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DemetriusOffline
Man. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: woman. In age: 49-59
What makes me different/unique/special? I am also from an international family (airline industry, etc.) and have traveled the world from an early age. I love to travel for leisure. I have been in the USA for about 25 years. I also enjoy the flexibility of being self-employed doing software development, training and consulting for 18 years. I would like to meet someone active, young- and open-minded, educated, spontaneous, with a sense of humor, with strong values and integrity; someone romantic and sensual; someone interested in expanding our horizons in many ways (the outdoors, travels, arts, dance or cooking classes, etc.); someone beautiful to my eyes inside and out; someone who can balance a successful career with family life and that of a couple. Someone who enjoys life. I believe I offer those attributes too and, with her help, hope to better myself more. I think that part of falling in love is discovering qualities in a partner that one didn't think of, and to appreciate the world through her eyes.Activity for first date? Whatever we both feel comfortable with and that allows us to get to know each other better.
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JabariOffline
Man. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.
Looking for: woman. In age: 50-60
I have this Theory about Divorce....After years of being in the Hospitality Industry and watching people behave in Public and especially (a little bit) older people, I have made some fairly decent observations. I think.I can't tell you how many men I have served who have told me about their pending divorce and out of habit I always ask the same question; "As head of your family, are you sure you have done everything to put your marriage back together?" I *** a "yes" from these men and my most favorite response is; "I am ashamed to tell you this but my wide and I have not had sex in over 2 years!" In some case I go further and ask a few more questions such as; "is your wife going through menopause or pre-menopause?" or "have you or your wife lost there Mom and Dad in the last couple of years?" Each one of these questions denotes a critical cause and effect psychological condition that could be responsible for the marital issues at hand....and can be handily treated and resolved in most cases. These are just 2 common things people our age go through during a marriage if we are in our 40's and on.There is a problem that has creeped into the divorce cycle that is commonly mis- Unfortunately over the counter supplements are not FDA approved and therefore have an unknown factor with behavior modification.Now the question that most men will never answer is the following; "has your wife gained any weight or had any medical conditions?" Believe it or not most men have an extreme sense of loyalty to a soon to be ex-spouse, where these questions would be, in their mind disrespectful if discussed with a stranger or even a close friend. Only in therapy is is found out that a spouse has grown to where they feel un-attracted to their partner especially if they have gained weight or a medical condition has changed their appearance.Now for the kicker. If you are a man and you read through the profiles on meetville, probably over 75% have some mention of "honesty" or a reference to infidelity somewhere in the profile. It does not take a psychology degree to realize that these women have felt betrayed in their marriage and was the reason for their divorce. They also feel this will be the main priority on the next go round. It is a shame to say this, but infidelity is never the reason for the divorce as experts agree that that is a symptom of a divorce...in other words, it is the final straw that brings a marriage to a conclusion. Unfortunately, most people never come to terms for the failure of their divorce and often repeat that behavior as 2nd marriage end in failure 75% of the time.So how prevalent is mental disease or psychological and personalty disorders untreated and divorce? I think it is very significant...it deals with this very subject very well!And ladies, while you all are thinking that the men you meet on this forum are all "Players" perhaps that may be correct based on the fact that the men that date in 40's and 50's are in no rush towards marriage where the statistics are not favorable and they most certainly do not want to rush into a situation where they are telling their Bartender; "do you know how long it is been since I have sex with my 2nd wife?" Friendship is important! I am seeking the rare person who I would call a "kindered spirit..you know by just looking at their eyes, an old soul if you will...going to live music venues and things of interest such as Martini's at Fernbank.
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WhitakerOffline
Man. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: woman. In age: 50-60
I LIVE A GREAT LIFE, ALTHOUGH I HAVE A MISSING LINK, I am also non conventional: Please read the deal breakers before reading the profile.I AM LOOKING FOR AN UPBEAT WOMAN. I'm an excellent communicator and believe that communication is what builds trust and understanding in a relationship( That means I LISTEN well) Im an upbeat gentleman that likes quality time. I am very social and get along well with others. I enjoy my work and have a good work ethic. My hard look is a callus exterior build from years of trial and error, beneth it is a gentle boy (man). I enjoy going out on the boat, the beaches, a motor cycle ride and just laugh with a fun woman that is secure and looking to compliment us both. I am by no means a biker, its just a toy to me. I am open minded and love anything to do with the water and boating. I am a licensed captain with the U.S.C.G. and love the summer. Wave runners that i love to play with in the ocean. I have a bit of a edge to me, Love to stay home and entertain, yes i cook & i even wear an apron when i cook, Watch quality TV while the fireplace is blaring, cuddle and relax. Sit in the hot tub in the winter and use the pool in the summer. I have no drama in my life now , i am thankful for that, Also i don't want any drama, Just so you know i would not date a woman that smokes or uses any drugs, Im naturally high on life . I enjoy cooking and making a meal with a glass of wine. You will never see me in front of a TV screaming at it with a can of beer in my hand. I have much bigger fish to fry. I am a perfect gentleman with an edge to me , that means I'm not boring. I own my own home. I share it with my 2 little dogs & cat i keep my home clean and yes i have a car and a good job. I love doing this & sharing the knowledge with them. Winters are nice but i prefer the warm climate. Winters are when i ride my quad and enjoy the holidays( Thanksgiving & Christmas) So ladies, if you like what you read and have similar interests say hello to me and maybe we will meet and connect. I am not in a rush to jump into anything but my eyes are open wide. I often wonder if there is a combination of Pretty and normal( Thats what chemistry means) I usually will find a pretty nut or a normal homely woman. Are there any pretty normal ones out there. I do need chemistry with a woman as you would a man. Ladies,please excuse the sunglasses, i have very sensitive eyes in the summer. Does that scare you, LOLIF YOU ARE ONE OF THESE ITS A DEAL BREAKERS: Gold diggers, smoker,angry person, liars & cheater, drunk & druggies, drama queens,pretentious, Cocaine user,pot smoker, GO AWAY! I don't want to hear about your ex, your son that was arrested, your daughter that is 16 and pregnant and its not the kids fault. It only means you are WHACKED! This is after speaking on the phone.I am looking for a fun woman who is Confident with herself, if this is you let's talk.Having fun, looking to laugh and be my self. A nice boat ride out to Fire Island would be nice or to just take a bike ride in the Fall or spring. A dinner date or even to cook at my house. Please understand that i would NOT date a smoker or someone who uses any drugs. I am a very positive person and im proud to say i have NO DRAMA in my life.At some point we all carry drama however im lucky not to have any now. In turn i am not looking for any(DRAMA) rather id like to meet a emotional health person that loves to laugh ,have fun and compliment my life and share in it with me. Someone who has something to bring to the table as i do. I am not a follower more a leader. Well ladies if this interests you id like to hear back from you .