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Diamond, 52
United States, New York, Farmingdale

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About Me

I am posting on this site in hopes of finding the woman who will resonate with my words and find value in sharing her life with me. The statistics of our lives and the details of our past are going to influence our attitudes and expectations. Our dreams and hopes, the purpose we claim for our future, is what will decide if we are a good fit going forward.Do you believe that you deserve better than what you've had? Do you feel that you can give more than what you gave in the past? Do you hope that you can find someone who will appreciate you for what you are today and what you may become tomorrow? Can you get through the infatuation of meeting a new and interesting person and stay involved in a positive partnership?I cannot fix your flaws. I will not listen to your excuses. I will not waste your time asking that you listen to me whine and moan about the poor outcomes of situations in my past. I believe humans make their own lives, that we live too frequently with the fear of declaring ourselves boldly, that we capitulate, accommodate, and bargain away our greatness in our efforts to care for others and to appease those whom we value.I promote greatness in others. I have helped partners survive cancer, surgery, and chemo. I have helped them raise their education and move confidently into the world. I have supported them as they learned that they could reach for achievement and attain it. I have been their white knight, their rock, their confidant, their lover, their handyman, their accountant, their diplomat, their defender, and their friend.If you can say the same, then I say that this is our time. If you have promoted others, if you have worked hard so that someone you love could benefit, if you sacrificed so that another person could have a chance at a better future, then I tell you that we can have a piece of that for ourselves. If you feel that you can be better and do more and accomplish something of worth, then I would truly appreciate the opportunity to talk to you and see if you and I might work toward that brighter future together and share it with each other.I am not a sugar daddy. I believe you are too valuable to barter your body for comforts and empty promises. I believe I have more to offer you than my wallet and my body in bed.If my message resonates with you, perhaps we deserve the chance to try. *** you are interested, and let's see what we can do as a team. coffee, lunch, or dinner and definitely conversation. a handshake at the end, just as a simple courtesy for letting me meet you. no kissing and certainly nothing further on the physical side until and unless we both feel comfortable. if you treat it as a job interview or a dress-up dinner then you've gone too far. think of it more like a trip to the museum - we're both just having a look. tone down the pressure and remove any sense of obligation and you've about got it. it's an informal introduction with some Q&A tossed in. anyone can do a polite lunch and make small talk, it's easy. we take the next step only if we both feel some chemistry.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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