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Ruben, 51
United States, New York, Garden City

Offline, last seen Sat, 26 Apr 2025 14:28:48

About Me

Extremely nice gentleman that has recently left a long term relationship. I am looking to spoil the right woman and am very easy going.( NO Drama Here ) I love to cook and like going out and also very much like meeting new people. I have good morals, I am self employed and have been since ***. I have Cajun heritage and love to travel. I have enjoyed a very blessed life already and am looking to learn new experiences an share some of the experiences I have garnered through my life with a special person. I also love music of all types and am extremely fond of the blues and classic an progressive rock. I love to be outdoors , I consider myself in good health and still feel like the best days are yet to come. I very much know how to conduct myself within the Corporate world and have traveled all over the world for various companies that I have worked for. I am very motivated love to work but also want to spend time with a beautiful lady. OK I am writing this part do to the fact that I have been inundated with e mails. First off I want to thank everyone of you ladies that have gave me a compliment or have said some kind words towards my profile, Thank you. I mean it from the bottom of my heart. You ladies really have made me feel welcome. Now for the bad news there is no way that I can hold a conversation with more than 1 person at a time, I am sorry for that as well. But I came here to see after a 21 year marriage that if anyone still wanted to even talk to a old man like me.... The answer is yes at-least for me it is. Now in lew of sounding like some egotistical a$$ ***! E. I hate talking about what makes me so Fabulous ***times a day. That makes me want to throw up. But I want to say if you have contacted me and I didn't get back with you or I didn't respond how you wanted me to. I am sorry for that as well. The reason is that I know what I am looking for and no matter how many times you try to *** will not change the fact that I know what I am looking for. I know what excites me in a woman. So what I have decided is that if I show interest there is a pretty good chance you have struck that nerve or feeling that winds my clock so to say. If you see my profile and have that kind of vibes about me let me know we will figure it out so to speak... But if you don't have any interest in me that is great too.... I know that is going to happen .. I am a big boy!!!! I can take it. So tell me and I will buzz off . I am not the stalker type really I am not. I promise. Now for another part of this is please don't ask me weird stuff about whats going on south of my belt line not only does it show disrespect to me it is very uncomfortable of a feeling to talk with a stranger about DuH DUH Think about that. I really am and consider myself somewhat of a Southern Gentleman I truly do.....I promise you will be treated with respect and I will mean what I have put on this BIO Page .. Because believe it or not. I am telling the truth. My pictures are 1 year old for the main one exactly to this Month all the way to the one on the motorcycle (March of ***that was taking this year so that's that story. Last thing I am not here to hurt anyone's feelings at all why would I. I am also not here for a Booty call or a one night stand or to see how many I can be with. That is not my style either so please give me the opportunity to make my choice with whom ever I want to be with or nor be with. I have zero expectations here and I also do enjoy chatting very much with everyone and love to chat but remember we are not looking for the same thing in the same way here. Very easy for this answer since it is all about the chemistry anyway. A place where both can feel comfortable maybe a few drinks if that is what we feel like doing, maybe a nice meal where I would like to have some nice conversation ,and see if there is any sparks or commonground. then maybe a nice moon lit walk or dessert at a place with some coffee an some laughs and some smiles. Laughter is very important to me. I would like to then end and if we feel the need to look forward to a second date go from there. There will never be any since of pressure from me ladies... I am very comfortable in my skin and don"t have any ego to feed. With me it's fun laughter good times and just a nice feeling. ( Le Bon Temp Rouler) Let the good times roll and let the chips fall where they may.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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