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United States, New York, Mattituck

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I've been a suburban Dad (and "Mom") for a number of years, but with the boys out of the house, I find adjusting to a different lifestyle a bit daunting. I'm still a kid at heart, and trying to balance that with being a "responsible adult" is an interesting challenge. I can be articulate and refined, but can slip into southern working class with ease. Lately I've spent much of my time trying to figure out how I should repair/remodel my house (it's a long story) Update: About halfway done!. I will warn all those who care to know that I have a sarcastic sense of humor that can run a bit raunchy, but it's all in good fun! ;-) I have no clear cut goals, no driving force for money or fame, just to live a happy, content life with someone who enjoys life for the sake of life itself. (sorry, that's the product of being the son of a Social Psychologist!)I hope that there is someone out there who can understand that the quest for wealth and adoration from one's peers is not an affirmation of one's self-worth. Being comfortable doing what you do because it pleases you is most important. I will say that if you are a hardcore conservative or a Tea Party Republican, it's probably best to keep moving. Likewise on the religious front. Not that I don't value one's spiritual relationship with their chosen deity, but I am a humanist at heart, and believe that goodness comes from the individual, not from some all knowing, ethereal being. Don't mean to offend anyone, just trying to be honest. As you might surmise, I try to be as easy going and straightforward as possible and not step on anyone's toes, but at this stage in life, honesty is the best policy, don't you think?As a side note, I've noticed that meetville has taken it upon themselves to send out random "Hey there ;)" notes, both to me and on my behalf from and to other meetville members. Trust me when I say that if you receive such a note from "me", it really is not. I can actually string together words into a coherent sentance or two, and would do so if I contact you. I apologize in advance for meetville's lack of good judgement. Conversely, if I receive such a note from someone, I will not reply, out of respect for your privacy. Just sayin'..... Very casual, like maybe coffee in the afternoon or a drink after work. No pressure, and if things go well, we can plan a more formal or intimate setting. If it all goes South, we still have a few hours left in the day to call our friends and laugh about the disaster! ;-)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    6'1"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Hip-Hop Reggae Rock Korean Mexican South American Horror Mystery Sci-Fi
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