Total users: 60,848,184 Online users: 218,764
Tamson, 54
United States, Pennsylvania, North East

Online

About Me

Hello and thank you for stopping by. Me, well, I prefer to see the glass as half full, even if we are talking condensation droplets. I love to laugh, be happy, work, and engage myself in life. I have never been afraid to work hard. As a paralegal, so much of my work day consists of stress and drama, so, while I am always happy to be there for friends and family, I try to keep my personal life positive and look for the joy which each day holds for us, if we are open to it. My divorce is long over, all of the baggage has been neatly dealt with and I am happy to say I have a happy, pleasant relationship with my daughter's father.Interestingly, after being married for the better part of my adult life, I now find it interesting deciding what I like and what I (perhaps) only enjoyed because I was doing it with my family and friends. Odd fact about me (not sure what it means to others, but), I do not understand why people find the need to post suggestive pictures of themselves. I also find it disheartening how many people believe that somehow being slim and fit equates to who a person truly is - especially when it comes to women. Why? The size of the person doesn't define their respect for themselves ... at all. I have to ask, how many of you who based your past relationship picks on what your eyes liked, and if you did, did those picks prove to be long-lasting, consiting of true happiness?I am not sure this is true 100% of the time, but have you found that those people who have worried about how they look on the outside, were lacking on how they were on the inside?I do not believe our mistakes define us, but rather how we deal with them most certainly does define our character. I love all types of music - I will even listen to some RAP and wish that I could move like the young people in the videos do. I hope to find somebody to enjoy life with, and share in making new memories. I miss having somebody to share the things that you share only with the special someone. Good luck to all of you. For my first date, I would like to do something simple and emotionally safe for both of us. Something that promotes relaxation and allows for communication, so there isn't really one specific idea that I can share, because it isn't all about me and my comfort zone, but also the person who is trying to connect along with me.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Funk Korean Middle Eastern Comedy Documentary Sport Thriller Boxing Ice Hockey Volleyball
Wink Icon color PERSONAL INFORMATION Fave
Chat

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Donnetta from North East | Woman | 54 years old | Scorpio
    Donnetta

    Online

    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    The best advise I've ever recieved came from my mom, "treat people the way you want to be treated." I've tried to live by that, if someone dosent treat me with honesty and respect then I assume that they expect the same. I am strong and independent. I have a good job which allows me to provide for myself and to have fun with my life. I like to read and spend time making beaded jewelry. I hope to continue to travel. I have three adult children and 6 grandchildren who I enjoy spending time with. I enjoyed raising my children and gave them my all. Now that they are adults I am doing some of the things that I couldnt do when they were young. I have been skydiving, parasailing, and enjoy hiking. I am a good cook love it when people enjoy my food, but getting dressed up and going out to eat is great too. One of my favorite things to do is to take long rides on my motorcycle, no cell phone or call lights or other peoples voices to interupt my thoughts it gives me time to clear my head since I have a very stressful and demanding job one that requires me to put other peoples needs ahead of all else, my time alone means alot to me. I dont spend much time watching TV unless its something that interests me on the History Channel or a good documentary. I truley enjoy all types of music from classical to rap, I started listening to rap because I wanted to hear the music that influenced my grandchildren and I found that some of it is pretty good. Starbucks for coffee and conversation.

    Chat
  • Rossie from North East | Woman | 52 years old | Pisces
    Rossie

    Online

    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    Thankful for what every new day brings. Love animals alot especially big dogs and horses. Happy, healthy, and looking forward to meeting a tall, bright and kind man. Like to be outdoors and active as much as possible. Have done a lot of traveling but looking forward to doing more in the future with someone who likes to laugh with abandon. Looking forward to finding the right guy and getting off of here forever. My motto is life's journy is not to arrive safely at the grave in a well preserved body ! but rather to skid in sideways totaly warn out , shouting holy sh*t,,,,,,, what a ride ,,,,,,.May we all meet someone we cant live without.

    Chat
  • Angila from North East | Woman | 52 years old | Aquarius
    Angila

    Online

    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    ***UPDATE*** I'm not sure what's going on, but the past 5 men I've met on this site have lived with one or both of their parents. I'm not interested in a relationship with anyone who states on their profile that women need to be financially independent, yet THEY are living with mommy and daddy. How does one go about forming a long term relationship with someone while their parents are in the next room anyway? What are you, 16?? Sorry for the rant, but it's just getting old. If you happen to live in your own home or apt. please read on. Oh yea, one more thing...guys, please put your clothes on. None of us really want to see you without a shirt on. Not right now anyway...seriously, we don't. :)About Me: I’m honest, loyal, easy going, generous, down-to-earth, and as my friends say “sassy!” My interests include – boating, swimming, movies at the theater or at home, comedy clubs (because laughing is essential), meaningful conversations about almost anything, music, and reading. For the past few years my life has been spent working, raising my daughter, and just your normal day to day stuff, so many of my interests have been put on the back burner. A few things to get out of the way early on: I’ve indicated “non-religious” due to the fact that I’m not into organized religion. I converted to Judaism about 17 years ago, but still consider myself more spiritual in nature. I'm good with my belief system and moral code and am seeking someone who will not preach to meI truly enjoy discussing news, current events, and politics. However, those conversations are so much more enjoyable with reasonable people.’t go over real well with me.About you: Down to earth, funny, low maintenance, independent, a good communicator, intelligent, non-smoker. I believe that everyone needs to have their own friends, interests, hobbies, or activities, as well as the time to pursue them so I'm not really the needy or smothering type.My 18 year old daughter is my highest priority and I respect any man who considers his children to be his highest priority as well. My daughter is heading to ASU in the fall, so I will be experiencing the empty nest soon. I work at an elementary school, so I'm used to being around kids of all ages and I love them all! My ex and I get along very well so there’s nothing to worry about in that area. Lets chat and see what happens! :)

    Chat
See more
Follow Us: