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Ithamar, 24
United States, Pennsylvania, Dillsburg

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About Me

I'm a straight forward kind of guy. I am blunt and honest. I have strong beliefs, an sturdy morals based on traditional and old fashion values. I believe relationships these days are watered down and need to be brought back to standard.I dislike online dating because most of you say you want something serious and you don't. It's like a manipulation or a trick to get someone to be serious. The day or two conversations and then you disappear is getting old. Be serious. My time is valuable, don't waste it. Most of you will not take the time to read this, but you should. I wrote it. This is what I want, and this is what you should expect of me. Guys VS Girls. Why things Never work. From birth, guys and girl are treated and raised completely different. My opinion, they are raised opposite and to contradict and make difficult any means of getting along and living happily. A guy is born to be tough, be hard. Not cry, hide emotions. Have pride and be independent. He isn't supposed to need help. He isn't supposed to be "whipped". He isn't supposed to be soft and talk about feelings. That's just not a man according to society. A young girl is raised to be sweet. She is taken care of and always made pretty. She is talked to with respect. She wants to be a princess. She wants to feel pretty and wanted. Her dreams are about being a teacher, vet, or a nurse because she wants to help others. She plays with baby dolls because wants to be a mother. She plays with barbies wants to learn how to have a family. She learns hobbies like cooking, and baking. She helps mommy clean and grocery shop. She learns how to be a wife. She creates a perfect dream of marriage in her mind, consisting of the sharing of feelings, communication, spending time together, making memories, and being in love. What's wrong with that? It's COMPLETELY OPPOSITE from a guys habits. No freaking wonder we can't find anyone these days. Old times it wasn't as easy to find people. They were raised with a different view. When something was broken, they fixed it. Not throw it away. Where did that dedication go?!! TECHNOLOGY, made meeting people convenient. It destroyed the meaning if getting to know someone. It gives people too many options to find better. So they give up quick and forget about compromise. So from a guys life view on life verses a girls view, who's wrong? The male that's emotionless? Or the girl who wants to make a good wife? Obviously the guy is in the wrong. A relationship should be equal. Both people should always communicate. Couples should make decisions together. They should respect each other. They should support each others decisions. And they should always guide each other in a positive direction and influence positive habits. Not based on sex or a common bad interest. You are supposed to help and improve each other as a team. Guys weaknesses:-Lack communication-Lack the ability to swallow pride-Find it hard to see a woman equal to a man. -Lack emotions-Lack effort in spending time. -Lack effort in being her friend and getting to understand her. -Sex-Too jealous and it becomes controlling. -Deprive a girl of her fun and friends. Girls weakness. -Trust-Afraid to put forth effort because the guy may be a waste of time. -Lack self-confidence -Worry too much about their looks and body. -Try too hard to impress others. - Become emotionally attached too quickly. A typical guy is about 75% of the reason why the female population is the way they are. They belittle and point out imperfections. They ruin self-confidence. They make a girl feel stupid for trying to be happy. A girl is unhappy with about 40% of her body. Her nose, her eye brows, her smile, her butt and boobs, her hips, legs, knees, toes. A girl looks at everything. And all she wants is for a guy to accept her as she is. And she wants to be able to act herself around a guy the same as she does with her girlfriends. A real guy will accept you for who you are. A real guy will not love you any less because your second toe is longer than the first. Or because your love handles. He will think it's cute that when you get nervous you twirl your hair. He he will trust you and know that you will make good decisions without him babysitting you. A guys job. -Make her feel pretty. -Make her feel wanted.-Be her best friend. -Be silly, take cute pictures. - -Let her win cute arguments. -Let her pick the date sometimes. -Don't nag.-Don't distrust her without reason-Spend time with her, keep her content. -Allow her to be herself. -Don't belittle her friends, family, or pet. -It's okay to be whipped, be whipped. -Don't be too clingy. Sometimes she wants to be independent. -Do not make her feel like sex is all you care for. -Do not make her feel as if she is in competition with anyone or anything else. You are hers and only hers. -Do not be shady with your cell phone. -The tricky one: Understand the fine line between letting her know you're lucky to have her, and excessive ass kissing to the point that she second guess herself for being with you. She will assume she can do better. A girls job. -Keep your guy in line. -Don't let him control you. -Make him talk and share feeling. -Do not be an absolute convenience. -No nagging. -Do not allow sex to be a habit. - Don't mistreat your guy due to the failures of the guy before him. -Let a guy be a guy sometimes, video games, cars, guns, etc. The tricky one: Allow the guy to feel like he is a man. Let him feel like he is in control by compromising the differences. Secretly know that you already have it all thought out and you are two steps ahead. Facts:-When a girl says she is in love, she means it. Nothing is more powerful than love to a girl. - If a guy would take the time to sit down and ask questions, talk and listen. Allow her to be comfortable to approach him with problems and compromise, they would get along. -You must still flirt and be silly with your partner no matter how long you've been dating. Girls goal. Focus on keeping the relationship healthy. Plan out your days. Guys goal. Get to know her like her best friend does. Find out who she really is. Not sure what you like, but I think the zoo would be pretty cool.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Hip-Hop Internet Browsing Adult Family & Kids Martial Arts War Singing
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