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Shallum, 25
United States, Ohio, Bethesda

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About Me

"I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best." ---Marilyn MonroeI'm not your typical 25 year old kind of guy... I am independent, but love having that special someone to be there for me through hard times and through amazing times. I enjoy being around people whether it's at the mall, bar/club, at the park, or just hanging out at home. I enjoy networking with people I don't know and don't have anything in common with because I can always learn something from them. It doesn't matter how much money you make, what your goals in life are, where you came from and where you currently are, but I will still give you the time and talk to you. Who am I to judge?With that being said, I am upfront, honest and don't always have a "filter" on... I say what I feel and want because I would want someone to do the same for me. If I am going to say something mean, I won't say it mean; however, there are exceptions. ;-) Being outspoken can be a good thing or a bad thing... So far, it's proven to be a good thing for me. My friends and family come to me asking for advice/opinions because they know I will be truthful. In addition, I try to make everyone see the positive side of a negative. Yes, we all have rough times and tend to focus on negativity, but I don't like to live my life like that... I've done it and saw that it wasn't getting me anywhere but feeling worse. Don't get me wrong, I still have my days when I may be down or upset, but a nice long car ride to nowhere usually helps . :-)I love to laugh and smile;; I love to travel but with working so much, I am limited to getting away; I am stubborn but always willing to listen and try (what do you expect, I am a Scorpio); I enjoy my lazy days where I just hang out around the house and watch a movie or TV alone, with friends or that special someone...I thrive for perfection in my line of work and my personal life, but I know nothing is ever perfect unless we try our hardest; I am true to myself and won't change for someone else---You'll either love me or hate me... The only haters that I have are the ones who have burned their own bridge. That's me in a nutshell... I'm not too crazy, for the most part. :-) Try to get to know me before forming an opinion about me based off my pictures and profile. You might just see that I am someone worth getting to know, whether we end up as friends or something more. First date.... Such a loaded question to answer prior to knowing someones' likes and interests... Ideally, meeting someone in person for lunch/dinner, walk in the park, going to an amusement park, or walking around the mall. Going to the movie is not an ideal date... If you think so, more than likely were not going to mesh very well...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Funk English Dance
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