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About Me

I have been single for 4.5 years after a 12.5 year relationship, but I am the eternal optimist when it comes to finding love again. I don't think my expectations are too high. I am the type of man who will text or call you just to see how your day is. Some guys I've dated must think that is odd because they tend to just stop responding after a few dates..if you think we are not compatible let me know. I am an adult and can handle it. The truth shall set you free LOLI am looking for a guy who can be romantic, spontaneous, silly, and open to next experiences. Someone who wants to go out sometimes, but is equally happy staying home and cuddling. Someone who knows the simple pleasures or cooking and enjoying a nice meal together. Someone who is comfortable around my family and my friends because they would all be important to me. I am open to dating different types of guys...new experiences are always good. I don't judge...I hung my gavel up a long time ago. In return, I don't want anyone to judge me. We are all who we are. A great first date to me would be something as simple as coffee or a drink and some good conversation. I enjoy getting to know someone...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Lenard

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    Man. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    Single adventurous guy who wants to make a connection with another male that has similiar qualities and hobbies such as mine. I am a big Frank Sinatra fan and love all the music from that era. I enjoy sport's and played varsity football in college. I savour the outdoors, and love to landscape, as I did this one summer to pay for some of my education. I would like to think I am a little different than the main stream gay male. I am comfortable in the company of hetro-sexual people as I am with the gay community. In general I come from a great family, who loves me and accepts me for who I am and whoever I would decide to join me in family events. This is just a little about me, I will leave the rest to good conversation and maybe a great night out with a really cool guy! Peace!

  • Gerard

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    Man. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    Ah yes plenty of space to describe a lifetime but I don't feel like writing a book here though I am writing a book on personal freedom and technology. It's a challenging topic! And that's just it - nothing worthwhile is easy including the search for the right person to spend one's life with. But the headline gives a hint that I'm looking for something more than a quick hookup. Nothing against those if safely done but you tend not to see the person again sometimes so developing something more durable is worthwhile. There's a whole lifetime to tell about I suppose but not much space to do it so I will leave that up for a private chat. How's that for a copout...lol. But I have been looking on these personals sites for quite some time and am truly amazed how few quality guys there are out there who are ready for something more. Maybe everyone has a lot of baggage by the time they get a bit older who knows? The goal is to meet in person of course.As for me, I enjoy travel, outdoors, sports (hockey, skiing, and summer activities like rafting as well), great restaurants (All kinds especially Indian and Malaysian). As I mentioned, I am writing a book so do enjoy creativity too and attending art openings and so on.Will get some more photos on here too shortly so bear with me I know this is SO important!I tend to take joy in the moment, in seeing the beauty of it whether a person or in nature. Sure, there is a lot of bad out there but the way to handle it is to see it for what it is and give it minimal importance thought not *** Life is about variety and the saving moment is the next moment....it's a philospy of life but a practical one. I like a variety of foods in particular Indian and East Asian. Also enjoy some of the old movies (noir in particular) and in moder movies adventure and some sci-fi.Well-travelled but looking to go to some south american or south asian countries in my next trip.NOTE: Please POST a picture of yourself here showing your face. .Equally important have a bit of a write-up on yourself and what you are looking for in a guy and something about yourself. Thanks. First date would wither be at a coffee shop or over lunch/dinner. That's the best way to get to know someone face to face. I go by first date impressions as far as seeing if there is anything worth pursuing. I won't lead anyone on if I don't feel there is anything to build on. It sounds a little judgemental to do this on the first date but that's experience talking and I have been burned by letting hope guide things where there was nothing to begin with. That's just being honest even if it bothers the other guy to tell him where I stand. Because if you are there in person for a few hours you learn more than you do on line.

  • Hugo

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    Man. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    Hello, I have a slender, to athletic build, easy going, positive attitude, and usually smiling. I like doing things outdoors whether it’s work or play. I’m looking to make friends, whether it be for hanging out and doing things as friends, or something more meaningful and serious, both are good. Non-sexual friends can be females also, so don’t be afraid to contact me, just be honest whom-ever you are. Sexually I’m a bottom.My ideal man would be warm, honest, masculine, reliable, easy going, takes care of himself, and enjoy intimate times alone. He could be bi, curious, or gay, and a top only. To everyone; I don’t mind chatting, but if that is your only intention, please don’t bother. I’m here to meet people, in real-life, for friends or relationships, not endless, meaningless chat. Also, if you plan on contacting me, please have a current picture. I don’t care what you looked like 20, 10, or even 5 years ago. There’s no excuse not to have a current picture period unless you’re trying to hide something. I understand if you don't have a main picture posted for private reasons, but I'm not going to meet anyone unless I see a picture first. I hope you understand, I'm just trying to save time for everyone involved. I'd like to go for dinner somewhere with a good view, then go to a museum or gallery; somewhere we could observe and discuss likes and dislikes. On the other side we could go to a concert, something we both like then possibly go eat or go to a club.

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