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Havelock, 51
United States, New York, Massapequa Park

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If we meet and you don't look like your pictures, you buy the drinks until you do!* If you’re just looking for a hook up, please move on to the next profile. :) Until I was seven years old I would not sit on the toilet to go number 2 because I was afraid I would fall in - thus I have very strong quads ...I've considered taking up yoga but the skin tight pants you have to wear makes me tense... My plans are written in pencil...I love most food but Mexican is my favorite.... I write with my right hand, shoot pool with my left and will spank you with either hand in table tennis... Both my dancing and singing improve after 3 margaritas...Some music is able to move me like nothing else.....I won’t put off having fun...I have perfected the foot rub..... I will not watch a movie at a theater without a large popcorn and large coke... I have a wonderful mom -.. Cleaning a toilet drains my life force - that's precisely how I perfected the foot rub. I am here so I don't have to be here. I am interested in finding the person I enjoy doing everyday life with and can't wait to get home to - Because at the end of the day, she's my best friend. If I enjoy the company of whomever I am with, the activity seldom matters - seldom - I'm out on scrap booking, séances, and jumping out of perfectly working airplanes. Whatever's fun, as long as no one gets maimed or electrocuted, I'm in.I follow a healthy diet most of the time and run ***days a week to offset my random bowl of ice cream, or Cap'n Crunch. While I’m not a barfly I occasionally like to take in some live music and shake my money maker."One day, someone will walk into your life and make you realize why it never worked with anyone else.""It is the things in common that make relationships enjoyable, but it is the little differences that make them interesting."I marvel at how many of us hold onto hope when it comes to love and relationships… Why? Because at least for me, I believe it's out there. I believe there is a second time around, a final great love of my life...and I'm writing this not so much to whoever is reading it, but as a statement to the universe that I won’t give up on the dream. It's difficult to believe in the possibility of meeting the one that “gets” you in a way no one else does, finding the person where you feel completely safe to be yourself and where there is a knowing when words aren’t spoken. The pain is agonizing if it doesn’t work out. But I’ve determined I’ll take the risk to experience the elusive, and it is a huge risk but worth it when you get it right. Deep connection is impossible unless you are willing to open yourself to the possibility of being wounded. I believe in serendipity, in honesty, in commitment, in finding humor in the absurd and in compassion. I also believe in tolerance, patience and that love shouldn't come at a price - That words are incredibly powerful and can’t be rescinded. “I'm sorry" is far more meaningful than "I was right". Always seek the middle ground and the high road. Let go and move forward.About whom I am looking for - It's you if you're still reading this. However if you're not within plus or minus ***years of my age - I'm probably not going to be interested. Incidentally, a woman that is older can be just as appealing to me as someone that is younger.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Happy from Massapequa Park | Man | 52 years old | Aries
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    Man. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 49-59

    I'm genuine, easy to talk to, and an original. I enjoy good conversation particularly when laughter is involved. I'm good at making people smile and laugh, and a woman with a good sense of humor could definitely steal my heart through my funny bone. I have a strong mind and body. I'm confident but not****. Easy going 99% of the time. I am respectful but I expect respect in return. I am affectionate seeking the same in a lady. I am understanding and seek that in a potential mate. I am a good conversationalist and listener and would LOVE to meet a lady who can honestly say the same about herself. Trust is a must so if you are not honest and trustworthy then you can stop reading and move on right now. I AM honest. I hear most men are not, so I guess I'm not like most men. I have no idea. I only know about me. I tell the truth because I have a spiritual side which is important to me and because being a liar is not a part of my spirituality.I am a kind soul but can be tough as nails when I have to be.In general I love life and have a variety of hobbies I enjoy. Reading, Writing, watching Sports, watching a good movie, and listening to good music, are among them. I'm no angel, I enjoy adult beverages a couple times a week and I do smoke. Yet getting drunk is not my aim. I like just a buzz from alcohol then I sip my drink to maintain the buzz when I drink. Let's face it, life can be hard, mundane, or boring much of the time. We all want someone special in our life to make us feel good, and a relationship we can feel good about. So why are so many self-centered, "my way or no way" types, out there, expecting to find something good to last, when they would not want to date someone like themselves?! I mean think about it. It's give and take not just take. Duh! Hello?! (I'm laughing now.) You want good love? You gotta give good love. Right? Right. I can feel comfortable in many environments so my dates comfort would be my primary concern here. So her input, at least in part, would be important here. Having said that, a first date is a time to get to know one another so dinner out is a good place to start. I can think of about a dozen restaurants I could suggest and would allow her to choose one. Conversing over dinner is a good way to get to know one another better.

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  • James from Massapequa Park | Man | 37 years old | Gemini
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    Man. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 22-32

    Hi! My name is James. I am never married other caucasian man without kids from Massapequa Park, New York, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a woman, love of my life.

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    Man. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 27-47

    Hi! My name is Jojo. I am never married catholic african man with kids from Massapequa Park, New York, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a woman, love of my life.

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