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Jafet, 55
United States, New York, Holtsville

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Is the belly fat ad beside my profile picture?........I'm not that bad!!!! I am a nice easy going guy thats good to people, friendly to all, just ask and I will try to help. I stay physically active by enjoying various winter and summer sports but, still have to work! but, I'm happy.(sounds like an add to get work?) This means I sit in my chair on front of my computer most of the time but, allows me to *** you during the day to breakup the excitement. Did I say breakup?...... thats why we are here! but, to find new excitement!.My fun activities are cycling, golf, any racquet sport, rollerblading; summer cottage swimming, hobie cat sailing, kayaking, water skiing(can you drive a ski-boat?); snow skiing / Xcountry & downhill; hockey 2x / week; some snowmobiling and not running. Single now four years after a thirty year relationship. At this point in my life family issues are a priority, my daughters' both over 22yr's old live with me and I stay invested in their activities and aspirations, this means two more years at university!!!!. Together with work and my fun activities, all take up a good deal of my time, I am sure that your life is just as or even more complex but, I would like the companionship of a woman that I could feel connected with. Dating, friends,?, at a fun comfortable level now that can develop to ?????? my weakness is if you are cute!........can't resist cuteness. You should also be physically fit so that together we are able to enjoy some of your and my activities. SO!, cute, playful, fun, fit are charateristics I am hoping you have, like me! but, much better looking, that should not be too hard. Stupid me, I forgot intelligence, one of us should have this!I feel a long term relationship would be great, only if the right charateristics, connection and comfort level is there. At this point in my life long term to me means a steady relationship where both of us keep their own space and be together whenever possible. I think we would both know, in most cases that after one night out if we could move forward. If only a friendship develops then we both should be happy!. So, ladies that are looking for "long term", don't you still have to experiment and have fun with this until you find Mr. Somewhat Perfect?. Or "long term" really means to be on this site until we qualify for the old age home dating site!.......we can do drugs then.......that should be fun!....... I think Miss. Perfect is out there but, she is probably a Mrs.. This quote is good "thank you but, I am now dating someone" and then you are still on line for the rest of your life!! it's not that hard to be honest. I have more quotes and I must say they are getting better!. Over 2+yrs, ***women said they would like to meet me and thank you!, I have *** or 7 of them and no response, from the women I would like to meet there is no interest in me............... dating should be much easier!!!!!!!. I enjoy listening and dancing to all types of music mostly jazz(oh Amy!,Amy!,Amy!) as well as dinner with fine wine, again this would be much better with the company of a nice cute woman. Family, good friends, food, aged fine wine, conversation what more do I need ? maybe you.it would be nice if you could drive a water ski-boat, ... or maybe you like to clean the cottage???? LOLhope we can get each other off this site! or you find what you are looking forthanksjim A Friday night at a quiet restaurant ............ or come to the lake and help clean the cottage!!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Crime Western
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