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Kilie, 49

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About Me

WARNING: Any *** individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects-you DO NOT have the permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice.We can really say whatever we want in this small box, but I believe it all boils down to how much real intimacy two people each need, are capable of giving, are capable of receiving, and do those depths match up?I think I've put my finger on what "chemistry" means to me.... my professional life is filled with very serious painful stories everyday......what my love life needs to be, is that place where we just smile and laugh and touch and tell interesting stories about important and unimportant stuff....a lot. I like people who are a mix of impulsive and calming. I love words. Chemistry is being with a man who knows how to help that happen. When 2 people fully show up, whether it's to tackle a problem, to share a meal, to take an adventure, to make love.......that's Chemistry.Here's why not to fall madly in love with me: I am crazy busy with a very intense life. My children and I have been through the Hell of battling and losing my husband to cancer. I do not have the luxury of a partner in parenting so I cannot count on my "free" time (drool). Men who are "simple" or avoidant always end up frustrated with me. OK I'm sure a huge amount of you have signed off by now....so what else? I'm passionate, affectionate, funny, and practice honesty as a never ending character builder. This means I don't lie, not even the so called "white" kind and expect the same in return. Cooking is my therapy making something new almost nightly (more intensive sessions occur with wine and Frank Sinatra added). I keep my circle small as I believe in giving a lot of attention to the people I love. I love the outdoors, my mental health is managed mostly with cycling, yoga and phone calls to my bestfriend and brother. I laugh really loud at the funny parts...(don't take me to a funny movie if you're easily embarrassed in public)!! I am the successful mother to two incredible young teens. As they require increasing independence it has the added benefit of freeing me up more and more. I get glimpses of the light at the end of a pretty long, fascinating tunnel, and I'm looking forward to cultivating the relationship that is for my future.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Sidney

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    Life is complicated... must work on ourselves before we can truly be happy with another. Find meaning to our lives.. no wandering through life aimlessly ... Live in the now.. not the past.. not the future NOW! take care of yourself... your mind and your body ... eat well, love yourself and do for others .... life is a gift, treat it that way. be kind ... do i always practice this..NO but I know what I'm aiming for. Am I religious .. NO I believe there is a source, although whatever makes you happy ..all religion leads to same place, we create our own destiny. creativity excites me, dead end jobs with no meaning hinder me, children rejuvenate me, life is a journey.. everyone has a purpose .... laughter and joy is key to happiness. video games played hour after hour bore me, tv series sitcoms hour after hour, week after week, also bore me. Do people really have the time to sit and watch that bs week after week? although watching movies can be entertaining /interesting. A good one I saw recently was Red Light.. was kinda kewlll with a k.. all mediums of art interest me.. I admire honesty which is the best quality to have! Ozzy does rock but I like Keith Urban too ... most music feels good to me. everyone needs something to look forward to! blah blah blah nothing nothing nothing lol random stuff about me...... hugs I don't ramble in person just for this profile I promise... :) Oh and im not a follower or a sheeple..i march to my own drum. Non comformist . I do what feels good to me...thts my religionWrite me your biggest pet peeve.. I'd love to hear it! this cracks me up....People will read both your profile AND message when deciding if they should write back to you. If your profile is really lame it won't matter how good your message isI say people can tell if you are really lame by first glance.. lol doesn't matter what you say... that's just me though! cheers! :) If you think this is shallow just think... everyone has a type they are attracted to... i believe you can tell what a person is like inside by just looking at their eyes even if its just a pic.. if they are arrogant, genuine, good person... you can get a glimpse of what they are like just by a pic.. that's just what i think :) low key.. coffee or tea :) walk hang out

  • Lizabeth

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I see my ideal mate as: genuine, loving, considerate, patient, communicative, educated (bachelors+), witty, enjoys humor, financially stable (homeowner), active, athletic/fit/slim (at least, you try!), adventurous (e.g., loves travel), hates drama, prefers open, calm communication to arguments. Fully divorced. I like a man who is a gentleman at all times (I am a bit "traditional" in relationships). If you feel you have more integrity than most, we will be a good match.I believe I have the above traits plus enjoy wine-ing & dining and all sorts of adventures. I love travel of any kind, including weekend getaways, and have been to several countries. I'm very curious, empathetic, big-hearted, well-read, educated, and much funnier in person ;-) . I love parties, people, theatre, galas, museums, art, and similar cultural events (I'd love someone to take me to the opera one day. It's way overdue!). Basically, whatever it is, I'm probably up for it! I do ballet, garden, and just learned golf (love it!). I have creative pursuits (writing, photography, indie film, an occasional drawing) and always have some sort of project going. I stay busy, but I will always be there for family, friends. I fit in volunteer work. I used to mtn bike and snowboard/ski, but less into those these days. Still enjoy hiking & camping, love sailing/boating and just being near water (especially tropical). I can be a little goofy sometimes too, and enjoy a partner who doesn't take himself too seriously. I believe we all have flaws and become better people through effective listening, patience, thoughtfulness, and genuine communication. Anything else? Well, yes, there's more, but there's time to learn that in person. :-) I believe in taking time to get to know someone. What's the rush for the right person? A good relationship is built on friendship and trust, so let's work on that part first. I prefer a phone call first. If we click, then let's decide what's next!

  • Chantel

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I enjoy so many things...I don't know where to start...:***I love to meet new and interesting people. Going to plays or concerts is always fun. Dressing up in a dazzling outfit or putting on a tank top and shorts to meet your friends for a BBQ is great. I love to hang out by the pool on a beautiful day with the music on and a cool libation....in hand. One would describe me as a social butterfly because I love to talk and goof around.Going to San Fran has always been one of my favorite pastimes. There is always so much to see.I love to cook ...Its always better when two are cooking together...nothing like cooking a great meal for a party or just two.I am a very outgoing soul who is looking for someone who is stable in their life. Also a great sense of humor is a must....witty..goofy..and sensitive all at the same time.Well I have alot more to tell you so drop me a line to say Hi!!!! Hummm...first date would..or could be anything. I think meeting in a place where you can at least have a conversation to get to know you and laugh alot would be fun. How about a cute little bistro to grab a bite and/or a drink would be great!!!!

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