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Ruben, 55
United States, New York, Farmingdale

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About Me

Looking to meet some new friends to do things with. A cup of coffee, a friendship, and where ever it may lead from there. My story is ongoing, the past stays in the past, the present is evolving and the future is unwritten. Would like to meet someone to help write those chapters. I enjoy music (blues being my favorite), outdoors, fishing, absolutely love dogs, wooden boats (a passion), these are just a few of my interests and so many more. I am honest, caring, possess integrity, resourceful, easygoing and tidy. Almost sound like a Boy Scout...not by a long shot, but I am a gentleman. Still remember how to open doors and pull out chairs. Looking for someone who is not afraid to laugh, even if it's at yourself. Honesty and openness are big with me. Likes to experience new things, food, culture, places. Spontaneous?I'm not going to tell my life history here, need to have something for later. Now that's been awhile! Coffee and conversation is a good start. Maybe a walk in the park. Anywhere quiet where we can talk, maybe with a backdoor just in case. I love live music and movies, but find these venues to be too distracting when you are trying get to know someone.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    6'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Drama Family & Kids Martial Arts
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