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Lillian, 52
United States, Pennsylvania, North Versailles

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So I noticed a lot of the men who are single and looking are really into motorcycles. I have rode on a Harley one time in my life...one year ago......as a bucket list check off. I am terrified of riding...so I may not be your girl! If you like tractors, now that's my kinda guy :)Looking for my helpmate and partner, to be completely head over heals for each other. I do believe there has to be chemistry between one another in values, beliefs, spirituality, looks and some other things. We could start there tho'. Please don't be offended if I don't write back. I am not so good at saying no thank you. I am trying to find him who God sends to me. I have been through a lot and just want to rest with him who is willing to take on the role of living life in joy and loving each other without conflict. I have added a pic of my daughters, I had four but my number two parished in a car accident seven years ago, along with my 5 year old grandaughter. I am amazingly well because I have faith that they are with Jesus. There are good days and bad days but the mourning has turned to sporadic sadness. Do you believe that we have a Saviour? If not please don't even write me OK. I need to have a man who is not a fanatic but a leader and has those beliefs. This isn't considered baggage to me and I hope not to you either. I also added my salsa...I like to get dirty and play in the dirt...it is my therapy... I like to can while my man is taking care of the yard or whatever. I wax my own car, clean my own gutters, change my own oil and pretty much would enjoy someone who would like to take that over. Ya know, you do the man thing, I do the woman thing. Really looking for a man who would love to take care of a very independent, hard headed woman :)I also love my kids,,,they would be your kids and grandkids too. If you aren't into that either and are too busy with bungy jumping etc.,then I am probably not your girl. My kids just want mom to find a good man to join in our lives and all the joy we share! Hoping you have a playful side to you!Yep, I have some baggage but I believe we don't need to keep packing it. I am a counselor and pretty healthy about my past mistakes. So, also I am pretty deep. Deep meaning I won't do well with someone who can't keep me stimulated...intellectually, physically and emotionally. I love to walk and talk or dinner outings or laying under the stars and think about how small we are. How blessed we are. I may be old but I am not done having fun and feeling comfortable with who I am. I am not into any kind of ***activity and I rarely drink. If you are recovering or actively using. Could be the deal breaker. My family drinks responsibly and socially and a strict recovering person won't fit. I support that lifestyle whole-heartedly though, trust me.I recently met a guy who had a son in high school who was his whole identity....the son came first! And though I love my children there comes a time when the man must leave his mother and cleave to his wife. I should eventually come first just as you would. That is God's economy. You love your wife as Christ loved the church (He died for the church-His people, not the building) and I will gladly submit. I want to love you with all my being. I want total trust!!! Trust crushers destroy the relationship no matter how hard you try and regain it. I consider pornography ADULTREY...so if you have problems with that...sianara. My relationships have ended in infidelity and though I am not hardened or turning lesbian over it I will not tolerate it. I am a one man woman with full commitment to that one man whom I love.OK. Maybe I expect too much, but I turn 51 in March. I am done settling. I just want to date and have fun with it and if He comes to fruition I will be the best women in the world!So thank you for looking...I am a lot to digest I know. But at least you know ahead of time. Have a blessed journey. Coffee? walk on the beach...phone call?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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