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Kilie, 49

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WARNING: Any *** individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects-you DO NOT have the permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice.We can really say whatever we want in this small box, but I believe it all boils down to how much real intimacy two people each need, are capable of giving, are capable of receiving, and do those depths match up?I think I've put my finger on what "chemistry" means to me.... my professional life is filled with very serious painful stories everyday......what my love life needs to be, is that place where we just smile and laugh and touch and tell interesting stories about important and unimportant stuff....a lot. I like people who are a mix of impulsive and calming. I love words. Chemistry is being with a man who knows how to help that happen. When 2 people fully show up, whether it's to tackle a problem, to share a meal, to take an adventure, to make love.......that's Chemistry.Here's why not to fall madly in love with me: I am crazy busy with a very intense life. My children and I have been through the Hell of battling and losing my husband to cancer. I do not have the luxury of a partner in parenting so I cannot count on my "free" time (drool). Men who are "simple" or avoidant always end up frustrated with me. OK I'm sure a huge amount of you have signed off by now....so what else? I'm passionate, affectionate, funny, and practice honesty as a never ending character builder. This means I don't lie, not even the so called "white" kind and expect the same in return. Cooking is my therapy making something new almost nightly (more intensive sessions occur with wine and Frank Sinatra added). I keep my circle small as I believe in giving a lot of attention to the people I love. I love the outdoors, my mental health is managed mostly with cycling, yoga and phone calls to my bestfriend and brother. I laugh really loud at the funny parts...(don't take me to a funny movie if you're easily embarrassed in public)!! I am the successful mother to two incredible young teens. As they require increasing independence it has the added benefit of freeing me up more and more. I get glimpses of the light at the end of a pretty long, fascinating tunnel, and I'm looking forward to cultivating the relationship that is for my future.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Clairene

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I would like to find someone fun to hang out with, first and foremost. I enjoy..... fishing, horses, music, hiking, cooking, exploring, adventure. I am not a girly girl, by any stretch.... I am most comfortable in my jeans, Fatbabys, t-shirt and flannel. I do clean up all right though, when need be. I LOVE LOVE LOVE college football and Nascar, and will gladly have either on my television uninterrupted. In fact, come football season, there simply is NOT anything but football on my television come Saturday morning. Sorry, that is one thing I refuse to compromise on. If you don't watch college football or have no interest in football in general, just scroll on by this chick. I'm simply not your cup of tea. Oh, and I have been known to drink beer and yell at the television while game watching too, buyer beware. As if you can't tell, I have no problem speaking my mind. I am independent, self-confident, outgoing and self-sufficient. I am financially stable and money does NOT impress me.TEETH... I definitely have a THING about teeth... I have worked in Dental Administrative for 10 years now, and yes.... I notice TEETH. they don't have to be perfectly straight and chiclet white- in fact, i think crooked teeth have more character- but you must, must, MUST be pro-active about keeping them clean. That's probably my biggest weird hang-up.Although I am outgoing, I don't enjoy big crowds or LOUD venues (unless it's the races or a football game); I prefer smaller more intimate places in which I don't have to shout to be heard by you sitting 2 feet from me. It would be nice to find someone who can truly appreciate the beauty in sitting in perfect silence and just taking in the surrounding atmosphere. I enjoy companionship, but don't necessarily always have something to say. There is no such thing as awkward silence as far as I am concerned....REALLY.... REALLY dislike talking on the phone. I do it all day for my job, and I really do not like having to do it after 5 pm. I will text all day long though.... that's much more quiet. And I absolutely ABHOR shopping***I would rather pull my fingernails out with rusty pliers***unless we're going to Cabela's, Black Bird, Sportsman's Warehouse, or any gunsmith shop. I am willing to do grocery shopping together, as long as there is a list and a time limit in place. I get extremely anxiety-ridden when my kids get all dilly-dally-ish at Walmart. OYE! Might I add that if you are an alcoholic, or one of those alcoholics who thinks they don't have a drinking problem, don't even bother hitting me up. Same with druggies. I have absolutely NO time or patience for chemical addictions. That is YOUR problem and I will not deal with it. And if you are still married but currently "separated", keep on looking. No thanks again. If all you want to do is complain and whine about how your ex wronged you, keep on looking. If you are "between jobs", keep on looking. If you don't have a valid Driver's License due to non-payment of child support or multiple DUIs, keep on looking. I am sorry if I sound callous, but I say all those things for the same reason they put those ridiculous warnings on electrical appliances.... personal experience has taught me it is indeed necessary. Depends on the time of year and the weather. Currently, it being Fall and football season, probably going somewhere small and hole-in-the wall but with great food and football on the tele.... or just great food if there's no football on the tele. Somewhere we can talk and hear each other, too. If we hit it off, we can wing it from there.

  • Sherryl

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    OK, Maybe my Angel is out there. I am a fun loving single mom. All of my friends say that I am kind and generous and when I call them over for dinner they always show up! I am artistic, affectionate, and love life to the fullest. I love the outdoors as much as indoors. I very much enjoy deep sea fishing, camping and hiking. My favorite t.v. show is Two and a Half Men. I Love to laugh, party and play pool. I could stay home and build Lego's or go to a fancy resort and get a couples massage. I am very easy going. I have been married and completely enjoyed being married. I love spending evenings together with family or entertaining friends . Date night is good too. I am( not) a lonely person , but I do know, I don't want to be alone. I want to be by my mans' side, not in front or behind. I will make sure my man goes to bed happy,so he thinks about only ME all day long. I am looking for a person with stability, intellectual and open minded. Meet for lunch, walk on the beach , glass of wine, game of pool, something simple

  • Micheal

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I love honest to goodness straightforward people who don't have to create lies and make believe lives to hide behind. These kinds of people are far and few. People who aren't afraid to be who they truly are. People with real dreams that do not hijack innocent women for theirs and try to call that a lifestyle. I'm straightforward and honest to a fault if that could be. My first date would be one to remember. Since you don't get a second chance to make a first impression it would be monumental. For starters, there would be like a romantic type of scavenger hunt which would lead to our ultimate meeting. Which lead to a baloon somewhere else closer with another note, etc.

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