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Tanisha, 51
United States, Pennsylvania, Northampton

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Loving, fun, affectionate, good sense of humor and personality, sweet, kind, thoughtful, honest and looking for same. I am looking for a serious relationship. I am a widow and loved my husband very much..He was a wonderful man and we had a wonderful marriage. I love to laugh and I enjoy doing anything with someone as long as they are fun to be with. U have to make me laugh..u can't just look good...I have a good job that I have been on for 28 yrs..I have my own home, car, and my own money..but not enough to take care of someone else...so make sure u have ur own..don't need a man for those things...want someone to complete life with..finish growing older with..share every day life with..want a man who is an asset to my life, not a liability..and I will b the same to his. I am not a pencil thin runway model; I am 5'3" and curvy; I'm Italian..come on....we eat pasta....I do go to the gym 4x a week to keep my curves...I kinda like them...I'm solid from working out since ***..on a regular basis..not just every January from a new years resolution...SO, with that being said; if u r one of those men who want a skinny, tall, blonde with big boobs; pass me up...thats not me....I am SO much more than that!!!!! If u treat me like ur queen then I will treat u like my king...I am a.Christian..I believe n the one and only God..so if u believe n a different one or none at all, then u r not the king for me. I am not at church every time the doors r open..I try to go at least once a month but I know who my rock is and who I can turn to and He will always b there for me.. I do not need to see naked photos of ur private parts nor will I b sending pics of myself n a swim suit. I am not on here to apply for a swimsuit model position. I mean come on men, we r 50, not 25.....if we did, we wudnt need to b on here...I know physical attraction is important..u have to b able to look into the eyes of the person sitting across the table from u and want them..but want them n every way....look at the whole package...what about ten years from now when they don't look as good n that swim suit...will u still want them? Ok, I was on a roll..I will get off my soapbox now...just saying..beauty is only skin deep..don't judge a book by its cover only..."while you're busy looking for the perfect person, you'll probably miss the imperfect person who could make u perfectly happy."...besides...there is nobody more perfect than I am.....just kidding....well..one...Jesus...Thanks for stopping by...Just a side note: 90% of the men I have met on here, tell me I look better in person so apparently my photos aren't doing it for me..Just sayin.Ok guys...I didn't think I wud have to spell it out...but I guess I do.....u must have these things:A full time jobA carAnd all ur teeth...they can b fake...just all of themIs that too much to ask? Somewhere to talk....share interests, ideas, thoughts, values, etc.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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