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Sela, 51
United States, New York, Inwood

Offline, last seen Wed, 04 Feb 2026 14:17:11

About Me

FunRomanticCaringThoughtful.....wait very thoughtfulGreat kisser (so I've been told)LovingPassionateLoyalSensitiveSocialPersonableOutgoingAffectionate ( including PDA )I always see the good in peopleI’m a young 51, people say I look more like 45 but not everyone see’s the same thing ( don't let the pics fool you, I have a lot more to offer ...you have to meet me in person and find out yourself). I act young, I love to have fun, I enjoy life (even alone) and dislike drama. I’m a family man with 2 adult kids which I’m very close to. I love to laugh, have fun and enjoy life.I’m a romantic, sensitive, fun loving guy who is looking for the same thing in a woman. I was brought up with old fashioned values, I’ll open doors for you, help you with your coat, drop you off and pick you up at the door when it’s bad weather. I’ll clean the snow off of your car or go get you gas when you need it. You will get flowers for no reason, a kiss just for being you, I’ll hold your hand as we walk thru the mall and make you feel like you’re the only woman in the world.Im " romantic" not " mushy" lol . Just looking for that special person to enjoy life with whether we are at a theater or Ti Cat game, its not what you do but who you do it with. I’m looking for that woman to hold hands with as we grow old. Spend quality time doing simple things like going to the grocery store together or walking thru a flea market or cooking a meal.What’s the saying… “You never know what you had until it’s gone”...well I don’t want that feeling. I want you to know every day that you mean everything to me, whether it’s a note, flowers or just a hug…you will feel that you’re loved and never have to question it.That’s a little of what makes me who I am, I’d love to know what makes you the special person you are. Would appreciate a photo. Good luck in your search, everyone deserves to be happy.If I don't answer your *** sorry but I don't think we are a match and if I add you to my favorites ( I dont have ***lol) and you're not interested please remove yourself. Thank you and good luck ladies We can decide but it will be ladies choice

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    6'0"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Country R&B Chinese French Korean Mexican Vietnamese Adventure Comedy Martial Arts Romance
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