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Jairus, 55
United States, New York, Farmingdale

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About Me

Writer, poet, blogger, activist, chess-player, reader, and farmer (no kidding) trying to make this world a safer place in which to grow and live, I believe in leading by participation. Writing several books at this time while preparing for changes in the world happening all around us. Love music of all kinds, especially with soul and heart; I like real music and real art of all kinds.... to include a few (and exclude rap/hip-hop). Really would like to connected to a group of people who know what is really going on in the world, which means people who look beyond "let's go have some fun for fun's sake." This is to say, relationships today ought to be more than that, as we have little time to prepare for what is coming; this includes changes and probable wars that will impact nearly all of us. Who is really prepared? Hence, it's essential to build relationships around trust and honesty interacting as an intimate dynamic. I believe in intimacy and affection; thrift; growing one's own food and some for others; life as a continuous learning process;sharing and exchanging knowledge; forgiveness of others and oneself; moderation in indulgences; non-GMO foods and mostly organic; red wine and chocolate as health foods; camping, hiking, and building shelters; living in tiny houses if possible; looking toward our common future; building stronger bonds with others; reading nonfiction; the value of classic and traditional knowledge; keeping one's word; admitting to one's mistakes; learning practical skills; browsing for old-fashioned useful items in thrift stores and garage sales; inter-generational relationships; learning practical skills; natural rather than pharmacological treatments; and life after death of one's body. If I were to say one day, "it's time to go retreat and live in a well-prepared cave," this should not scare anyone away, as that day might very well be on our horizon. Nevertheless I maintain a strong belief in faith, hope and love. Time is precious so preparation is in order. This is to say, it's essential to communicate well before meeting and making a time commitment. Could be any sort of thing, from coffee at a unique place to meeting with a bottle of red on the beach just for talk and fun. Music ventues . . . where little talk is likely to happen? Day hike on local trails? River walk, park or hemp fest? Pioneer Square or fountains arond town? How about Saturday Market with that cold misty rain early on Sunday? Campfire and favorite beverages on a cool night? Watch a sunset from Mt. Another show in OMSI Planetarium or a movie in McMeniman's? The Tea Room on NW 23rd or Laughing Planet for a fat burrito? Volunteer time at a food bank or cutting grapes for a grape harvest ... we get to stomp on the grapes and drink home-made wine from prior years? Lots of fun things can start after four-twenty in the afternoon, and I'm open to most ideas.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

English Indian Korean Rodeo Tennis Singing
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