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Looking for a keep it simple, no pressure, good conversation, plenty of laughter friendship for casual dating and fun. Long term? Absolutely.... with the right person. But it does (or should) start with a friendship. Emotionally grounded & available (meaning: all past relationships are done, dead and buried) I am open to fall in love, however... not in a hurry, don't have an agenda.It's all about timing. Yours, mine, ours? About me: I'm a normal, unpretentious, caring woman with above average communication skills, quick wit, a curious mind and an eternity focused heart. I don't have to "choose" to be happy.... I already am. I'm also intuitive and self aware. I’ve learned how and when to be quiet (can there be such a woman?) .. and when to speak my truth. You know there's Type A personality, and type B personality.... I say mine is L-M-N-O-P. Real easy going, don't sweat the small stuff. I'm a realist and a logical thinker. Always open to a hearty laugh (as they are soul healing).... I can be fun and funny. You won't have to twist my arm too hard to have some impromptu or planned fun. I've learned that in order to find the right person... you must be the right person. I have done my due diligence. My relationship skills are sharp... just like my quick wit (heehee). It's all about the journey. Good thing.... cuz I haven't arrived anywhere yet.I prefer you to have activities you enjoy by yourself and activities we enjoy together. My main love sign is quality time shared, so when we are together you will discover I am attentive, thoughtful, communicative, desiress. On the flip side of that I enjoy my alone time. It (relationship) is all about balance and compromise and finding what works best between us. Hopefully at this point in life we've at least got that one worked out, right?You look at pictures... as do I... You know what you like when you see it. My interests are normal and simple (hiking, movies, dining, travels, etc...) I have no need to jump out of airplanes. I've been exercising daily for ***years so I don't consider that an activity, it's just what I do.. kinda like brushing my teeth... it's part of the routine. Like it or not... we are all aging. My intention is to do it with grace. Note of importance: I do have a spiritual faith in Christianity. I am seeking a like hearted man.~~~~~Hate to limit myself to perspective mates... however dating outside the north county area doesn't make sense. It seems many of us are established in our home geography and more than likely do not plan on moving anywhere anytime soon. Speaking for myself... I do not have the resources to make commuting part of the relationship.~~~~~Sorry ... don't do 'separated'. You must be completely divorced. If you already had the 'rebound' relationship that would be even better (just sayin)~~~~~My pictures are accurate representations of me from dressing up for a wedding (blue dress).. to laying out in the sun with beach hair/ no makeup. No glamour shots. No cleavage shots. No cleavage? No shots? To be determined...... ~~~~~It is difficult to seek/find/reachout/be *** one likes it..but sadly it's an online reality. If you contact me and I do not respond it is because I don't see us as a match. Alternately, if you choose not to respond to me... I can figure it out (this if not rocket science) Your not interested. It's equally hard to say no thank you as it is to read no thank you. I agree... it's messed up. .Someone once said:"If plan A doesn't work there's always plan B. If plan B doesn't work, there's serendipity". Welcome to Serendipity Doesn't really matter what we decide to do... what does matter is you are what your profile says you are.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Turkish
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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    Recently moved to CA from VA. I'm looking forward to meeting new people and making more friends.’s, Home Depot, a concert, a local "hot spot," or just hanging out with friends when I’m not working. In the summer, the beach and playing in the water is a must. Okay not so much here...yet...the water is COLD! I've been known to drive a sports car or a SUV, on occasion too fast, while weaving through traffic. I'm finding that I tend to fit in on the 5. People that drive like I do think of ourselves as great drivers, people that don’t think otherwise. I love to travel and haven't done enough of it. I cannot stress this enough, so if you aren't interested in traveling (afraid of flying?) we won’t be a good match. Europe is a place that I haven't seen yet, but I intend to do so.’m a certified diver) and get back out west to ski. I wouldn't mind going back to explore more of the Hawaiian Islands. I went to Oahu and Maui and enjoyed it; even 2 weeks isn't enough. Back in VA we have a flea and tick season which seems pretty mild compared to the "seasons" here. What am I looking for? I like confidence and intelligence so I guess the best way to explain it would be a multifaceted successful man that can effectively balance work and play. He will be able to discuss the world around us and respect and enjoy hearing my interests and opinions on things. He is true to his word and follows through on what he says. He is open to communication and respects women. He doesn't just say that he respects women; he will actually exhibit mannerisms that show he truly does respect women. A great night for him would be to go out for dinner and enjoy a local band one night and the next stay home, put something on the grill, share a bottle of wine and watch a movie. To sum it up, I’m hoping to meet a man who has the desire and ability to enjoy and share all that life has to offer.One disclaimer, my body type was noted as athletic because there is no option for curvy and curvy definitely isn't average. I go to the gym, but my body remains curvy. Something simple such as meeting for coffee or a drink...maybe dinner.

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I would have to describe myself as an easy going person. I like to play and have fun. I like adventurous people who like to try new things. It's fun to explore new places with someone and find a new hide-away to eat and drink. I also like to raft, ski, dance, play sports. I like most things with the right person. I'm pretty easy when it comes to dating - it doesn't matter so much what we do as long as we have fun together. I like to paint and cook when I get the chance. I love to cook for friends- we'll just hang out, talk, eat and drink - thats fun after a long work week! Not sure what else to write. ohhh, I'm attracted to a good sense of humor!!! My pictures are recent so I'm hoping yours are too...it's a bit unnerving to meet someone and their pictures don't match the man in front of you :) I have to say, it's more the person I'm with than the thing we do..I can enjoy sitting on the couch watching a movie as much as going out to eat. As long as we both smile, enjoy meeting someone new and are ok with taking a chance, I really don't mind what we do...lets just breathe and have fun.

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    Well am dwn 2earth good women..that lvs life no drama had enought of it just want peace ad s 1 to share it with me and it dosent take much 2 make me happy am nt a golddigger k. Ijust want 2 b hpy and with sm1 that makes me happy and we can share the smthing s in life don't u think . Am easy goin person u have my back I have yrs fr life . I beleve in honesty. And I can't stand liers and cheaters or plyers .don't have time fr kids k I need a real dwn 2 earth man.am easy 2 get along with but just dnt play me fr a fool cuz u don't want 2 bleve u me u don't .am apassionet women I no hw 2 treat my man . And I just want 2 b treat good as a women should b treat .u treat me rite I treat u ritem hand in hand. I say . Am a lovin person careing person. .I want a real man nt no kid !p B yrsalfe no games. Honesty. U no what we like both of us .we deside 2gether I say.

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