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Sela, 34
United States, New York, Oswego

Offline, last seen Thu, 04 Jun 2026 18:12:32

About Me

here we go....I have 3 children that are my # 1 pride and joy. They are 16, 12, and 11. I have no baby daddy drama as he is barely in the picture. I am involved in all their sporting events. I coach my daughter softball teams, altheltic trainer for the local high school football team. I ride a motorcyle which I love to do... I work my ass off to take care of my family so i am not looking for NO man to take care of us. I am going back to school in the next few months to better my nursing career and I won't stop until I have BSN degree. In a man, i would like to meet someone who is honest, caring, and knows what they want out of life. I love a man who treats his woman like he would treat his momma.. that shows me that he respects a woman and wouldn't hurt her in any way. I honestly don't know what else to say here lol.. if you interested please feel free to send me a message. oh ya if your looking just for a sex partner.. don't bother me.. i will not be a one night stand or just a ****... there is more to me then jumping in the sack... I am a good woman who handles her business on my own but yet I remain single and i can't figure that one out.. I would like to find someone that i can share my extra time with. i don't go to bars that often it's just not my thing. i do like movies, camping, a bike ride, or ATV trail riding. I love romantic dinners and walks in the park. if there is anything else you want to know pls don't be shy and send me message. one last thing. My children are biracial (black and white).. I do date black men and if that bothers you then keep moving. depends on what we decided.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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