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Jeffie, 54

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About Me

I am a pretty independent female who is looking for a man to share everything life has to offer - I would like to find someone who is emotionally available and is not afraid to commit; a man who can compliment and add to my life. I am pretty comfortable in my own skin and do not need someone to "complete me". I am a pretty happy, optimistic person and am looking for the same in my mate. I like a man who can communicate and is not afraid to show his emotions, who is confident, and is not afraid to take the lead. I appreciate a man with a good sense of humor since I love to laugh - good belly laughs are the best!!!. Above all, I am looking for someone who is honest and does not play games...life is too short for that. I would like to find a man who keeps himself in shape as exercise is very important to me. Mutual attraction wouldn't hurt either! When it comes to me I am very easygoing and down to earth. Most of my friends will say that I am very personable, attractive, and in great shape. Also that I am fun, energetic, thoughtful, generous, compassionate, empathetic, and a good listener. I also pride myself on accepting you for who you are and do not judge. My friends would also say that I am VERY picky when it comes to men! I am not looking for perfection, just the right man for me. So, are you up for the challenge? I hope so! I would like a casual first date to see if we are mutually attracted to each other. Meeting for coffee in a public place rates high with me!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Cambria

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    I am here to find someone to share my life with ! I simi-retired with many interest of lifes pleasures. I have a home, car and income so I am not looking for someone to support me. I am not a gold digger lololo just a real woman/with a little girl inside, that wants to find the last love of her life !I have had the big houses, cars, sailboats and money so its not about that for me ! I am looking for a man that wants to enjoy life together. If its just a drive to the beach, mountains, or a hike, or snuggled up together reading, just the littlest things are sometimes the best. I have fished and hunted with the best of them, sailed and canoed till I could not move, camped since I was a kid and have traveled throughout Europe. I love all cultures and their expressions of life and love and foods. There is not too much I wont try and enjoy most all foods. Have never been a drinker, but do enjoy wine and some spirits. I Love having my family and friends around and entertaining. I have always been very social but I am just as comfortable being alone and quiet with my own thoughts or the enjoyment of reading a good book somewhere quiet. I am comfortable with the woman I am today. I wake up with a good attitude looking forward to what the day will bring. Humor & Laughter are some of the most important ingredients to health and happiness in my book. If you cant laugh at yourself and find humor in the simplest things in life, then really how much fun could life be. I like most music except hard rock and anything that screaches noise *** words. lololoI could tell you all about myself with my past and my present, but there needs to be some mystery and this would be a book if I went on an on, as I am sure this is with each of us. We all have a story to tell, good or bad and getting to know each other is part of the fun.Its time for me now to take that step in meeting someone special and sharing all of me. I am still learning everyday, so to find a man that compliments me and I him along with being able to learn from each other would be amazing !But know the games in life that people play is not for me, nor has it ever been, I am very upfront and honest sometimes to a fault when it comes down to it. But with that saying, I would rather be real and honest then not. I am not on here to waste your time let alone mine, for life is too precious and short to bring past baggage into something new, so please have your lifes baggae in order or shipped off, so it does not intrude or cause undue stress or harm to me in anyway. I love life too much to fight or argue or carry harsh feelings toward anyone for any reason. My life is about LOVE and GOD first and formost, not negative enegry. So if you are truly interested then send me a Hello with a profile picture and if I am interested with you, I will write back ! And if not, then all we can do is keep FISHING :) Good Luck ! with Safe Travels, Namaste A nice walk along the water then some coffee or tea and good conversation with laughter, if you can handle that !

  • Robert

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    I’ve been a widow now for a little over 4 years. Quite simply I no longer want to be alone. I’m ready to share the companionship and intimacy of a quality relationship. I want to live the love songs once again.I enjoy simple things...believing that true pleasure is found in who you share with rather than what you do. I like to laugh, and I especially enjoy making you laugh. I enjoy sharing a warming fire, watching it’s mesmerizing dance; evenings watching the stars sparkle; the roll of thunder and the amazing power of lightning in the distance. I love the smell of freshly cut grass and Stargazer Lilies.I love road trips…the highway is in my blood! I like to do almost anything that involves water...boating, swimming, hot tubs, and kayaking (only done this once and thoroughly enjoyed it). I would much rather swim than sweat!I enjoy cooking for someone that loves food. I enjoy watching musicians perform their craft. I DON’T play games!!! I would ask the same in return. Being emotionally available is essential. Any enduring relationship begins with at least a few common interests, chemistry, and friendship. These are the avenues we investigate through dating, communicating, and spending time together. If a long term relationship develops its a wonderful thing. If not, at least we have found a friend worth having in our lives.Becoming a widow has taught me to never take anything...and especially anyone...for granted. Every day, every smile, every glance is a gift to be appreciated and treasured.I believe in sweet secrets and sweeter surprises.Chemistry is essential. If the kiss doesn’t fit, neither will anything else! Again...I believe in passion, tenderness and communication. I love romance and candlelight and the simple yet profound message conveyed by a caress. I have NO taste for champagne. I cannot live without my quad latte. Chocolate is a necessity of life.I like my wine cold. I don’t do beer.I hate cleaning bathrooms!!!..and I love sleeping through it. I enjoy camping out in the pines (preferably near water). I especially love the sound of the breeze as it passes through the branches, the scent of the forest and the peacefulness it brings to my spirit. Few things delight the senses like the smell of a campfire. Please note: I DON’T DO TENTS!!I would rather share conversation over dinner, coffee or a glass of wine *** a movie, and prefer watching that movie all tangled up together on the couch.My friends tell me I am a “special” woman. I sometimes wonder just exactly what THAT is supposed to mean?!! I think I have a pretty good sense of humor; sometimes clever. Usually intelligent and believe myself to be articulate enough to carry my end of the conversation.I appreciate the hand holding and stolen kisses of a living romance…the tender touches and meaningful glances of shared affection. I am a woman with a tender heart, true intent, integrity, character, passion and fire. I am a woman of worth. I AM Gemini.I am looking for a man of balance, integrity and strong character. A man of skill and talent. A man that has a desire and the ability to live in harmony despite the challenges. A man who can love and accept me for who I am (and who I am yet to become) without a need to change me. In reality, the only one we can change is ourselves.I seek someone that has no need or desire to control or govern me, who is tolerant of my flaws and is patient as we explore, learn and help each other to grow throughout the many lessons that life still holds for us.I am seeking that special someone to share the many joys available to us in this existence and live the love songs together. I look forward to the adventure of learning one another...and who we are together.If you’ve managed to read this far I must thank you for your time and interest. Intrigued? Questions? Send me a message. Perhaps we can get acquainted. A simple meeting that allows us to be comfortable, converse and get acquainted further. I'm open to suggestions

  • Julianne

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    ***I'm editing my profile, again.So here goes.....*My previous profile scared some men*I'm not as funny as I think*After 2 hours chatting on the phone with one gentleman, it was obvious we weren't going anywhere, and he was kind enough to let me know that he thought I was funny for a 'godless communist.' I was a bit offended about the communist part*My dogs are better than men*I'm really a nice person**Shellfish and Sushi - YUCK!* I've had him a year and I love him, but can't keep him because he HATES MY HUSKY. Thanks.*I really do prefer men to be TALLER than me*SHARK WEEK!*I suck at dieting and exercising. Say it with me .. LOVE HANDLES!*Purple is my favorite color*I'm really only 5' ***"*I'd be more than happy for you to tell me I can quit working because you'll take care of me. In return, I'll cook, hire a maid and plan all our vacations. Oh, and other stuff, please ask ;)*My kids are AWESOME!*Don't interrupt me during The Walking Dead or Revenge*I work hard for my money and I love what I do*Line dancing - Wednesday through Saturday is typical in my world*I really need to clean the fish tank*Anything I promise when drunk is void*T-mobile sucks*Disneyland and the NY Yankees rock*I hate typos*I babysit. Dogs. A lot. I rescue too*I'm ugly in the morning*If you want me to shave, you should too*I know how to mow the lawn, fix sprinklers and use a drill*My "check engine" light is always on*I keep a sawed off baseball bat in my trunk for emergencies*Emergencies include getting too "touchy-feely" when I'm obviously not reciprocating on the first date*Snow is not my friend*Wooden cutting boards, knives, pots and plastic cups do not belong in a dishwasher*Yes I will rub my cold feet on you*I cook with a lot of garlic*I snore*That's why I sleep naked

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