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Jarod, 23

United States, Pennsylvania, Columbia

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I like to lift weights because it feels good and makes my brain smile. I used to do it because I was insecure, now I do it because I still am insecure.I love self-growth and reading self-help books to avoid taking action yet still feel good. Usually resulting in me suddenly taking tons of action like a maniac for a few months, then reading again and avoiding it.I eat healthy as hell, and I really can't understand why people don't eat healthy. Probably because it is so confusing as to what is actually healthy. If you eat McNuggets everyday and think it is a good meal I probably won't like you. But a little treat every now and then keeps the sanity. I'm not one of those crazy **stards who thinks its evil to eat a cookie :). But if you eat candy and cheetos all day while you're pregnant with your first child a little part of me dies inside.I meditate and am working on things such as self-compassion. You know, self-love. Not because I'm narcissistic. Because I'm trying to become narcissistic.What I want is to meet a girl that has had to make her own success and progress, not someone that has been handed down money her whole life and doesn't understand that that actually hurts you in the long run. For some reason I want to say a spiritual girl, but I'm not exactly sure what that means.My ideal girl is one that I will complain about being too emotional and giving me too many hugs even though I secretly like it. The one that can't get enough hugs so I can pretend like I don't want so many hugs. I want to have fun then talk about the deep stuff.I don't value material things and try to hang out and talk to successful entrepreneurs as much as possible. People that make over a million a year. People that travel the world off 10,***a year. They all were the ones that stopped buying all these random gadgets and each new model of Chrysler for 5 years until they started making real money. One step back in order to take two full steps forward. The stuff you own ends up owning you. I'd rather spend that 5 grand on a trip to Europe or Southeast Asia working on my narcissistic desires for novel experiences rather than taking out a loan for a car I don't even want.I'm not cheap, but I'd rather get a poem for my birthday then a new phone. Plus, if we can't have fun hanging out just walking around what do we have anyways?I like meeting people and even if it turns out we don't like each other it is always awesome to meet someone and try to understand their perspective. Need to be a 5'6" - 5'8" Blonde or a 5'9" Brunette (possibly).

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    6'0"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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