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Jeptha, 55
United States, New York, Fishkill

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About Me

I'm a open minded, smart guy with a big heart and lots to share looking for a lover, best friend and partner. I'm moral but not a prude, slow to judge because life has thrown me some things I never expected. I like to work hard, but laugh and have fun too. I'm looking for a girl that is classy, knows how to share and accept my sharing, and is smart. My first wife of 25 yrs will tell you that I am loving, compassionate and generous. I will tell you that I am an open minded person that likes to always be curious and learning. I love old movies, good music, especially from the 60's, 70's and of course later too... my son lives in NYC and enjoy visiting there now! ... and I love the American West... I enjoy the beach, but more often the mountains... I don't like really hot weather.I enjoy some time alone occasionally. But I am mostly a "my girl" kind of guy. In other words, *** being out with the boys or a male friend, I generally prefer being with my girl if she is free. And while I am not clingy in the least, I do prefer to make most of my plans revolve around she or maybe, YOU and I.As an only child, my Mom taught me to never be selfish and I have a soft spot for the underdogs of this world. I was a very good Dad and was "there" for almost everything important as they grew up. So, I know the value of family relationships and will respect your needs with your family and would like to get involved with a great family where I can fit in. l If you have younger children, that is o.k. too. If they can accept me, I will naturally grow to love them too. I have taught both young married couples and teenagers and they would tell you I can be really fun and often irreverent.... so if you are looking for "boring" or "no personality", pass me by. I have a type A personality and never meet a stranger, but don't crave the attention of most other people or get my kicks out of being president of this, or having my pic in the paper for that.... Does this make sense?By the way, while still a believing Christian, I have done everything you can do in church ten times over and I am glad to let others do most of those things now. I will confess I am skeptical about some things the church has become... so seemingly entertainment oriented at many churches. But I still respect Christians that are steady, dependable folks that don't just tell they are praying for someone, but get off their butts and give or visit or risk involvement with people who are hurting. I try to be that kind of guy myself. But I still believe prayer matters too.Also, if you are someone that holds grudges or can't get over some past hurt or someone that just "writes off" someone because they have offended you at some time... again pass me by. I have to be hit over the head with a "2 by 4" before I get that you are really angry with me. And I am quick to forgive and try to never hold grudges. And loyalty is HUGE for me. I think people are more important than things and that none of us can have too many friends... and that friends are too valuable to be casually tossed aside.. Also, I will always be quick to tell you I am sorry if I know I have stepped "on your toes" in some way. Yes life is too short to waste time being angry... lets get over it, and get back to hugging and kissing and enjoying each other.... There is much more, but that will give you an idea of what makes me tick.... If you want to know more... let's talk. 55 Year old guy looking for "rest of life" partner/best friend. On a first date, I would want to meet you somewhere you would feel comfortable and somewhere where we could just talk and maybe eat as we get to know one another. I would let you choose where we go if you have a preference. I believe in treating a woman like a lady, pulling the chair, opening the car door, etc. If you don't have a preference, I take pride in showing others places I think are "neat" or "special"... so I can make decisions for us too....======================================

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    6'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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