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Shanti, 55

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About Me

I am a bit of a homebody, but do like to travel to tropical islands. I love nature, plants,animals and even bugs. I have cats and I often have a pet insect. Usually a praying mantis or a jumping spider. I have an awesome garden and love spending time outdoors. Feeding chipmunks peanuts is one of my favorite things. I love to get lost in a good book(non-fiction). I love photographing nature. I'm not vegetarian,but I don't eat much meat. I prefer fresh veggies. I'm a mosaic artist and I love creating treasure from found objects. I love the simple things in life. I'm a morning person and I'm usually up before the sun. I've had the same job for 25 years,decorating cakes in a large volume bakery. That's me:) I would like my first date to be coffee, lunch or early dinner. Maybe go for a stroll.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Vivan

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    Ugh!! This is the worst part, but here goes! I am compassionate, witty, and passionate......I still believe that chivalry is NOT dead! I am a real "girly-girl", but also love my sneakers and comfy flannel PJ's! You can dress me up and take me out to the classiest places, but don't be surprised when you realize I love to joke around and be goofy and playful, too (NOT in the classy restaurant, of course!! ) I am divorced with an 8 year old son and value family highly.....I am blessed to still have my parents around. Since I do have a young child, I would expect and will appreciate anyone I meet to be understanding when it comes to the challenges single moms sometimes have when dating. I teach special education through private agencies and love what I do.......I pride myself on my ability to be sensitive and establish good relationships with the parents I work with who have special needs children. I love infants and the elderly....they're both so precious in their own ways!! Of course, communication and trust are important, but even at this age, I think chemistry is also a must! A relationship without appreciation and passion just doesn't feel right. I am a good listener, a loyal friend, and love to make people laugh! I have a quick wit and usually laugh when I'm nervous! Making people laugh has always served as my "safety valve" since I am actually quite shy. Truthfully, I am looking for a solid relationship, as well as a man of exceptional values who will nurture my son as well as our relationship. Sure....I love the beach, and dining out, and working out, as well as candlelight and a nice glass of wine! I feel the best when I dance, although I don't really dance anywhere other than my living room anymore!! I am a classically trained musician, (my bachelor degree is in music education) but absolutely love latin, R&B, soul, and classic disco. Not looking for 'games' or causal dating. Please.....have a good sense of humor, and don't be wrapped too tight!! Thanks for reading, and good luck in your own search :)Never say never!! Timing is everything!! Perhaps a coffee (or a Dunkin' frozen hot chocolate!!) or someplace where we both feel comfortable meeting for a drink.

  • Darian

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I'll preface my profile by stating despite the look in some pics, I am NOT high maintenance. In younger years, I've done a bit of modeling. (mostly eyes) That said:There is a big chunk of my life left waiting to be played out with you. I'm young at heart with lots to offer. The question is "Does a combo package of attractiveness and INTELLIGENCE appeal to you?" I am an interesting mix of fun, brains, and just enough glitz to make things exciting. I am willing to try new things, but you'll never convince me that bowling (I once bowled a 3) or the opera (I fell asleep) are enjoyable. I could also use some serious coaching in tennis and baseball. "Camping" you say? Tried it once, but my idea of "camping out" is more like sitting in my car in a parking lot (coffee in hand) waiting for the mall to open. Although I have a science background, most people place me in the arts.( It's the fashion factor.) Family and friends are a vital part of my life, but I am also very comfortable spending the day with just myself. I am confident enough to give you your space and not be all-consuming or needy. I am curvaceous and some say I have the body of a 25 year old. (The mind is another issue.) I have sex appeal, (not to be confused with promiscuity.) The biggest thing on me is my heart. It's been broken and mended a few times and there's room in it for you. I love to play dress-up for my man. (I don't go anywhere without my high heels!) I can also be as casual as the rest of them.On weekends, it's no makeup and overalls.You might find me doing house repairs, at the gym or at bootcamp (tough, but no crying aloud), gardening, bargain shopping, listening to music (oldies freak) or cooking. Italian meals are my specialty. I am of Italian heritage. Dad was a chef and I learned from the best! I also spend time working with special needs (mainly autistic) children.My perfect mate is attractive,well groomed and physically fit.Teeth and hair (adorning the head) are a plus. He is confident, but never arrogant or pompous. He is comfortable going out on the town or just spending a day at home watching a movie classic or suffering through an occasional chic flick. Mr. Right is honest, considerate, generous (I don't mesh with cheap), and of high moral character. The relationship will be a give and take and should evolve naturally. I've learned from past experience that when you have to work too hard at any relationship, it's not worth having. I do not want to become a professional dater and have meetville become a way of life, but rather a means to a happy beginning. It is so incredibly easy to become jaded on a dating site; So many broken promises and people who lack sincerity. I'm still optimistic that you are out there and that odds are now favorable to meet a man who embraces the total me - outside and inside package. It would be soooo refreshing to meet just a nice, genuine guy. A final note - If we connect and communicate, call me old fashioned, but I prefer the phone. I also prefer to be contacted by those who truly want a relationship. Gentlemen: NOT POSTING A PICTURE IS A RED FLAG FOR ME! I DON"T RESPOND! I DELETE! Thanks for stopping by. The most comfortable first date would be for coffee or a drink. Let's keep it short and sweet. I know immediately (and so do you) whether there are sparks. Hopefully, for both of us, the "new catch" didn't post a photo that was 50 pounds or ten years ago. (And we've all been there!) There is nothing worse than enduring a long dinner or event when you know your only mindset is to excuse yourself, run to the nearest bathroom, and jump out the window to escape Aunt Bea or Gramps.

  • Albina

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I am a very passionate and caring person who is extremely independent. I am looking for someone to enjoy life with. That someone must be intelligent and be in touch with what is going on in the world. I am spontaneus and love people and staying busy. I am very dependable and have worked very hard all of my life, but am ready to do what I want to and am not looking for anyone who might want to stifle my love of life. I am a very large but beautiful woman who is not desperate for a man in my life but only a companion who has the same love of life that i do. I am not very out doorsy, but i love the beach. I am more of a city girl. I would like to go to dinner or maybe for coffee on a first date. I prefer to be able to talk to someone on a first date in order to see if we have chemistry. Clubs, movies, etc. that do not allow for interaction one on one do not support this.

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