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Clover, 51
United States, Pennsylvania, Oakdale

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About Me

I'm back again after taking a break from Plenty of Fish. I lost some of the mail sent to me, people who favourited me and people who used the "Meet Me" feature. If you did and would like to try again, please do.~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~I'm a single woman, early 50s, average looks, glasses. Personality-wise, I would describe myself as an introspective sort, sometimes serious and intense, other times more laid back and easy-going. I have been labeled shy at times, but I consider myself more quiet-natured and reserved, with an occasional need for solitude and contemplation. I'm a positive person, an optimist, quiet at first when I meet someone, until I get to know them. I've been told I have a great sense of humour and a great smile. I'm honest to a fault and I don't play games. I consider myself intelligent. I have an interest in pursuing conversation on a variety of topics. I have a naturally inquisitive mind and I'm always asking questions. I like men who are intelligent and knowledgeable, but that doesn't mean that I have requirements about formal education.I go for drives often and would enjoy having company. I love to travel and explore but love it less so by myself. Music is one of my passions ..... it inspires me. I grew up on rock & roll but I love all music that moves me, emotionally and/or literally. I’m not a bar person, but love live bands. I play the guitar.I also like to just hang out at home and chill.....reading, playing my guitar, Internet surfing, watching TV, or listening to music. Just relax & enjoy life. I love spending rainy or winter stormy days in bed with a newspaper or good book and a cup of coffee or tea. My philosophy of life is rooted in social justice and human dignity. I'm a very tolerant, understanding person. I feel that all people are valuable and much can be learned from others if we remain open. Tolerance of others, especially those society has marginalized, is one of my greatest virtues. I’m looking for a kind and intelligent man. Who is interested in forming a friendship first, and using that foundation to build a long-term relationship. Lasting love takes time and I'd like to get to know someone and let things take their natural course. You should be no more eager to rush into things than I am, and will truly understand that. I’ Traveling life together in the calm and in the storms. You and I are two imperfect people, in an imperfect world, trying to do life right. I truly want to fall in love with someone. Let me know if you are out there. Tell me your dreams.If you are a bit of a geek or nerd, that would be a plus. Farmers and men who live out in the country are more than welcome to respond.Please do not write me if you are a sports fanatic. I like sports but I'm not fanatical about them.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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