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About Me

I have been told that I am sometimes too mysterious so here's your prelude in getting to know me better. I enjoy healthy living as that approach is energizing for me, opens doors to more exciting activities and just feels good. I truly love to have fun, laugh and value quality time with friends and family. I am intrigued by people of all walks of life, appreciate our differences and the shared connection. I am grateful for everyday!I am looking for a man that I feel safe and comfortable with. He will have integrity, be a good communicator, thoughtful, compassionate, ambitious, fun, and have a good sense of humor. A good match for me would have to be self assured but not over the top. My ideal man would enjoy being active, playful and appreciate the adventures that each day can bring. He would also be content reading a good book, relaxing in the hammock, simple pleasures and silent moments shared. Even though I do not have children of my own, I understand that great parents raise healthy children by making them their priority, spending time together and being available for them even when it is unplanned. I value being an observer of those amazing relationships and also appreciate and welcome a man that has children of his own. My life has been filled with wonderful experiences, incredible friends and family; amazing opportunities and some unplanned speed bumps in the road. I am grateful for all of those moments, embrace them as lessons learned and step into each day with an open mind and the goal to influence positive change whenever I can.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Abbigael

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    Looking for someone to have fun with. Wanting to get to know someone who just wants to enjoy their life. If your looking for the same say hi. I'm a fun person with lots of personality. I may be a bit shy at first but once I feel comfortable it doesn't take much for me to come out of my shell. I enjoy someone who likes to smile and laugh. I like a lot of different types of music. (no classical or reggae though oh and this new dub step stuff? Well that isn't even music to me) Boy that sounded like my dad in like ***! lol! Any who, what I listen to on the every day bases would be country and rock. I love the mountains and all that this area has to offer. I have some great friends and a wonderful family. I have one son who is almost 28. He is married to a great girl and they have given me 2 wonderful granddaughters which I adore! Don't most grandmas? Yea we do. I love to make new friends and enjoy new experiences! Here's hoping whatever you do today it makes you smile! :) I guess whatever is comfortable for both people. Just talking and seeing if there is a spark. If not ok it is still wonderful to make new friends! ;)

  • Melvin

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Here are a few things about me: I'm pretty shy at first and a bit old fashioned, these two things combined make it very unlikely that I will make first contact. I believe that honesty is a must, once trust is compromised, it's almost impossible to restore. I think that anyone who says, “Looks don’t matter”, is lying. Everyone has their own idea of what they find attractive, and no one is ever going to walk up to a person they find completely unattractive and try to get to know them. I also think that being ugly on the inside can make you unattractive on the outside pretty quickly, no matter how cute or hot you are from afar. I think that strength and independence in women, and tenderness and sensitivity in men, should be cultivated. I love a good debate, and consider myself well versed enough in most social subjects to be a good verbal sparring partner. A good sense of humor is a must. I, myself, have more of a dry wit. I am originally from the LA area but love it here. I have spent most of my adulthood building a stable home life for my kids. Now that they are grown, it's time for me to have some fun. Although my profile says I don't want children, it doesn't mean that I don't like children or that you can't have any. I own my own home and enjoy working in the yard when the weather is nice. Cooking is one of my favorite things to do but have to admit that I'm not real excited about the cleanup afterward. I love watching horror movies, going to comedy clubs, and concerts. I like most types of music except for Country and Jazz. I am strong when I need to be but prefer to show my softer side. I'm not interested in meeting someone that over indulges in alcohol. Please don't contact me if you do ANY drugs, it's not my thing. My favorite sport is hockey but I will also watch football. I enjoy other sports if I can be there live. I love a reason to dress up because I do not get to very often, but am just as happy in jeans and a t-shirt. "I'm not upset that you lied to me, I'm upset that from now on I can't believe you."— Friedrich Nietzsche...I think that this pretty much says it all. One last thing, texting and e-mail are ok for initial contact or a quick question/statement but anything beyond that is just asking for trouble. There is way too much room for misunderstanding during text and/or e-mail. Pen pals are for inmates, and since I’m not one and hopefully neither are you, let’s not try to carry on full conversations by e-mail or text. I think a first meeting should be limited to an hour long. If there is a mutual attraction, then it gives us both something to look forward to, but if not, then no one has to sit there thinking of a polite way to bow out early. Coffee or a drink, something simple.

  • Gertude

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    Some of my favorite things are walking or bike riding in park. Live music and dancing. Going for long rides on a Harley. Love to fish and camp. I love massages! I am most proud of my two children. My daughter is 25 and CEO at her work. My son does Secuity for bars. I have one granddaughter hoping for more. I love kids and they love me. I'm really good with teenage girls cause you never stop being a teenager really at heart. Someone with children is a plus.I have say this most of the guys that message me are between 20 and 30 I was hoping for a more mature guy my age or older so don't be afraid to message me .

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