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Alysdare, 31
United States, New York, Oswego

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About Me

I spend most of my time doing handcrafts (knitting, crocheting and the like). I also enjoy hiking through the woods, driving around for no reason, and reading (art, philosophy and social theory, mostly). I play a lot of board and trivia games. Of course, I also do the "traditional" things like go to bars to hang out with friends and such. I'm a sociable nerd. I've been blessed enough to have worked at four bookstores so far in my life (one of which was Giovanni's Room, one of the oldest LGBT bookstores in the world), and dream of running my own one day. I'm also considering going back to school for an Master's in Library Science. I think it's just that I really enjoy connecting people with the knowledge that they need (nerd alert!). As far as music is concerned, I like a little bit of everything. Lately, it's been a lot of folk and rock, but I like hip hop, experimental, shoegazing, classical, noise rock, and indie rock (and an admittedly soft spot for the female singer/songwriter). I just want to meet someone to spend time with, someone to laugh with/at. I'd like to meet someone with radically different interests than mine. Learning new things from new people is one of the greatest gifts in life. That being said, it would be helpful if we had at least something in common. We could spend the day at the art museum, or go hiking through the woods somewhere. Dinner is always nice (even if the conversation fails, the food usually doesn't). I'm fairly adaptable, and horribly indecisive, so it doesn't really matter.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Latin Reggae
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