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Looking for a keep it simple, no pressure, good conversation, plenty of laughter friendship for casual dating and fun. Long term? Absolutely.... with the right person. But it does (or should) start with a friendship. Emotionally grounded & available (meaning: all past relationships are done, dead and buried) I am open to fall in love, however... not in a hurry, don't have an agenda.It's all about timing. Yours, mine, ours? About me: I'm a normal, unpretentious, caring woman with above average communication skills, quick wit, a curious mind and an eternity focused heart. I don't have to "choose" to be happy.... I already am. I'm also intuitive and self aware. I’ve learned how and when to be quiet (can there be such a woman?) .. and when to speak my truth. You know there's Type A personality, and type B personality.... I say mine is L-M-N-O-P. Real easy going, don't sweat the small stuff. I'm a realist and a logical thinker. Always open to a hearty laugh (as they are soul healing).... I can be fun and funny. You won't have to twist my arm too hard to have some impromptu or planned fun. I've learned that in order to find the right person... you must be the right person. I have done my due diligence. My relationship skills are sharp... just like my quick wit (heehee). It's all about the journey. Good thing.... cuz I haven't arrived anywhere yet.I prefer you to have activities you enjoy by yourself and activities we enjoy together. My main love sign is quality time shared, so when we are together you will discover I am attentive, thoughtful, communicative, desiress. On the flip side of that I enjoy my alone time. It (relationship) is all about balance and compromise and finding what works best between us. Hopefully at this point in life we've at least got that one worked out, right?You look at pictures... as do I... You know what you like when you see it. My interests are normal and simple (hiking, movies, dining, travels, etc...) I have no need to jump out of airplanes. I've been exercising daily for ***years so I don't consider that an activity, it's just what I do.. kinda like brushing my teeth... it's part of the routine. Like it or not... we are all aging. My intention is to do it with grace. Note of importance: I do have a spiritual faith in Christianity. I am seeking a like hearted man.~~~~~Hate to limit myself to perspective mates... however dating outside the north county area doesn't make sense. It seems many of us are established in our home geography and more than likely do not plan on moving anywhere anytime soon. Speaking for myself... I do not have the resources to make commuting part of the relationship.~~~~~Sorry ... don't do 'separated'. You must be completely divorced. If you already had the 'rebound' relationship that would be even better (just sayin)~~~~~My pictures are accurate representations of me from dressing up for a wedding (blue dress).. to laying out in the sun with beach hair/ no makeup. No glamour shots. No cleavage shots. No cleavage? No shots? To be determined...... ~~~~~It is difficult to seek/find/reachout/be *** one likes it..but sadly it's an online reality. If you contact me and I do not respond it is because I don't see us as a match. Alternately, if you choose not to respond to me... I can figure it out (this if not rocket science) Your not interested. It's equally hard to say no thank you as it is to read no thank you. I agree... it's messed up. .Someone once said:"If plan A doesn't work there's always plan B. If plan B doesn't work, there's serendipity". Welcome to Serendipity Doesn't really matter what we decide to do... what does matter is you are what your profile says you are.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Turkish
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