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Calder, 51
United States, New York, Mastic Beach

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About Me

I am a single dad which keeps me active. I havean adult son who is 27 and a 6 year old son who I spend a lot of time with as I am a very hands on active father. I share this because whom ever I meet will need to understand that my son needs his father. I am looking for a good woman who is about love, compassion and kindness to others. Honesty is important and having values is also very attractive to me.I have been working in the counseling field for 21 years and love my work. In regards to spirituality I lean more towards eastern thought and try not to cause harm to anyone. You should know I don't drink or use drugs and have not in over 25 yearsI like to dance, walk in the park, love Camping but its been a while, like going into the city, like the gym. Lets have some fun. A first date could be a walk around a lake, dinner or just coffee. No matter what the place is I think it is important that it is a place that we can talk and get to know each other and have fun.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

Jazz Rap Irish Portuguese Turkish Collecting
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