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TanishaOffline
Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.
Looking for: man. In age: 48-58
Loving, fun, affectionate, good sense of humor and personality, sweet, kind, thoughtful, honest and looking for same. I am looking for a serious relationship. I am a widow and loved my husband very much..He was a wonderful man and we had a wonderful marriage. I love to laugh and I enjoy doing anything with someone as long as they are fun to be with. U have to make me laugh..u can't just look good...I have a good job that I have been on for 28 yrs..I have my own home, car, and my own money..but not enough to take care of someone else...so make sure u have ur own..don't need a man for those things...want someone to complete life with..finish growing older with..share every day life with..want a man who is an asset to my life, not a liability..and I will b the same to his. I am not a pencil thin runway model; I am 5'3" and curvy; I'm Italian..come on....we eat pasta....I do go to the gym 4x a week to keep my curves...I kinda like them...I'm solid from working out since ***..on a regular basis..not just every January from a new years resolution...SO, with that being said; if u r one of those men who want a skinny, tall, blonde with big boobs; pass me up...thats not me....I am SO much more than that!!!!! If u treat me like ur queen then I will treat u like my king...I am a.Christian..I believe n the one and only God..so if u believe n a different one or none at all, then u r not the king for me. I am not at church every time the doors r open..I try to go at least once a month but I know who my rock is and who I can turn to and He will always b there for me.. I do not need to see naked photos of ur private parts nor will I b sending pics of myself n a swim suit. I am not on here to apply for a swimsuit model position. I mean come on men, we r 50, not 25.....if we did, we wudnt need to b on here...I know physical attraction is important..u have to b able to look into the eyes of the person sitting across the table from u and want them..but want them n every way....look at the whole package...what about ten years from now when they don't look as good n that swim suit...will u still want them? Ok, I was on a roll..I will get off my soapbox now...just saying..beauty is only skin deep..don't judge a book by its cover only..."while you're busy looking for the perfect person, you'll probably miss the imperfect person who could make u perfectly happy."...besides...there is nobody more perfect than I am.....just kidding....well..one...Jesus...Thanks for stopping by...Just a side note: 90% of the men I have met on here, tell me I look better in person so apparently my photos aren't doing it for me..Just sayin.Ok guys...I didn't think I wud have to spell it out...but I guess I do.....u must have these things:A full time jobA carAnd all ur teeth...they can b fake...just all of themIs that too much to ask? Somewhere to talk....share interests, ideas, thoughts, values, etc.
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QianaOffline
Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.
Looking for: man. In age: 48-58
I am a divorced lady with no children. I am still friendly with my ex, and now feel ready to get back into the social scene. I work for a large travel agency and would love to have someone to travel with! I have two cats, whom I love, and I plan to add a dog to my home very soon, so you MUST be an animal lover! I don't care about age, as long as it's not too huge a gap either way. I am looking for someone easygoing, stable, and calm, who enjoys going out but also likes to stay home and veg once in a while. Anyone I'm with has to be at least somewhat liberal, yet also not hate country music!This poem is a favorite of mine. If it speaks to you also, please contact me!The DanceI have sent you my invitation,the note inscribed on the palm of my hand by the fire of living.Don’t jump up and shout, “Yes, this is what I want! Let’s do it!”Just stand up quietly and dance with me.Show me how you follow your deepest desires,spiraling down into the ache within the ache,and I will show you how I reach inward and open outwardto feel the kiss of the Mystery, sweet lips on my own, every day.Don’t tell me you want to hold the whole world in your heart.Show me how you turn away from making another wrong without abandoning yourself whenyou are hurt and afraid of being unloved.Tell me a story of who you are,and see who I am in the stories I live.And together we will remember that each of us always has a choice.Don’t tell me how wonderful things will be . . . some day.Show me you can risk being completely at peace,truly okay with the way things are right now in this moment,and again in the next and the next and the next. . .I have heard enough warrior stories of heroic daring.Tell me how you crumble when you hit the wall,the place you cannot go beyond by the strength of your own will.What carries you to the other side of that wall, to the fragile beauty of your own humanness?And after we have shown each other how we have set and kept the clear, healthy boundaries thathelp us live side by side with each other, let us risk remembering that we never stop silentlylovingthose we once loved out loud.Take me to the places on the earth that teach you how to dance,the places where you can risk letting the world break your heart.And I will take you to the places where the earth beneath my feet and the stars overhead makemy heart whole again and again.Show me how you take care of businesswithout letting business determine who you are.When the children are fed but still the voices within and around us shout that soul’s desires havetoo high a price,let us remind each other that it is never about the money.Show me how you offer to your people and the worldthe stories and the songsyou want our children’s children to remember.And I will show you how I struggle not to change the world,but to love it.Sit beside me in long moments of shared solitude,knowing both our absolute aloneness and our undeniable belonging.Dance with me in the silence and in the sound of small daily words,holding neither against me at the end of the day.And when the sound of all the declarations of our sincerestintentions has died away on the wind,dance with me in the infinite pause before the next great inhaleof the breath that is breathing us all into being,not filling the emptiness from the outside or from within.Don’t say, “Yes!”Just take my hand and dance with me.© Oriah Mountain Dreamer, from the book The Dance, HarperONE, SanFrancisco, ***I like to keep the first meeting pretty casual -- a cup of coffee or maybe a glass of wine, conversation, see what comes from that . . .
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LoriannOffline
Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.
Looking for: man. In age: 50-60
I had this all filled out and then deleted it. I just want to say that it doesn't matter rather you meet someone in a bar are on a dating site. Things always seem the same. I have met two men on this site and neither one of them ever called me again after we met. I'm not a Barbie doll by no means. But there was a time in my life when I used to shine. And just remember if you want Barbie. You need to be ken. I don't understand what men are looking for in a woman. I would just like to meet a man who is not looking for Barbie. I think it's so rude to not answer a message. Even if you don't like the looks of the person that is sending it. A real man knows how to treat a lady even if he's not attracted to her. Okay. I just wanted to vent. I think it just depends on the person...maybe out to eat, just to talk and get to know each other...a baseball/football game would be nice also...lol