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Tamson, 54
United States, Pennsylvania, North East

Offline, last seen Fri, 20 Mar 2026 22:09:42

About Me

Hello and thank you for stopping by. Me, well, I prefer to see the glass as half full, even if we are talking condensation droplets. I love to laugh, be happy, work, and engage myself in life. I have never been afraid to work hard. As a paralegal, so much of my work day consists of stress and drama, so, while I am always happy to be there for friends and family, I try to keep my personal life positive and look for the joy which each day holds for us, if we are open to it. My divorce is long over, all of the baggage has been neatly dealt with and I am happy to say I have a happy, pleasant relationship with my daughter's father.Interestingly, after being married for the better part of my adult life, I now find it interesting deciding what I like and what I (perhaps) only enjoyed because I was doing it with my family and friends. Odd fact about me (not sure what it means to others, but), I do not understand why people find the need to post suggestive pictures of themselves. I also find it disheartening how many people believe that somehow being slim and fit equates to who a person truly is - especially when it comes to women. Why? The size of the person doesn't define their respect for themselves ... at all. I have to ask, how many of you who based your past relationship picks on what your eyes liked, and if you did, did those picks prove to be long-lasting, consiting of true happiness?I am not sure this is true 100% of the time, but have you found that those people who have worried about how they look on the outside, were lacking on how they were on the inside?I do not believe our mistakes define us, but rather how we deal with them most certainly does define our character. I love all types of music - I will even listen to some RAP and wish that I could move like the young people in the videos do. I hope to find somebody to enjoy life with, and share in making new memories. I miss having somebody to share the things that you share only with the special someone. Good luck to all of you. For my first date, I would like to do something simple and emotionally safe for both of us. Something that promotes relaxation and allows for communication, so there isn't really one specific idea that I can share, because it isn't all about me and my comfort zone, but also the person who is trying to connect along with me.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    Well everyone wants to know about you on here and I had wrote tell you later, Well here it goes im a very open minded and caring person I like the simple things in life doesn't take much to make me happy, As long as your honest with me and communications is a plus, Im not into married men that are separated to much drama if you are a serial dater it wont work, I need a one on one, Im not on here for just a hook up im looking for someone that has values, and knows what he wants in life. Im not into drama. I been divorced for 2 yrs now and im ready to meet someone special in my life. meet for coffee

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    I'm an AZ native who loves water....ocean, lakes, rivers, creeks! I enjoy the sound of waves crashing on the beach. I scuba dive and watch most sports with baseball being my favorite! I enjoy camping and fishing. I have been told I am a GREAT listener and will keep all your secrets. I am honest, compassionate and loyal. I enjoy holding hands, being hugged and held and sweet kisses that seem to go on for days. I don't take myself too seriously, and enjoy laughing....No drama (save it for your Mama!) or playing games. I do enjoy car races, shows and auctions. I am a kid at heart and love amusement parks. I also enjoy hiking and have recently just taken up target practice....very very fun and I am not a bad shot either!I am looking for someone who is Honest and caring. That enjoys doing fun things with a special someone or sitting on the couch talking and learning about each other. Dancing in the rain or slow dancing in the living room, laughing and being silly! I am not interested in serial dating and you should not be either. I would like to be with someone who is interested in spending time with me. I played 6 games of kickball for charity recently and had a blast!!!! The setting - Somewhere we can talk Place - Coffee house, sports grill, restaurant, parkFirst dates are typically first impressions and the hardest date. Giving it the optimal chance to be a "great" first date is ideal.

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  • Leoma from North East | Woman | 51 years old | Pisces
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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    Hi there!! I've been told this is a great place for meeting new people and since I seem to run into the same people over and over, thought I'd give it a try. I spend most of my time at work, but only because I can. I would love to have a reason to get out of there every night. Things I like: Breakfast at a nice diner or coffee shop on weekends. I like playing pool, but I'm not very good at it. Comedy Clubs are fun, and I love funny movies, bathroom humor, not so much. I like bowling, and I do pretty well...USUALLY. I have recently discovered I like going to the horse races. I love old cars and have 2 completely different classic cars (American and Japanese). I actually prefer old to new on most things. So much more character. I LOVE ice cream a little too much so I'm looking for a 12 step program if you know of one. (kidding)Things I don't like: Sushi and most seafood. Whiners and complainers. Arrogance. Animal Abuse. Being cold. Oh, and I have no room in my life for liars or drug users. What I'm looking for: My 2 daughters are grown and on their own, so I'd like to meet someone who is not terribly tied down.....in other words, available at least some evenings and most weekends to go goof off and explore new adventures with. Hopefully it will evolve into a long term relationship, but if not then I've at least made a new friend. Attraction and chemistry are important to me, so if I don't respond to your message, I'm sorry but it's because I don't feel we'd connect.So, did I miss anything? Is the first date after we meet? Or when we meet? Shouldn't we discuss the first date when we meet if we both feel the desire to know each other better?

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