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Shirly, 54
United States, Pennsylvania, North East

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About Me

I am a person with a good heart, good morals, hard worker whether it be at home or at my place of employment. I like a variety of music, from classic rock to newer country, to some classical, to christian music.; Order. My choice of movies would be action flicks, sci- I love Italian foods, Mexican, and good old fashion American.I have been blessed with 2 wonderful children, 3 grandchildren and a wonderful, supportive family. What I am looking for in a partner, first let me put out what I am not looking for; Mr Perfect. None of us are, we all have our own little flaws and Mr Perfect to me, is someone who will see these flaws in me and know that they make me who I am and love me for them. I am not looking for the best looking man, I like to see the beauty inside of the man. If you are a kind person, honest, know how to treat a lady with the respect she deserves, then in my view, you are as perfect as they come. I believe that a good relationship needs to be built, using all the tools we were given, our hearts, our minds, our bodies and our souls. If 2 people treat each other the way they wish to be treated, how can you go wrong? First dates are tricky as we all know and honestly I have no idea which I would prefer. I have experienced quick coffee shop first dates where you are basically just saying hello, nice to meet you, some small talk then the awkward how to say goodbye. I have also had a really nice experience of meeting someone, going for a casual walk while discussing things as we went along and this person, although we have not gone any further than just being friends, has remained a good friend to this day. Whatever feels right.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Reggae Caribbean Korean Adult Biography Sci-Fi
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