Nestor

• Holtsville
• New York
• United States

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Man. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

Looking for: woman. In age: 49-59

Fun ,hard working guy ,and able to balance work with pleasure .I'm musical ,and I do like to get out to do Kareoke on occassion .Enjoy going out for drinks and fun ,but I also like hanging out at home just watching a movie or lounging around the yard .I have two great kids ,but they are older and now have their own lives ,so it's time for me to find someone to share my life with .I like to travel, when I can ,and spend alot of my spare time doing renovations .I like camping ,the mountains and finding new places to explore in and around the city . drinks or coffee on a patio on a nice day (if it's nice out )

Sparrow

• Holtsville
• New York
• United States

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Man. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

Looking for: woman. In age: 51-61

I love being outdoors and would have a more enjoyable night sitting by a bonfire rather than watching TV or movies. They're ok too sometimes,like cold winter nights, but going for a drive, a walk,a bike ride, or even window shopping, would be more rewarding to me. Watching movies or watching TV usually puts me to sleep. I do tend to spend too much time online or gaming though. I've enjoyed gymnastics, drawing, painting,working on cars,Archery,sailing,snowmobiling, fishing, but the last few yrs i'd say my passion has been photography,computers , camping, or finding a site by the water to relax...or anywhere far enough away that theres no more traffic noise or airplanes.just the wind,birds,and perhaps the odd crackling branch to make it exciting. I always liked taking pictures,but I couldn't afford to keep developing them. But now with Digital cameras ...well! i can easily *** in a day...and maybe keep 3, but i'm as interested in taking them as i am too see what i got when i get home. I don't claim to be any great photographer, i know little actually so far..but i do have some nice ones ( I think ), and i seem to spend a lot of my free time that way. And of course camping falls nicely into all this too. I don't consider myself a "tree hugger". But I will say i have a problem with anyone referring to hunting or fishing as a sport.......but its not a sport...a sport seems to generally involve chasing a piece of rubber,leather, or plastic back and forth in a pre-determined area, and how well you can do it.....catch and release is just torturung nature, and I feel if we fished for birds the same way, people might understand the cruelty..but since it's all happening under water who cares? Who can hear them cry out? If they don't have feelings or a mind of their own, Why do you think they put up such a fight.....instantly? All I'm saying is if you're not doing it to eat them,don't bother.You may as well be catching squirrels or cats and dogs on my eye, with your fishing rods if they arent being used for "hunting",...for food, and just to let them go after....how can you feel that's ok? when most of these same people "wouldnt hurt a fly" .....unless it bit them....oh and spiders are ok too.Not that we aren't going to pollute them all into extinction within the next 50 yrs anyways probably.....just saying. I'd say I'm Christian or rather i believe in a God....but no longer follow Catholic beliefs. or rituals.I like most types of music..depending on my mood at the time of course, or how often i've heard the song lately. I used to enjoy dancing, but was always too nervous to ask women I didn't know. Now it's been so long i feel even more awkward when I do dance.Unless its a slow one. I'm a person who hates conflict,very easy going, but not a push over....i may go along with it for a while..and not say nothing...but I'd say I do tend to give everyone "enough rope to hang themselves". I treat all as a friend...but if you screw me over, or i feel i'm being used i won't be a close friend for long.or grant you the same trust. My father was in the military, and moving was almost guarenteed every ***yrs. So i guess I'm very adaptable with different types of people,and socialy retarded in other ways. lol ...but hey if everyone was perfect life would be boring and stagnant. I honestly don't know what I'm looking for on this site. I think there's too many options out there today. and people change over time...and not always together. So any ideas of marriage on my part may take a while. But A female/best freind/lover with simular beliefs and interests,(and hopefully a few of their own) would make me a very happy man, and keep me around...and thats all thats really important to me. Personally I'm not looking for "A Barbie Doll" or "Arm Candy", just compatability. External beauty isn't that high on my list. Sometimes peoples beauty doesn't become apparent until you get to know them....then the warts and big ears seem to disappear ...but sure there's limits lol. It's the inner connection/knowing/friendship/beauty that I seek. Someone "I believe" truely Understands,Trusts and "Loves" ME.. NOT someone afraid of being alone, and their clocks running out.Ready to settle with anyone with a job. I'm looking for that magic that I know is possible between two people. Seems impossible to find,or know on here. Ok, I keep thinking it...time to say it...I'd guess about 80% of the womens profiles I've read say " They don't like game players". Is there anyone that does? I haven't seen anyone's profile yet looking for that. and my guess is saying that on here only puts the scent of "sucker" in the waters for more sharks in this little pond of fish. I tend to think people who say that....they think that way...and are themselves "game players". People who are jealous and suspicious all the time....think that way. and attract that into their lives.Unfortunately because this site is free there's going to be abuse. people are less likely to play games if its costing them money....Just be aware.read between the lines.and don't rush into anything right away.....I suppose that goes for dating anyone outside your circle of friends. There IS going to be players.There IS going to be wierdos/rapists/serial killers/scam artists/etc.There IS going to be women posing as men and vice versa.There Is going to be people you eventually discover aren't functioning with a full deck.There Is going to be people with baggage.that's life. They're in your home town as well as online....deal with it.It's almost like walking through the mall holding a big sign saying "I'm single and looking". Ha! Try that and they'll all be coming out of the woodwork.But I truely hope nobody has to filter through too many before they find their "connection". AND!!!! From what I've learned in life women are the biggest game players going. And usually 3 steps ahead of the man in a relationship I might add.I think a man in love, blindly follows his heart and desires, but it's the woman who pulls the strings, and decides.AndI don't know about other guys, but whenever I see a big list at the end of a profile of "must nots", I think ....ooOO{ there's no pleasing her}, and I move on. Sure dream big. But realise nobodys perfect, and there's almost always trade offs....and often in life, the things that pissed you off are the things you'll miss, or remember about them when they're gone. First date...Hmmm probably dinner and a show,maybe followed by drinks after......However that wouldn't happen until I've chatted long enough online to get some understanding of you. Followed by a brief meeting somewhere simple, like Timmies.

Vito

• Holtsville
• New York
• United States

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Man. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

Looking for: woman. In age: 49-59

Its been a long time since I was looking to meet someone and I am just trying to fgure it out. Like everyone, life has served up a few curve balls but I am excited about the possibilities of a new beginning so here goes. ..I am humourous casual intelligent, I work hard through the week and like to kick back on weekends. I am direct, painfully (sometimes), honest, stable and focusing more on health than I used to. I am very family and friend focused, giving and generous. I am looking to slow down the pace now from all work and take more time for hobbies vs renovating and such. I am easy going, trustworthy and dependable (sheesh ..kind of sounds like a dishwasher??). Am patient, modest (except for this profile), honest and prefer "real" conversations to phoney ones. I love animals, nature, boating and being in Muskoka at the cottage and spend as much time there as I can... sights, sunsets, the smell, the peace is all good. I am handy (can build and fix things) and traditional..(opening the odd door isn't because you can't). I am compassionate and giving. I like all kinds of music from rock to motown to 40's, 50's, 60's 70's 80's, 90's and new country..no rap please. I am close to my family, have three adult step daughters and am loyal and supportive to my close friends. Can get by fine on my own but would prefer someone to share life with. Would like to share my world and like to learn about yours. I like going out but equally comfortable at home with good food, wine and a couch watching the TV (It seems to me everyone says that...doesn't anyone have chores and "stuff" to do)? Love to get people laughing and manage to generate a fair bit of humour once you get to know me. My home is always open and often a meeting place for friends and family. I guess I am looking for a special someone who understand the work hard, play hard motto. Someone satisfied with their life but want to forge a second beginning. Smart, energetic, fun, comfortable in jeans, shorts and a dress (i guess not at the same time), not too formal or serious but has the intelligence and compassion to care about life and the wit to laugh about it. Able to take some light hearted kidding and presumably deliver it. PS Sure glad this public scrutiny is over ...good luck in your search. Somewhere comfortable and casual for a few drinks where we can talk and learn about each other...