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Tonda, 51

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About Me

I have been a mother and wife for so long that I have lost touch with me and who I am. I'm looking for a friend first and then hopefully a connection with someone who can make me laugh and have that first kiss kind of feeling again. No rush tho .... Ready to take it slow. I enjoy all kinds of music. I like flea markets and would like to find someone to spend fun times with. Maybe that someone is you.... I know that being to honest may be a bad thing but I've not dated in so long that I wouldn't even know what a first date should be but I'm open to new things and new adventures.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Gaylene

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    Update:Going to stay a few more months, then getting off here, Haven't had any luck on this site, been on here way too long!I have a 15 Year old daughter that lives with me and a 17 year old son they are my everything, and 3 grown with there own lives.I'm fun though I do have my serious side and have a great sense of humor! If you would like to know something about me just ask makes for conversation! Please have a picture it is only fair!I believe one should start out as friends first and foremost! I'm pretty laid back, good humored person, Like to have fun, just like everyone else. I am open to new adventures, and exploring new things to do, and getting to know new people!I still have a lot of life in me, and am hoping to find the one and only, I am a one man woman! So if I have peeked your interest, let's chat and see ! One never knows.***\ ***\\***Please***\\\***Put This***On Your***PROFILE If***You Know---\\\***Someone***\\***Who Died***\\***Of***\\\***Cancer***\\\---Or whom maybe suffering from itNice quote:Love the people who treat you right.Forget about the ones who don't. Believe that everything happens for a reason.If you get a chance , TAKE IT! If it changes your life , LET IT!Nobody said it would be easy... They just promised it would be worth it!"Love is giving someone the power to break your heart, but trusting them not to"***!!!***Put this on your***!!!***page if you---!!!!!!!!!!!!!***know someone in the***!!!***armed forces or to***!!!***show your support***!!!***and respect to ***!!!***our troops For a first meeting coffee or lunch, then if we decide to date then, we can be creative and decide what to do.

  • Ada

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    I am mellow and easy going. I enjoy camping, hiking and occasionally can be talked into fishing. Especially if you bait the hook. I like to check out new and unusual places. We have been working down my son's bucket list.- check.- Check. See a pattern here? Yes, I am a Big Foot Expert! Ask me anything.I am not a shopper. I tend to run in, get what I need and run back out. However, all bets are off when you turn me loose in a bookstore. If I'm not back in 3 hours, send in a St. I am terminally happy. Sometimes, annoyingly so. I have a real hard time staying mad at someone, even if I should. I also talk to random people. Yes- I am that person standing next to you in the grocery line that knows everything about you before we check out. Sorry, can't help it. People smile at me, I smile back and the next thing you know I am being shown pictures of their grandbabies, kids and cats. I should also state upfront that I am very, very bad about remembering important dates. I have birthdays wired, but everything else is hit or miss. If you are the type that likes to celebrate all those little anniversaries like the first time we met, our first date, the first time we...( I know, it is more of a girl thing, but still...) please, please, please put it in big red letters with stars and !!! on my calendar. The upside to this is that you never get in trouble for missing those dates. I usually don't even know that you missed them.One last thing, in regards to the whole motorcycle thing. I don't get it. I have had two rides on a bike in my life. One was with my 16 year old brother many, many, many moons ago and we really don't want to count that one. If you are really into your bike, that is fine. Just remember , I know nothing about them, so you have to start from scratch. Think Kindergarteners. Actually, think girl kindergarterners, I am sure that the boys have it hardwired into thier brain already. So if you start talking about your bike and you see my eyes glaze over, well just don't take it personal. You lost me somewhere and I am now off riding elephants in Africa. Let's face it. It can be a scary world out there. Dating is not like it use to be. Just because someone can talk the talk does not necessarily mean they can walk the walk. So for a first date, let's keep it simple and stress free. Meeting someplace neutral for a cup of coffee or soda works for me. Easy access to the doors so if one of us feels the need to run, screaming, out the exit, well, no worries.

  • Beverly

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I mainly view this site on my phone, so I can't access the chat feature, but feel free to message me! A little about me... hmmm... Let's see. I listen mainly to top 40 music, but that's because I have a teenager in the house who has taken over radio rights. Left on my own, I will listen to just about anything. Don't really like jazz, blues or rap, but willing to compromise. :) I like horseback and bike riding and riding on the back of motorcycles I want to learn how to skydive, and want to learn how to do more things on the water....kayaking, canoeing, skiing. I stink at golf...just slightly better at bowling...and my ability to dance depends on how much alcohol I've had! I'm not really a watcher of sports on TV (in fact I rarely watch TV) but I do enjoy going to games. Still haven't been to a Naturals game...hint hint! lolJeans and T-shirt type of girl, but there are dresses and even formal gowns in my closet as well. Fishing in the morning, charity ball at night? I'm ready!Love reading...mostly fiction though...reading the Game of Thrones series right now. Anything else you might be curious about, just ask!I am very family-oriented. My children and grandchildren are very important. I have a great group of friends that I socialize with pretty regularly. I work full time, and I just finished going to school part time to learn a second profession. I am a girl scout co-leader as well.This fills a lot of my time, but there is still something missing. My family, friends and girls are all great company, but not really 'dates'. I would like to find someone to go out to dinner with, or to movies, or to see a band, ah you get the idea. If it grows into something more, great!I share my time with many people, but I'd still like one special person to share with as well. Maybe it's you? :-) Reading through all these profiles, dinner and a movie seems to be top choice. That's all well and good, but you can't really talk to someone during a movie, and talking with your mouth full is impolite as well! I don't drink that often, (and I don't care for wine)so sharing over drinks is also not so great. How about the zoo? Or a walk through the Botanical Gardens? Or a Baseball game? Bowling (although I'm terrible at it)? Lots of options out there. I'd much rather be doing something other than worrying if there is food stuck between my teeth!

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