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Merideth, 51
United States, Pennsylvania, Oakdale

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About Me

The dreaded box that is supposed to tell any and all possible readers about ourselves and what we are looking for. Sounds easy enough ... So then why do I have writers block ? Laughter and great conversation are at the top of my list. A real connection with someone who genuinely wants to get to know me and will allow me the honor to know his thoughts and feelings. I would like to have someone in my life , to share adventures , bottles of wine , silly text messages. I am easy going and do not come with a big bag of drama ! It is a start at least ... Update : It donned on me this morning that online dating is kind of like shoe shopping ...When I first hit the "search" button and all the various profiles come up on my screen, I recognize the same excited feeling I get when I enter a shoe store. All the many types and styles catch my curious eye. At first darting quickly from one to another, and then, choosing a few that make my heart race - just a little. I see the flashy, sparkly man / stiletto. Always a good choice for a fun night out. Alas, in the end however, the evening usually ends with my feet feeling a little sore and my heart longing for more.The athletic man / shoe is also a choice at times. Flash forward to climbing The Grouse Grind as a first date. I am sucking on my asthma inhaler , my perfectly straightened hair going frizzy from all the perspiring I am doing and my water bottle being drank with the same enjoyment that I sometimes feel for a lovely bottle of Pinot Grigio. Not always my first choice, but with the right encouragement can be good for the soul.High on the shelf there is also the comfy man / shoe. Perfect for quiet evenings at home, watching a movie or grabbing take out food. Sweet. The never go wrong kind of guy / shoe. The ever popular flip flops / man ! Let's grab a blanket and head to the beach with your guitar and some food ! ( Note to self : get a pedicure ) Oh , and then there are boots / men !!.. The choices are endless ... Some days on here, a few catch my eye. Some days, I need to keep looking as nothing quite fits my life right now. I wonder what today will bring ?Good luck to all in finding just the right fit for our perfect day !! A bottle of wine and a quiet spot , so we can have a real conversation.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Pop Documentary Drama Fantasy Music Volleyball
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  • Sanda from Oakdale | Woman | 54 years old | Gemini
    Sanda

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    Depending on the situation or activity, I can be low-key and reserved or high-energy. And, it's difficult to compare myself with others but I feel I'm in very good physical shape...I enjoy hiking, cycling (road cycling and rail-trails) and still use my cross-country skis. My preference would be to enjoy your company and get to know you while we spend time together outdoors...why don't we meet up to go kayaking, canoeing, hiking, or sailing together? (There are many rivers and lakes to explore in Pa.) When I have any free time, I prefer spending it outdoors or going to concerts. I studied visual arts in college and taught arts & humanities for most of my career.- June through mid- At some point, I would like to ..canoe in the Adirondackes, sail anywhere, hike in the White Mts. of NH, Shining Rock Wilderness Area in NC or State Parks in Pa., do some star-gazing in remote areas, and find time to draw/paint outdoors. I've had to be practical while raising my daughter and have stuck it out for her (in the middle of nowhere and hours from anywhere). Now that I can retire..or cut back to an easier part-time job, I will have more time to travel. I am seeking direction on this site (but, I wonder is this too idealistic or unrealistic?..).), enjoy the outdoors, learn a folk ***, and spend more of my free time volunteering. Music: americana 'roots', folk, world, celtic, swing/big band, some rock. Favorite recent songs: 'That's the way love goes.' (Shawn Colvin &; Ride). Books: currently reading The Plot Against America. Favorite books last year: The Warmth of Other Suns: The Epic Story of America's Great Migration, Blink, Outliers. It's also nice to get together for an activity such as a hike.

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  • Sharilyn from Oakdale | Woman | 54 years old | Aries
    Sharilyn

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    English is my second language...I do not like this part, it is like having interview with my self.I am very social but i also like quiet time, movie or book can be great company.I love and i love traveling, exploring different cultures, history, architecture and of course people.My passion is cooking, love water, swimming, sailing, hiking and walks but also just to working out make me happy.I love life, people( well not all of them), animals and i cant imagine life without music. We should make decision together.

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  • Lou from Oakdale | Woman | 55 years old | Libra
    Lou

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    I JUST WANT THE REAL THING. NO ONE THAT IS STILL IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE ELSE.NO ONE WHO IS SELFISH OR MATERIALISTIC.SOMEONE THAT LOVES TO KISS AND TO TOUCH AND TO BE TOUCHED :) I LOVE FISHING, CAMPING, PLAYING POOL, SWIMMING, KARAOKE..IM NOT INTO THE BAR SCENE EITHER.I AM AN EXTRAORDINARY COOKI JUST LOVE TO LOVEI LOVE GODI LOVE MY MOMMAI LOVE MY KIDS SOOOOOOO MUCH,SO IF YOU DONT LIKE KIDS IM NOT YOUR GIRLI AIM TO PLEASE AND YOUR FEELINGS ARE IMPORTANT TO ME, CAUSE IF YOUR HAPPY IM HAPPIERCRY DURRING CERTAIN MOVIES WHEN THE HERO DIESMY DILIKES ARE AS FOLLOWSREALLY HEAVY MEN I HATE PERVERTS YOU WILL ONLY MAKE ME WANT TO BLOCK YOUCHEATERS IF YOU FEEL THAT YOU ARE IN A RELATIONSHIP YOU NO LONGER ARE HAPPY IN LEAVE THAT SIMPLEDRUNKSDRUGGIESLIARSTHIEVES I DONT WANT ANYONE THAT IS NOT HONEST. HONESTY IS VERY BIG TO MEIF YOU FEEL YOU WANNA WRITE ME TO BE *** WILL BLOCK YOU.I TREAT PEOPLE HOW I WANNA BE TREATED SO KEEP THAT IN MIND. KARMA IS REAL I KNOW IVE EXPERIENCED IT!IF YOU WANNA KNOW MORE ASK.. something simple yet perfect.

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