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JudeOffline
Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: man. In age: 52-62
Hello, If it were my perfect world you and I would be sitting outside on the porch swing listening to the rain come down on the tin roof. This would of course be in the middle of my ***acres and my yellow lab would be sitting by my side. I’ve been here a little longer than you, because after a great home cooked dinner that I made just for you, you stayed inside and did the dishes and ironed my clothes for work the next day. Hey, it’s my perfect world. LOL. Unfortunately, it’s not a perfect world. I don’t live on ***acres and I don’t even have a dog. But I am a good cook and I have a very good imagination! I love to laugh till its hurts. I love the smell of babies, puppies, horses and fresh cut hay. I have a lot of interest but love outside activities most. I’m very active and I love to ride my horse, especially if trail riding in the mountains. I like to hike in the woods, walk in the park or just sit and relax on the "make believe" porch swing :) . I am an avid reader and have been known to check out as many as 18 books from the library at one time. I’m creative and artistic. I would love to take stained glass classes. My favorite beverage is sweet iced tea. I am just as comfortable in heels and a dress at a fine dining restaurant as I am in jeans and boots shucking the barn or riding on the back of your bike. I listen mostly to Country music but can listen to anything except rap and hard rock. But the thing I enjoy most is spending time with my family, especially my 2 grandchildren, ages 2 and 5 months. They are my rock. I am an honest, loving, caring woman who doesn't play games. I not dead set on finding my "one". I don't need anyone to complete me.....but it would be nice to have someoen to share my life with. If you can make me laugh, all the better. I would love to find someone who makes me laugh, and that I can't wait until the next time I see him. But that doesn't have to be the next day or even the day after that. I think there can be an *** but not *** I am not naive enough to think that we all don't have baggage or drama in our lives......and neither should you. My only "rule" to that is to keep it out of our relationship. In other words......don't blame me for the shortcomings of your ex.....I am not them....I am my own woman. So now for the things I don’t like: I hate to fold clothes and I hate my alarm clock in the mornings. I’m terrified of birds. Yes all birds, but the good news is that’s the most neurotic thing about me. I refuse to talk politics, and don't like picky eaters or mean people. I’m not a jealous person, and I could never be with anyone who is. If there isn’t trust there’s nothing. This is where I’ll be perfectly honest: I am not interested in dating outside my race; it’s just not in my comfort zone. If you don’t close your mouth when you chew food you just aren’t for me. If you are vegitarian or vegan it won't work because I love a big juicy steak. If you don't have your own car don't expect me to pick you up. Yes its happened :( . If you don't have a picture I will assume you are married or have something to hide so please don't contact me. After we have messaged a few times on this site, I think we should talk on the phone. You can tell so much more about a person if you actually talk. Then we meet for lunch or drinks. Something short in case we don't click. Also, if you promise to tell me that you just aren't in to me I will do the same.
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QianaOffline
Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.
Looking for: man. In age: 48-58
I am a divorced lady with no children. I am still friendly with my ex, and now feel ready to get back into the social scene. I work for a large travel agency and would love to have someone to travel with! I have two cats, whom I love, and I plan to add a dog to my home very soon, so you MUST be an animal lover! I don't care about age, as long as it's not too huge a gap either way. I am looking for someone easygoing, stable, and calm, who enjoys going out but also likes to stay home and veg once in a while. Anyone I'm with has to be at least somewhat liberal, yet also not hate country music!This poem is a favorite of mine. If it speaks to you also, please contact me!The DanceI have sent you my invitation,the note inscribed on the palm of my hand by the fire of living.Don’t jump up and shout, “Yes, this is what I want! Let’s do it!”Just stand up quietly and dance with me.Show me how you follow your deepest desires,spiraling down into the ache within the ache,and I will show you how I reach inward and open outwardto feel the kiss of the Mystery, sweet lips on my own, every day.Don’t tell me you want to hold the whole world in your heart.Show me how you turn away from making another wrong without abandoning yourself whenyou are hurt and afraid of being unloved.Tell me a story of who you are,and see who I am in the stories I live.And together we will remember that each of us always has a choice.Don’t tell me how wonderful things will be . . . some day.Show me you can risk being completely at peace,truly okay with the way things are right now in this moment,and again in the next and the next and the next. . .I have heard enough warrior stories of heroic daring.Tell me how you crumble when you hit the wall,the place you cannot go beyond by the strength of your own will.What carries you to the other side of that wall, to the fragile beauty of your own humanness?And after we have shown each other how we have set and kept the clear, healthy boundaries thathelp us live side by side with each other, let us risk remembering that we never stop silentlylovingthose we once loved out loud.Take me to the places on the earth that teach you how to dance,the places where you can risk letting the world break your heart.And I will take you to the places where the earth beneath my feet and the stars overhead makemy heart whole again and again.Show me how you take care of businesswithout letting business determine who you are.When the children are fed but still the voices within and around us shout that soul’s desires havetoo high a price,let us remind each other that it is never about the money.Show me how you offer to your people and the worldthe stories and the songsyou want our children’s children to remember.And I will show you how I struggle not to change the world,but to love it.Sit beside me in long moments of shared solitude,knowing both our absolute aloneness and our undeniable belonging.Dance with me in the silence and in the sound of small daily words,holding neither against me at the end of the day.And when the sound of all the declarations of our sincerestintentions has died away on the wind,dance with me in the infinite pause before the next great inhaleof the breath that is breathing us all into being,not filling the emptiness from the outside or from within.Don’t say, “Yes!”Just take my hand and dance with me.© Oriah Mountain Dreamer, from the book The Dance, HarperONE, SanFrancisco, ***I like to keep the first meeting pretty casual -- a cup of coffee or maybe a glass of wine, conversation, see what comes from that . . .
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LoraleeOffline
Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 50-60
I enjoy the simple things in life…a walk at sunset along the beach, the view of the sun setting over a mountain range. Life is good...I have good friends and though life has thrown a few curves my way I try to keep things simple and laid back. Life is a journey...I don’t always like where it takes me but God will see me through. God blessed me with two wonderful boys. I enjoy my kids, my grandkids, camping (although some may say not in the traditional sense…; I like Soft Rock and Country music . I've determined that life is just too short to live your life worried about other's opinion...no one is promised another tomorrow so I want to laugh, love and live life to the fullest!I'm looking for my soulmate, my best friend and a partner in life. I'm not looking for a booty call. So if this is what you're looking for please pass me by.