physical attraction is key. You're someone who takes pride in his appearance. That doesn't mean dressed to impress ***, but well groomed and can look great in a pair of jeans and a t-shirt as well as at that black tie event.-accepting attitude he possessed. So you're open-minded and accepting and are active enough that your belt isn't fastened 7 inches below your waist. You possess some old fashioned values but appreciate what the 21st century has to offer without fear or judgment. You are financially healthy (as am I) and emotionally and physically available to pursue a relationship. A mixture of masculinity and softness and, because I like to wear heels... hopefully taller than 5'9". ;) Negotiations limited, but possible.I feel the need to say that I am not at all looking for a casual relationship. After a 20 yr marriage, I spent some time reintroducing myself to myself and know clearly who I am and what I want/need and don't want/need in my life. I will not settle nor compromise myself and I hope to enhance my life with someone who is open, emotionally available and looking for the same. There are great people out there... I know, I've met quite a few. Dating can harden even the softest of people, but you cannot let it be defeating; there is far too much life to live and enjoy! Mutual respect, being upfront and open are key. This, I know. =) I am not here to find a perpetual *** People were meant to interact and meet, please be ready to get together in a reasonable amount of time if we find there is mutual interest. Texting has its time and purpose, but many misunderstandings can occur. The voice and all its inflections is a beautiful thing. Let's use it.So here's my sleeve. Interpret what I wear on it as you will... ;) “They may forget what you said, but they will never forget how you made them feel.”(Carl W. Buechner) I'm beginning to believe that most on here are using this site as a form of entertainment when they're bored and are either not who they claim to be or are extremely hesitant to take that next step and meet. Please prove me wrong. If you're going to take the time to click 'Meet Me' or make me a 'Favorite', please take the time to send a message. I don't see the point in the first two and pay them no attention. If someone is genuinely interested, I assume they'll reach out Upfront and honest - I have tried to correct my age on this site, which it won't allow. I am one year older than what it says on here and very proud and confident about it!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Shavonda

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    Hello and Thanks for stopping by : )Very laid back, down to earth, honest, intuitive, sincere, lovable and usually a lot of fun to be around once people get to know me. Not the kvetchy or negative type, maybe a little stubborn, lol, but I'm actually very easy to get along with and a good person who believes in the golden rule. I enjoy learning about different cultures and trying out the different types of food - love indian food!Like being outdoors, winter, snow, fishing, bicycle rides, thunderstorms, mountains, beaches, my coffee in the morning, movies, music (except for pink-haired-devil music, cant go there!) and I love the smell of chocolate chip cookies in the oven : ) I am also a photographer and an artist.. I can say that, lol, because I've actually sold a few of my paintings.. but mainly paint more for the relaxation and pleasure. As most of us, I know what I am looking for.. Chemistry, of course, is very important and I tend to favor those who are honest, tall, positive, active and its important to me to be with someone that 'gets' what it means to really know God, having a deeper understanding of his word and willing to grow strong together in our faith. So, I am hoping to eventually meet/connect with someone that shares the same morals and goals as I and also that's really ready to give his heart to someone and grow together if by chance we hit it off. In my opinion, people and interests change so hobbies and likes are just a small part of who we are.. I am not perfect, nor do I expect you to be.. We all have our boundaries but the things that are important to me are Core Values (God, Family, Honesty, Faithfulness, etc..) That is the glue that will hold us together and what I look for in a match. Anyway, I have a good life, It would make it even better to be able to share it with someone special. Maybe its you : )If you have found interest and would like to learn more then it would be a pleasure to hear from you. I get winks, if I write back I never hear anything so I have pretty much stopped replying to those. Have an incredible day.. and good luck to you in your search!When it comes to you, think with your mind... But when it comes to others, think with your heart. Some place public, yet quiet (so that we can hear each other! lol). Go into it as friends.. and leave as friends if it doesnt feel right.. if nothing else, we gain a friend that way : )

  • Sharell

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    As summer is ending and fall is just around the corner, l am looking forward to some new adventures and making a connection hopefully leading to a lasting relationship. At this stage of my life, it's time to share great new experiences with someone special. I love going places like the shore, wine tastings, craft shows, street fairs, weekend getaways, having fun and being spontaneous. However, time shared together would be fun wherever we are, even if at home watching a movie or having great conversation. I have two adult children who mean the world to me. They live on their own, so I have the time to spend with someone special. I am a very open and honest person. I tell it like it is and expect the same in return. I am the type of person who is always there for my family and friends and greatly admire this quality in somebody else.

  • Yuriko

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    Life is short. Break the rules. Forgive quickly. Kiss slowly. Love truly. Laugh uncontrollably. And never regret anything that made you smile.Love to laugh and enjoy life. Hoping to meet someone with similar interests. Like to cook a nice meal at home but do like to dine out as well. Enjoys movies and music. I would like to meet someone who enjoys life! Is that you? We will figure that out.

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