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Livy, 32
United States, New York, Oswego

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About Me

Just a nice guy looking for good people and good friends. If something more materializes out of that then, I'll be happy with that as well. Not into casual sex or mindless hookups. What happened to actual dating and getting to know someone? I'm looking for something that both people work on, and fight for whether that is a lifelong friendship or a partner for life. If you are looking for that too, send me a messageI am a kind and caring person, probably to a fault. . . Once you gain my loyalty, you have it pretty much forever. I believe in honesty and expect it from my friends and anyone that I am with in a relationship. I believe friends should stick with each other through thick and thin.I enjoy hiking, swimming, cooking, photography, singing, playing piano, exploring new cities, traveling, windy days, walks in the rain, dogs, concerts, music festivals, and watching movies. In ***I weighed nearly 400lbs and was absolutely miserable. Since that time I have lost right around 100lbs and am currently hovering around ***. I am still working toward my target weight of 230. Would love to find a workout partner, or someone that we can keep each other motivated to make our goals. I fall off the wagon from time to time, but keep getting back up again. Just because someone is of a "larger" size does not make them lazy. I've been through too much to have someone make me feel bad over my size, if you can't be friends with someone because they have a certain body type, then keep moving.My goal in life is to be happy, and to hopefully find someone to share my life and that happiness with.Hope to hear from you!Cheers!*DISCLAIMER*If I message you, it doesn't mean I want to jump in bed with you. Trust me, it's not my style. If you can't respond to a friendly hello, then please do us all a favor and type "I'm an ***hole" at the top of your profile. What happened to "thank you" and being gracious and a decent human being. *end of rant*

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    6'0"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Drama Fantasy Music
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