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United States, New York, Garden City

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About Me

I'm a college educated 51 year old male who enjoys family, friends, and life in general. Although I enjoy having nice things...I don't base my self-worth on how many of the nicer things in life I can accumulate. I believe those that do, miss out on some of the most amazing things life has to offer. Such things usually don't have a price tag...but are priceless. I am comfortable with my age...but I refuse to act accordingly :) I would describe myself as a very laid back individual, low key, humorous, confident but not arrogant. I am looking for someone I can't live without...I have done the whole "love the one you're with, if you're not with the one you love" scene in my younger years, and I'm a bit tired of such shallowness. I'm a 3rd degree black belt in a unique style of martial arts, and I love the sport of Mixed Martial Arts. I ride my motorcycle now and then, but normally just short rides around a local lake, as well as jet-skiing and boating. My cross-country biking days are far behind me,mainly because I hate back pain more than I love riding. I've been a gym rat since I was a teenager, and I'm sort of a "fitness-nut". I try to do something "physical" every day, mainly weightlifting and martial arts training, but out of all the physical activities I love & do, keeping up with my 7 year old grandson is the most exhausting ( but also the most enjoyable ).If you feel we're a possible match, feel free to contact me with anything else you would like to know. I guess a first date would be over a great cup of coffee...somewhere quiet where we could introduce ourselves and get to know a little bit more about each other. I believe being physically attracted to someone is extremely important, but there is so much more about a person than looks...which should go into making a relationship work. I believe that's the "; of internet dating...no matter how a person's picture & writing entices you, a relationship can't truly start until you actually get to spend some time with the other person.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    6'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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