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Tamson, 54

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About Me

Hello and thank you for stopping by. Me, well, I prefer to see the glass as half full, even if we are talking condensation droplets. I love to laugh, be happy, work, and engage myself in life. I have never been afraid to work hard. As a paralegal, so much of my work day consists of stress and drama, so, while I am always happy to be there for friends and family, I try to keep my personal life positive and look for the joy which each day holds for us, if we are open to it. My divorce is long over, all of the baggage has been neatly dealt with and I am happy to say I have a happy, pleasant relationship with my daughter's father.Interestingly, after being married for the better part of my adult life, I now find it interesting deciding what I like and what I (perhaps) only enjoyed because I was doing it with my family and friends. Odd fact about me (not sure what it means to others, but), I do not understand why people find the need to post suggestive pictures of themselves. I also find it disheartening how many people believe that somehow being slim and fit equates to who a person truly is - especially when it comes to women. Why? The size of the person doesn't define their respect for themselves ... at all. I have to ask, how many of you who based your past relationship picks on what your eyes liked, and if you did, did those picks prove to be long-lasting, consiting of true happiness?I am not sure this is true 100% of the time, but have you found that those people who have worried about how they look on the outside, were lacking on how they were on the inside?I do not believe our mistakes define us, but rather how we deal with them most certainly does define our character. I love all types of music - I will even listen to some RAP and wish that I could move like the young people in the videos do. I hope to find somebody to enjoy life with, and share in making new memories. I miss having somebody to share the things that you share only with the special someone. Good luck to all of you. For my first date, I would like to do something simple and emotionally safe for both of us. Something that promotes relaxation and allows for communication, so there isn't really one specific idea that I can share, because it isn't all about me and my comfort zone, but also the person who is trying to connect along with me.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Donnetta

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    The best advise I've ever recieved came from my mom, "treat people the way you want to be treated." I've tried to live by that, if someone dosent treat me with honesty and respect then I assume that they expect the same. I am strong and independent. I have a good job which allows me to provide for myself and to have fun with my life. I like to read and spend time making beaded jewelry. I hope to continue to travel. I have three adult children and 6 grandchildren who I enjoy spending time with. I enjoyed raising my children and gave them my all. Now that they are adults I am doing some of the things that I couldnt do when they were young. I have been skydiving, parasailing, and enjoy hiking. I am a good cook love it when people enjoy my food, but getting dressed up and going out to eat is great too. One of my favorite things to do is to take long rides on my motorcycle, no cell phone or call lights or other peoples voices to interupt my thoughts it gives me time to clear my head since I have a very stressful and demanding job one that requires me to put other peoples needs ahead of all else, my time alone means alot to me. I dont spend much time watching TV unless its something that interests me on the History Channel or a good documentary. I truley enjoy all types of music from classical to rap, I started listening to rap because I wanted to hear the music that influenced my grandchildren and I found that some of it is pretty good. Starbucks for coffee and conversation.

  • Jeffie

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I am a pretty independent female who is looking for a man to share everything life has to offer - I would like to find someone who is emotionally available and is not afraid to commit; a man who can compliment and add to my life. I am pretty comfortable in my own skin and do not need someone to "complete me". I am a pretty happy, optimistic person and am looking for the same in my mate. I like a man who can communicate and is not afraid to show his emotions, who is confident, and is not afraid to take the lead. I appreciate a man with a good sense of humor since I love to laugh - good belly laughs are the best!!!. Above all, I am looking for someone who is honest and does not play games...life is too short for that. I would like to find a man who keeps himself in shape as exercise is very important to me. Mutual attraction wouldn't hurt either! When it comes to me I am very easygoing and down to earth. Most of my friends will say that I am very personable, attractive, and in great shape. Also that I am fun, energetic, thoughtful, generous, compassionate, empathetic, and a good listener. I also pride myself on accepting you for who you are and do not judge. My friends would also say that I am VERY picky when it comes to men! I am not looking for perfection, just the right man for me. So, are you up for the challenge? I hope so! I would like a casual first date to see if we are mutually attracted to each other. Meeting for coffee in a public place rates high with me!

  • Cambria

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    I am here to find someone to share my life with ! I simi-retired with many interest of lifes pleasures. I have a home, car and income so I am not looking for someone to support me. I am not a gold digger lololo just a real woman/with a little girl inside, that wants to find the last love of her life !I have had the big houses, cars, sailboats and money so its not about that for me ! I am looking for a man that wants to enjoy life together. If its just a drive to the beach, mountains, or a hike, or snuggled up together reading, just the littlest things are sometimes the best. I have fished and hunted with the best of them, sailed and canoed till I could not move, camped since I was a kid and have traveled throughout Europe. I love all cultures and their expressions of life and love and foods. There is not too much I wont try and enjoy most all foods. Have never been a drinker, but do enjoy wine and some spirits. I Love having my family and friends around and entertaining. I have always been very social but I am just as comfortable being alone and quiet with my own thoughts or the enjoyment of reading a good book somewhere quiet. I am comfortable with the woman I am today. I wake up with a good attitude looking forward to what the day will bring. Humor & Laughter are some of the most important ingredients to health and happiness in my book. If you cant laugh at yourself and find humor in the simplest things in life, then really how much fun could life be. I like most music except hard rock and anything that screaches noise *** words. lololoI could tell you all about myself with my past and my present, but there needs to be some mystery and this would be a book if I went on an on, as I am sure this is with each of us. We all have a story to tell, good or bad and getting to know each other is part of the fun.Its time for me now to take that step in meeting someone special and sharing all of me. I am still learning everyday, so to find a man that compliments me and I him along with being able to learn from each other would be amazing !But know the games in life that people play is not for me, nor has it ever been, I am very upfront and honest sometimes to a fault when it comes down to it. But with that saying, I would rather be real and honest then not. I am not on here to waste your time let alone mine, for life is too precious and short to bring past baggage into something new, so please have your lifes baggae in order or shipped off, so it does not intrude or cause undue stress or harm to me in anyway. I love life too much to fight or argue or carry harsh feelings toward anyone for any reason. My life is about LOVE and GOD first and formost, not negative enegry. So if you are truly interested then send me a Hello with a profile picture and if I am interested with you, I will write back ! And if not, then all we can do is keep FISHING :) Good Luck ! with Safe Travels, Namaste A nice walk along the water then some coffee or tea and good conversation with laughter, if you can handle that !

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