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Dick, 34
United States, New York, Oswego

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About Me

You can typically find me working, at the gym, at church, jogging when the weather is nice, playing my guitar/writing music, laughing with my amazing friends, watching TV (reality TV mostly), cleaning..a little obsessed, and dreaming of what to do next to make life better.I believe that I have a very optimistic outgoing personality and enjoy others that do. Some may label me complicated, but I prefer 3 dimensional. Life is more than just working, working out, and going out. Now, don't get me wrong I like all of those things, but there is more to life. I hope to influence and change the world around me. Balance is key. I'm a very driven person and usually have many goals/aspirations at one time. I want to constantly improve. I have a hard time hanging out on the surface and love deep meaningful relationships. I appreciate someone that is honest, authentic, funny (very important), giving, smart, passionate, driven, social, active, and a genuinely good person. Someone that can dine at a hole in the wall restaurant but who can also enjoy a elegant charity event. Someone that wants to help others and is truly compassionate. Someone that appreciates nice things but is not defined by them. A spiritual person is a must. And humor is a non-negotiable.FYI. I'm a Taurus (not Capricorn as it says). And I'm 33. It won't let me change that.Also, for full disclosure and since this is an important factor in terms of compatibility in the gay arena: I'm HIV negative. I'm primarily a top but vers. I can be a little more versatile in a committed relationship. I'm not into open relationships or anything along those lines. And not into any type of drugs. While my natural tendency is dive in head first...I've learned that you have to take things slow to really get to know someone. So dating is a great concept.I love being spontaneous, so I'm open to a variety of different dating options. Dinner, coffee, going to a show, hanging out at the beach, etc. I love being creative.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Country Metal Punk Japanese Spanish Vietnamese
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    Man. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    I'm ready for something serious. I've always been the type of guy to enjoy my independance and freedom. I feel like I've seen all types of possible senarios when dating, and I know finally what I want. In every relationship you have in life, you grow in some way and learn more about yourself. What you like, what you don't, what you will accept and not, and I feel its imparative these attributes are known when entering a new relationship. Trust and respect are most important to me. I know from the past once either of these are broken or lost in a relationship, its the begining of the end.I am very motivated, independant, organized, and fun-loving. I work hard for what I have, and I would never take handouts. Life is a series of tests, and you need to be able to rely on yourself first and foremost. I enjoy theater, and occasionally act. It's a pastime which has proven to be a very heathly outlet from the stresses of life. I enjoy travelling and have seen many of the islands, and am always looking for an oppourtunity to 'getaway'. Movies, the arts, and dinning are also high on my enjoyments in life. Now for one of my qualities that may potentially scare you off. I am a neat freak! I am sightly compulsive when it comes to keeping my home clean and items organized. Although I don't feel as if I go 'overboard', I do enjoy a clean house. I have lived with messey people in the past, and have learned to adapt slightly to their habits, I would much more prefer someone who shares my same expectations. I love my friends, and they are all in my life for a reason. They are not aquaintances, and I know I can count on them. They have seen me through some of my most difficult times.I currently work in the biotech industry, and also maintain a small practice as a massage therpaist working in a chiropractic office. I carry a strong work ethic, and am not lazy. I look for the same in others. I am happy with my career, and look forward to further growth and oportunities. Nothing fancy, dinner and drinks, or coffee. Just enough time to briefly get to know one another

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    Man. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    I am a hopless romantic. I wouldn't consider myself regular. My brother tells me a I am most unique person he has ever know. I would prefer to become friends with a guy before I start dating him. I think that friends make the best lovers. I am not perfect nor is anyone in this world. A lot of gay men are so superficial and it is hard to find guys that are not. My body isn't in perfect shape, but I do juice everyday, I try to eat the best I can and I am working on myself. I am somewhat effeminiate but not a flamer; that is who I am and I will not change myself for anyone. I hate labels, but I have to be honest and say that I get into guys that are more masculine that me. This is me. How I like to be. Take it or leave. What you get is what you see. You better believe it. Take it or leave it. I would love to find someone to date and spend time with. To enjoy one anothers company. I am not here just to hook up. I want to find love. I had given up on love for a long time. But I have decided that I will not give up on finding my soulmate until I draw my last breath. I am southern, and have a heavy southern accent. I am proud of where I have come from, where I have been, and where I am going. If you like what you read and/or see. Give me a holla! Take care, peace out. And remember gay men. We have to fight against the world, why fight one another!!! The gay community should be more united!!! Good food, good drink or a nice walk. And hopefully a nice kiss before heading home!

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    Man. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

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