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Maira
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Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.
Looking for: man. In age: 48-58
I walk before I run. Reduces the risk of tripping and falling on our way to a destination...I might not be the most beautiful or the sexiest, nor do I have the perfect body. I might not be first choice, but I am a great choice. I don't pretend to be someone I'm not, because I'm just too good at being me. I might not be proud of some things I've done in the past, but I'm proud of who I am today. Take me as I am or watch me as I walk away....It seems I need to clarify my previouns paragraph based on comments I've received regarding it. I, in no way, have an issue with self-image - quite the opposite - I'm perfect the way I am; and so is everyone else. That is my point in what I've written above. I'm perfectly imperfect and I expect you are too. So based on that - we either connect or disconnect. No one is for everyone. Now that that's a little clearer. I hope... I spend a lot of time with my female friends, and realize that what I really miss is the one-on-one interaction and company of a man; conversations that bring a different dimension, perspective and understanding. I live my life without expectations, but with plenty of optimism. It all begins with dating and friendship, if there is meant to be more, it will be. Would like nothing more than to experience the 'spark', the 'butterflies' and the passion, yet am secure in knowing time is on my side and patience is a virtue.I am your 'regular girl' (ok, woman)... comfortable in my own skin and secure in my life. Interested in getting to know others who are similar; who like to enjoy life, are optimistic and would rather spend time on the move, than living day to day forming a mold in a couch cushion. You? It's time to be upfront... physical attraction is key. You're someone who takes pride in his appearance. That doesn't mean dressed to impress ***, but well groomed and can look great in a pair of jeans and a t-shirt as well as at that black tie event.-accepting attitude he possessed. So you're open-minded and accepting and are active enough that your belt isn't fastened 7 inches below your waist. You possess some old fashioned values but appreciate what the 21st century has to offer without fear or judgment. You are financially healthy (as am I) and emotionally and physically available to pursue a relationship. A mixture of masculinity and softness and, because I like to wear heels... hopefully taller than 5'9". ;) Negotiations limited, but possible.I feel the need to say that I am not at all looking for a casual relationship. After a 20 yr marriage, I spent some time reintroducing myself to myself and know clearly who I am and what I want/need and don't want/need in my life. I will not settle nor compromise myself and I hope to enhance my life with someone who is open, emotionally available and looking for the same. There are great people out there... I know, I've met quite a few. Dating can harden even the softest of people, but you cannot let it be defeating; there is far too much life to live and enjoy! Mutual respect, being upfront and open are key. This, I know. =) I am not here to find a perpetual *** People were meant to interact and meet, please be ready to get together in a reasonable amount of time if we find there is mutual interest. Texting has its time and purpose, but many misunderstandings can occur. The voice and all its inflections is a beautiful thing. Let's use it.So here's my sleeve. Interpret what I wear on it as you will... ;) “They may forget what you said, but they will never forget how you made them feel.”(Carl W. Buechner) I'm beginning to believe that most on here are using this site as a form of entertainment when they're bored and are either not who they claim to be or are extremely hesitant to take that next step and meet. Please prove me wrong. If you're going to take the time to click 'Meet Me' or make me a 'Favorite', please take the time to send a message. I don't see the point in the first two and pay them no attention. If someone is genuinely interested, I assume they'll reach out Upfront and honest - I have tried to correct my age on this site, which it won't allow. I am one year older than what it says on here and very proud and confident about it!
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Sharell
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Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: man. In age: 50-60
As summer is ending and fall is just around the corner, l am looking forward to some new adventures and making a connection hopefully leading to a lasting relationship. At this stage of my life, it's time to share great new experiences with someone special. I love going places like the shore, wine tastings, craft shows, street fairs, weekend getaways, having fun and being spontaneous. However, time shared together would be fun wherever we are, even if at home watching a movie or having great conversation. I have two adult children who mean the world to me. They live on their own, so I have the time to spend with someone special. I am a very open and honest person. I tell it like it is and expect the same in return. I am the type of person who is always there for my family and friends and greatly admire this quality in somebody else.
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Malach
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Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.
Looking for: man. In age: 50-60
PREREQS: Must be a believer and have a relationship with God; pray and give thanks. Adore me; adore my kids and give me the opportunity to love on yours. Treat me and others with kindness and respect. Make me laugh!! LIVE WITH INTENTION. Also, looking for someone who has a bucket list; don't want someone with "destination disease" (feel like they have arrived and have no more goals in life).PHOTOS: Pics taken Summer ***. Yours are recent hopefully ..... outgoing, intelligent, witty, kind, generous, great mom, enthusiastic, adventurous, optimistic, genuine, high energy, creative, classy and confident. I strongly believe that "Our beliefs about ourselves are the most telling factors in determining our level of success and happiness in life."FAMILY: Son Sam ***and daughter Andie Elise ***.; (Mom passed when I was 19.)LIFESTYLE: If you treat your body like a garbage disposal, or are a couch potato we would not be a good match. I'm seeking someone to "do" things with - not just "be" with ... (One of the few blue water lakes in the world! No I wasn't a military brat - just had an adventurous spirit before getting married at 35. Met my husband in AZ and came east for a career opportunity. I've been in NJ for 8 years but really haven't been interested in dating until now. Feels really good to be emotionally free to want to date (and perhaps love) again. John, St... lots of the US. Ha. FOOD: Sushi, sushi, sushi! Oh yea, and designer salads and healthy stuff; clean food. I do enjoy going all out on holidays and special occasions with some comfort food, however, no red meat or corn.) LIBATIONS: A couple glasses of red/white wine to thwart off heart disease, yet not enough to bring on cancer. A beer or two on a hot summer day.PET PEEVES: Jealousy, people with no empathy and those who can't forgive! Oh yea, men (and women) who seem to be desperate. Lastly, people that are *** choice.GOALS: Fall in love again, publish a book ("A Museum of Memories"- I keep a list of ***things and when I accomplish one I replace it. WHAT'S ON YOUR BUCKET LIST?EDUCATION: Undergrad -; Mass Communication) and Grad - ASU (Higher Education and Counseling)WORK LIFE: Independent Career Coach, College ***, Corporate Trainer, Outplacement Specialist, Asst. Dir. Experiential Learning, Career Consultant, Training & Enjoyed all of them .... however, being a Mom is the best!LEISURE LIFE: I like to move; very rarely watch television. Took up knitting and started to read and write more to force me to chill out once in awhile.BLESSINGS: Happy, healthy "fun to be with" kids, supportive family, great friends and prayer warriors. On-Star navigation (a lifesaver), willpower, laughing with the kids, being able to provide new experiences for me and my kids. A roof over my head, food to eat. A wonderful church home. A satisfying career. Chocolate covered strawberries. And the list goes on, and on ... FAVORITE WORD: "Hope" - tatoo strategically located inside wrist over six plates from rollerblading accident. Hope heals; anticipate happiness! MUSIC: Almost everything but angry music; not a big fan of country. Contemporary, Rock/70s and 80s, Native American, enjoy live music.Thank you for reading. I hope we have some things in common ... and good luck to you! And guys, remember, a profile (and resume) is supposed to tell the reader what you have to offer, not what you want so much. So, beef yours up! Keep it real, share, laugh, open and honest. Laugh some more. See if there is some chemistry ... if not, perhaps a friendship! One can never have too many friends, can they? Meet for coffee, a quick lunch or a walk ...