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Benett, 55
United States, New York, Farmingdale

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“Hello ladies, I'm Rick. If your seriously looking for a good man that would always treat you right, please read on. I have no claim to perfection but I'm not the typical guy!! I've been told I could pass for being in my mid 40s but I'm a very young at heart and mind active 55 yr. old, ageing has been very kind to me. I'm a non-smoker, very light social drinker, 5' 10", vary between ***lbs. I am in extremely good health and work out at the gym regularly. Been told that I'm handsome, you know easy on the eye's. I do not put any stock in astrology, but I am an Aries in many ways.I'm just a normal down to earth no nonsense guy, looking for a normal woman, and a healthy mutual loving relationship. Chivalry is not dead. Don't be offended when I open the car door, slide your chair in, offer you my arm as we walk, give you my jacket if the night turns cold, or shield you from traffic with my body as we walk down the street. As a man, it is my job to lead, protect, understand, appreciate and embrace all that you are. I'm looking for companionship and love. Not games, there seems to be plenty of that on these site's. I am real, a man with a heart and soul. I know exactly who I am and what I want, no indecision here what so ever. This is me!! Lol. I take a real interest in my partner, I care about her and her feelings and I truly listen. I miss female companionship, and the touch and scent of a woman. I'm attentive, romantic, affectionate, kind, generous, gentle and fun loving. It's easy to get to my heart, and I'm consistent in my personality, I am pretty much an open book. I like to spoil and pamper my sweetie by surprising her with little gifts like flowers and cards with no occasion at all.In a committed relationship I'm quite passionate, basic affection and long lasting love making is VERY IMPORTANT to me and my heart is defiantly involved, I do my best to be a tender and pleasing lover! I love to cuddle up together and watch a movie or just talk and enjoy the closeness.I'll even watch a girly movie with you when you want and I wont complain. I'm an outdoors guy in the spring, summer, and fall. I enjoy boating, and hoping to put another one on the water next year. I also like bike riding, movies during cold or rainy days, walking hand in hand at the park or around the block, bowling, billiards, yard work and yes even honey do lists etc. My field of training is a Heavy Industrial Mechanic and normally work as a Millwright. My line of work is very physically demanding and dangerous. I prefer to be active, though I value kicking back and relaxing. The one thing I am not is a couch potato!Seeking a special lady, ***with like interests and attributes, that is fit and active. I take very good care of myself and keep myself fit, and I'm attracted to woman that does the same. Please understand I do not mean a perfect Barbie doll, I don't care if you consider yourself 10, or maybe 15 pounds over weight, but there is something to VISUAL. It is important!!Some attributes that are very important to me in a woman is that you are very open, honest and communicates from the heart. Say what you mean, and mean what you say. Warm and affectionate are really important. Its also a huge turn for me when a woman can have that sexy seductive part to her personality, yet still be a real classy lady. In my opinion a good woman tends to smooth out the rough edges of a man and introduces a calm into his life that is refreshing and balancing, THIS IS MY DESIRE!! Ladies If you think about this for a minute, this is a complement to you. For one none of us were meant to be alone, and us men do better with a good woman in our lives, that's a proven statistic.Lastly, It takes a face to face meeting to really see if there is chemistry, so after exchanging a few letter's It's good to meet for coffee or lunch and talk to get a feel for each other. I'm not going to spend weeks *** and forth. If there's mutual interest, It takes spending time together to really get to know each other, I spend time getting to know one woman at a time, I'm not into serial dating. Anything else, what's the point of being on here!!” We could decide together, hopefully something that allows us to be able to talk and really get to know each other

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Mexican Portuguese South American Comedy Drama Martial Arts
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