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Standish, 55
United States, New York, Farmingdale

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About Me

I am an honest, hardworking, caring man who discovered my love for nursing later in life. I can be serious and goofy too. I love to laugh and make others laugh. I am told that I look younger than my years. I crave excitement but enjoy relaxing as well. I love music and (try to) play guitar and harmonica. I have a music room in my house and enjoy getting together with friends to jam when I can. I have been known to karaoke and I enjoy dancing (badly). I like most kinds of music. I decide whether I like it by how it makes me feel rather than the genre. When I play music (instruments) I lean towards blues and classic rock. I love live music, concerts and the energy of the crowd.I work evenings at a hospital unit which keeps me busy but I am fortunate to have 5 days off every other week which gives me the opportunity for travel/adventure. I have two wonderful adult daughters who are my heart. One is a lab scientist and the other lives with me while she is working on her physics degree. I believe chivalry is a requirement, and see PDA as natural and healthy. I like cats and dogs but don't have the time for them now. Still working on my bachelors degree but will get there as I can. I have my own house that I am slowly updating and I am adept at fixing/repairing things. I like working with my hands in many different ways and I have many tools. I love the outdoors, camping, hiking and getting out into the woods although it has been a while since I have been able to fulfill these desires.I could go on but would rather hear about you. I am looking to meet attractive, sensitive, open minded, caring independent people who are willing to start as friends and see if anything develops. Athleticism and an adventurous spirit are a must. Please also have a positive attitude, be non-judgmental and be someone who looks for the best in people/situations (without being naive/gullible about it of course). No sense in dwelling on or complaining about things if we are not actively seeking or working on a solution. Message me and we can see if there is a mutual spark. Must have that mutual attraction to begin with. Given my work schedule I may take a while to respond. If I don't respond at all please take no offense, it probably just means I don't think we are a good fit. Thanks for checking me out. If we find that spark, I look forward to meeting you. Coffee, drinks,.dinner followed by a walk and conversation.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    6'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Metal Punk Walking Greek Italian Vietnamese Soccer / Football
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