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Les, 31
United States, New York, Oswego

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About Me

"Takers eat better, but givers sleep better at night"Life is funny sometimes, how do you sum up your existence in a paragraph? How do you get noticed in an ever changing sea of people? You can pour your heart out into this little box, and it will hardly get read. If you message me I will at least read your profile and see where we are similar and reply if I feel we have enough in common. If I send a brief message to you, it means I read your profile and I felt we had enough in common to message you. It doesn't mean I didn't read it, but responding in a long message seems counter productive if the other person does not feel you have enough similarities to be compatible. So I try to send messages to determine interest, and respond to messages from those I share the most in common with. I hope the information below sums me up well enough to scratch the surface of my being, and gives you enough to make you want to start a conversation. If so great, and if not thanks for at least reading what I wrote and not messaging me based off my photos. Well here I am -Let's see, I am a simple, quasi homebody, who is fun, friendly, and family oriented. I am trying to find someone similar to me, someone who has his life "together", but is able to indulge in the simple pleasures in life. I love watching movies, playing video games, hanging out, travelling, and spending time with the ones I love. I have a great job and a flexible schedule and I get to spend a lot of time with my family and friends. I am happy sitting at home ordering takeout, or going on a crazy adventure whichever way the wind blows. I will try most things once, twice if I need a photo to prove I did it and will never do it again lol. I am a romantic at heart, for example if you were having a bad day I would drop a single flower off at your job to surprise you, bring you some coffee or tea if you were drained and tired, or take you on an evening picnic in the park to lay next to you and watch the stars. I am a huge animal lover, and a vegetarian, its a very personal choice for me, but its not the right choice for everyone including someone I date, so don't worry if you are not vegetarian. They all have phenomenal personalities and are a part of my family. I also have 2 nephews and 2 nieces and I try to spend time with them whenever I can. I am looking for someone to share these things with, my family, my home, my life, all of these things I want to share, and I want a person who wants to share those things back with me too, who wants to start a new life, a combination of both of our lives. I don't want someone perfect, just perfect for me. Sorry but I am not interested in Mr Right-Now. As the time goes by people change, and our journey brings us closer to the end, with each day we get older and wiser (and hopefully smarter) but the heart wants what the heart wants, even when the mind may whisper "run you clever boy, run". I am a total geek/nerd and I wear it as a badge of honor not as one of shame. My phones ringtone and notifications are from Super Mario Bros for the NES, I love technology and seeing the advancements that keep being made. While at the same time I am grounded, I want to spend time in Nepal helping at a leper colony, I want to see the Dahlia Lama speak live one time, I want to have experiences I can never replace, I live in a world where I can make a difference, and I intend to. Be the change you want to see in the world, and to change the world you just need to change one person (which can be something as simple as a smile) Every interaction you have with someone you both give part of yourselves to each other, its not about changing each others opinion to match the others, or about uprooting there whole personality, its about when you interact offering the best of you so that interaction can be positive in there life, and receiving their positive energy back. I tend to think very deeply and philosophically, and believe in the good of all, over the good of oneself, because when others share the sentiment of good for all, you all take care of each other and in turn you don't need to worry about yourself. Well I hope I have rambled on enough to catch your interest but not enough to have bored you with the writings of what my journey has placed before you.With all that said... English was my worst subject in school and I am sure there are enough grammatical errors here to give a grammar nazi a twitch, but I am trying to convey a lot of information but in written form when I am much better orally. Its hard for me to articulate the words and sentences I would like to offer, but trust me I am intelligent, just in other ways. Thanks again for reading and hopefully we will speak soon. Something comfortable, which allows the conversation to flow naturally, coffee or perhaps a light meal, just something to offer a taste of ourselves to each other and see if it can move on to something more.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    6'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Drama Sport Rodeo
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