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Arjun, 53
United States, New York, Massapequa Park

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About Me

I think I have the dating sites figured out. One simply has to get very lucky to find someone to date seriously. Even women who are very attractive seem to get stuck on these sites. From what I have heard and experienced, other than men are much more likely to act obnoxiously , I don't think there's much of a difference in communication styles with men and women. Many women I have come across don't follow thru, and I think my communication skills are better than most women. Seems like it's more about fantasy than reality. With all these people on these sites, finding someone should be the rule, not the exception. Maybe that's part of the illusion. I guess I am looking for the needle in the haystack, but it is possible cause I know a few committed relationships that started thru a dating site.That being said, I am a friendly person with a good sense of humor. I really am. I want to meet someone who I find attractive, personable, and considerate, and AVAILABLE for a relationship. I have many interests, and enjoy being active. I am reasonably athletic, and regularly play tennis, jog, hike/walk, bowl, and am usually up for a game of volleyball, softball, basketball, tossing a football around, golf, racquetball, ping pong, etc. I am also a good teacher when it comes to tennis, golf and bowling. Some of my other interests include live music, outdoor fests, dancing, dinners out, socializing with friends. I love animals, my 2 dogs in particular, and I get along well with children. I have 10 nephews and nieces who are now grown. They were all lovely children, and are now all wonderful young adults. Fun, mutual attraction, laughter, good conversation, and plans for a second date. What we do is much less important than how we relate. I can enjoy myself doing lots of different things.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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