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Kilie, 49

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About Me

WARNING: Any *** individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects-you DO NOT have the permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice.We can really say whatever we want in this small box, but I believe it all boils down to how much real intimacy two people each need, are capable of giving, are capable of receiving, and do those depths match up?I think I've put my finger on what "chemistry" means to me.... my professional life is filled with very serious painful stories everyday......what my love life needs to be, is that place where we just smile and laugh and touch and tell interesting stories about important and unimportant stuff....a lot. I like people who are a mix of impulsive and calming. I love words. Chemistry is being with a man who knows how to help that happen. When 2 people fully show up, whether it's to tackle a problem, to share a meal, to take an adventure, to make love.......that's Chemistry.Here's why not to fall madly in love with me: I am crazy busy with a very intense life. My children and I have been through the Hell of battling and losing my husband to cancer. I do not have the luxury of a partner in parenting so I cannot count on my "free" time (drool). Men who are "simple" or avoidant always end up frustrated with me. OK I'm sure a huge amount of you have signed off by now....so what else? I'm passionate, affectionate, funny, and practice honesty as a never ending character builder. This means I don't lie, not even the so called "white" kind and expect the same in return. Cooking is my therapy making something new almost nightly (more intensive sessions occur with wine and Frank Sinatra added). I keep my circle small as I believe in giving a lot of attention to the people I love. I love the outdoors, my mental health is managed mostly with cycling, yoga and phone calls to my bestfriend and brother. I laugh really loud at the funny parts...(don't take me to a funny movie if you're easily embarrassed in public)!! I am the successful mother to two incredible young teens. As they require increasing independence it has the added benefit of freeing me up more and more. I get glimpses of the light at the end of a pretty long, fascinating tunnel, and I'm looking forward to cultivating the relationship that is for my future.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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  • Devyn

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    Friends describe me as a nice girl with an edge. I am a teacher and serve as the public relations director for a local organization. I have traveled extensively and lived in several states. I like sports, travel, the arts, dancing. I enjoy getting dressed up but am also comfortable in jeans and no makeup. I am happy, independent, have a wide circle of friends, and socialize often. My match: faithful, honest, chivalrous, educated, and athletic. *** you think we may be a match. The only true way to figure out if we have chemistry is to meet. For members who have upgraded so you can view extended profiles, I did not select the accurate salary because meetville forces you to answer, which I disagree with. If we date I will be happy to share that information. Best of luck to everyone :)

  • Mala

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I have raised my 2 kids to be strong independent young men. Think I have done a good job. They are both living in L.A. now and doing well for themselves. It's my turn now. I would like to find someone who shares my interests and exposes me to new and different things too. Really like listening to R&B, jazz and blues. Its always nice to have someone who enjoys that too. Always try and look at the glass half full. Try and have a positive attitude. It's always nice talking with someone and really getting to know them. It would be nice to find a quiet corner in a restaurant, have a nice meal and interesting conversation. Honing my billiards skills is fun too. Relaxing way to end a nice evening.

  • William

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I really believe an incredible relationship between 2 people who are right for each other should be easy. Of course, there’s compromise, and you have to make the relationship and time together a priority, but if you’re aligned on your goals & values and communicate well, really, does it have to be “hard”? To me, a great partnership should be fun, rewarding, and supportive. I’m a feminine, traditional woman with a happy mind, active body and optimistic attitude who loves to find new adventures, believes in the man she loves, and will always be there for him. In ***, I left my comfort zone and moved here from NYC to start a new life. Making this decision to leave family, good friends and my old life behind wasn’t easy, yet I really love my new life here. Since I work from home, I'm also open to relocating in the future.I appreciate a mature man who knows what he wants in life and goes after it. An affectionate, successful man who is reliable, romantic, tells the truth, and makes time for me turns me on -- Smart is sexy! I am 100% ready and devoted to creating a life of love and sheer unabashed happiness with my partner! And one of the great lessons I have learned is to never hold back something that you need to talk about. We all make mistakes. We’re all human. If something is hard for me, I’ll bring it up, and I promise you I will never hang on to old wounds. I hope you will do the same. The whole point of being together in a juicy, intimate, committed relationship is to bring joy into each other’s lives. I mean, why else bother, right? I'm open to meeting at a quiet, relaxing place for a drink/coffee or anything active or outdoorsy; just spending some time together to get to know each other and whether we have chemistry and some things in common. I realize first dates can sometimes be awkward & we all say and do things we may have wished we said or did differently. If there's some connection and interest, I hope we can both be honest and give it a shot.If you think we'll get along well & are ready, emotionally intelligent, and free of the past, send me an *** & let's see what happens!

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