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United States, New York, Fishkill

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I don't like the bars, Most often I keep to myself. Not anti-social. A quiet dinner, occasional BBQ. I can do without the malls, drama, and stupid stuff. Might sound a little crass, sorry, it is what it is. You won't see me trying to make myself look like something I am not. I tell it like I see it. I figure you want to see me, not a computer generated image of what I think you may want to see. I have plenty to be thankful for and I consider myself lucky to still be alive and healthy. I am happy to wake up every day,and stay happy, 99.9% of the time. There is that stupid stuff again. I think I have a pretty good attitude about most everything, and if I don't, I welcome, and can take the criticism. I don't take too much personally. I treat people with respect and ask the same. Off season I am in the mid-;home". Keeps me working but anything worth having is worth working for. Apparently on the other side of this coin, there are a bunch of liars and players. Most of you are looking for "honesty" over anything else. You get that from me. Sometimes more honesty than you can handle so, be prepared for the truth, as I see it. And no maam, I don't have R.P.S. Remember ladies, the knight with the shiniest armor has done the least amount of brave or cool stuff.. I feel compelled to add something here. Those of you who insist on posting pictures of your children and grand children have obviously bumped your head at some point. Do you really believe there are no predators lurking? Are you really that naive? Or do you think that this will be a factor in how we respond to your profile. This is a site to find a mate/friend/soulmate etc,etc,etc. But when I think of whether or not to make a choice on a prospective partner or friend, I would like to know they are somewhat intelligent about their choices. I do see who "wants to meet" me. I try to respond, but some will not allow me to message them. Dont be shy ladies. If you want to talk, it's ok, I dont judge because you make the first attempt at a contact. To me, it simply means your interested, not aggressive. Life is good. OH, and ladies, If your not going to respond to those who might do as you say you want, and try to contact you, only to be ***, remember, it reveals more about your character than you might want to reveal. A simple "no thank you" will do. Try to be nice huh. You know who you are,,And I can't help but give you another glimpse into my psyche. This is something I found, and may help some of you, who might be confused about us men in general.By special request... here ya go,, (But I can't take the blame alone)********Women, learn to work the toilet seat. You're a big girl. If it's up, put it down. We need it up, you need it down. You don't hear us complaining about you leaving it down.**Sometimes we are not thinking about you. Live with it.*Sunday = sports/hunting/fishing. It's like the full moon or the changing of the tides. Let it be.*Ask for what you want. Subtle hints do not work! Strong hints do not work! Obvious hints do not work! Just say it!*We don't remember dates. . . .Period!!*Most guys own three pairs of shoes - tops. What makes you think we'd be any good at choosing which pair, out of thirty, would look good with your dress?*Yes and No are perfectly acceptable answers to almost every question.*Come to us with a problem only if you want help solving it. That's what we do. Sympathy is what your girlfriends are for.*A headache that lasts for 17 months is a problem. See a doctor.*Anything we said 6 months ago is inadmissible in an argument. In fact, all comments become null and void after 7 days.**If you think you're fat, you probably are. Don't ask us. We've been tricked before!!*If something we said can be interpreted two ways, and one of the ways makes you sad or angry, we meant the other one.*Let us ogle. We are going to look anyway; it's genetic. We are only telling ourselves how lucky we are that you look better than her.*You can either ask us to do something or tell us how you want it done. Not both. If you already know best how to do it, just do it yourself.*Whenever possible, please say whatever you have to say during commercials.**The relationship is never going to be like it was the first two months we were going out. Get over it. And quit whining to your girlfriends.*ALL men see in only 16 colors, like Windows default settings. Peach, for example, is a fruit, not a color. Pumpkin is also a fruit. We have no idea what mauve is.*If it itches, it will be scratched. We do that.*We are not mind readers and we never will be. Our lack of mind-reading ability is not proof of how little we care about you.*If we ask what is wrong and you say "nothing", we will act like nothing's wrong. We know you are lying, but it is just not worth the hassle.*If you ask a question you don't want an answer to, expect an answer you don't want to hear.*Don't ask us what we're thinking about unless you are prepared to discuss such topics as navel lint, the shotgun formation, or monster trucks.*Foreign films are best left to foreigners.)*Television is as exciting for us as handbags are for you.*Thank you for reading this; Yes, I know, I have to sleep on the couch tonight, but did you know, it's like camping.*Some have taken offense to this part of my profile. I find that very interesting. Why? Oh,,maybe it fits you and you hear the truth? Character flaws are not the lying, deceit, judgments, jealousy, negative thinking and manipulative tactics we all have experienced, the flaw lies with denying or *** traits and not doing anything to fix them. Daily maintenance is a huge part of my life. What about you? Do you do to others and get angry when they do to you? Try to fix that. Dinner and a movie? Probably not. Dinner, not a bad choice, we all need to eat. But a movie would send you into the, "; routine. Something a little less pretentious would be nice though. Doesn't need to cost a bunch, just somewhere we could actually engage in conversation, and not have to bother others as they scour the theater screen, shushing people as they try to talk. By the way, does anyone else feel like they're shopping at Wal-??

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    No

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    I have been lucky to have enjoyed life to the fullest and have great family,friends & health.I believe in respect & honesty and i treat people as i would want to be treated.(no i'm not a masochist :))Single by choice and having fun and no that doesn't mean i am sleeping with all the women i can:) and you never really find love when looking anyway, it finds you.Maybe find a soul mate at your next publix visit:) .IF you are full of yourself or consider yourself better then others,please read no further.If you don't take yourself or this site too serious and like meeting friends and having fun, please read on.I`I love boating, deep sea fishing, swimming, body surfing and the beach mostly and also enjoy travel,shooting pool, poker, bar-b-q`s and going out with my friends. Would say i'm honest,real,and easy to talk to . love the ocean and walk down to the beach most days and whether it`s rough or dead calm it always gives me a special feeling of tranquility.Sunsets and moon rises are great there too. My friends and family are very important to me.Most of my friends are younger then i but they still can't keep up.I enjoy dancing(some things change with age),not great at it but it feels good :) and most types of music with favorites being reggae, classic rock and top 40. I like meeting people as friends and if anything comes from it fine, if not you can never have too many friends.I`m very honest(sometimes to a fault), easy going, can laugh at myself and one of the happiest individuals i know.I never sweat the small stuff and almost always have a smile.I never really look for love as i have always found it finds you when you least expect it. Honestly i am not on here on a mission but if i found a friend first relationship where the first step is to just enjoy each others company,that would be great. I`ve always been in long relationships,was married once and have no children, although i do love children and get along with them extremely well.I guess it's because i act like a big kid.:)I`m currently enjoying my single time, traveling often and having my life be drama free. I can be a little shy at first(some friends would laugh at that) but it certainly does nott last and once comfortable can be very outgoing.I am extremely loyal and always do what i say i will do.I ALWAYS have fun. I never try to be someone i'm not. I wish all the best of luck in their search for whatever it is they are looking for. I do not care for people who are liars,phonies,conceited or rude. I like first dates to be casual like a lunch date or a meeting as friends for a drink.I think some people are more themselves without date pressure and it`s easier to truely get to know each other.

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    Man. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 49-59

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