SIMILAR PEOPLE
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KilieOnline
Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: man. In age: 46-56
WARNING: Any *** individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects-you DO NOT have the permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice.We can really say whatever we want in this small box, but I believe it all boils down to how much real intimacy two people each need, are capable of giving, are capable of receiving, and do those depths match up?I think I've put my finger on what "chemistry" means to me.... my professional life is filled with very serious painful stories everyday......what my love life needs to be, is that place where we just smile and laugh and touch and tell interesting stories about important and unimportant stuff....a lot. I like people who are a mix of impulsive and calming. I love words. Chemistry is being with a man who knows how to help that happen. When 2 people fully show up, whether it's to tackle a problem, to share a meal, to take an adventure, to make love.......that's Chemistry.Here's why not to fall madly in love with me: I am crazy busy with a very intense life. My children and I have been through the Hell of battling and losing my husband to cancer. I do not have the luxury of a partner in parenting so I cannot count on my "free" time (drool). Men who are "simple" or avoidant always end up frustrated with me. OK I'm sure a huge amount of you have signed off by now....so what else? I'm passionate, affectionate, funny, and practice honesty as a never ending character builder. This means I don't lie, not even the so called "white" kind and expect the same in return. Cooking is my therapy making something new almost nightly (more intensive sessions occur with wine and Frank Sinatra added). I keep my circle small as I believe in giving a lot of attention to the people I love. I love the outdoors, my mental health is managed mostly with cycling, yoga and phone calls to my bestfriend and brother. I laugh really loud at the funny parts...(don't take me to a funny movie if you're easily embarrassed in public)!! I am the successful mother to two incredible young teens. As they require increasing independence it has the added benefit of freeing me up more and more. I get glimpses of the light at the end of a pretty long, fascinating tunnel, and I'm looking forward to cultivating the relationship that is for my future.
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SkuylerOnline
Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.
Looking for: man. In age: 47-57
I am a Brit with a very strong accent ..a mix of Floerty and the queen ( he he)..I am a very sensual and energetic woman who just wants to enjoy as much of life as is possible. I usually prefer younger men,..and darker tones but I am open to anyone who does not take themselves overly seriously. I have a passion for music and language , my tastes in music range from Floerty, Sade ,The Roots, to Bach and Marvyn Gaye..I adore reggae and the old blues . I like to drift into the minds of people I meet and share the depths and joys of each other in all ways. I am a highly successful artist and I am in love with my work. In my middle years ..I feel younger now than ever , and seek the company of a man with energy and enthusiasm for life in all its realms. I dont need to be wined and dined , although that can be lovely , I adore cooking, and all the simple things we read about on these stange dating sites.I dont have a type in mind at this point, if it hits it hits . I am not really concerned about a place or activityas long as its not bungy jumping ..just somewhere where we can hear each other and which allows either of us to continue to chat and be freindly or move in even closer..A lounge in SF with cozy corners and firelight , or a bar with music ..I love the beach but not for a first date
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LizabethOnline
Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.
Looking for: man. In age: 43-53
I see my ideal mate as: genuine, loving, considerate, patient, communicative, educated (bachelors+), witty, enjoys humor, financially stable (homeowner), active, athletic/fit/slim (at least, you try!), adventurous (e.g., loves travel), hates drama, prefers open, calm communication to arguments. Fully divorced. I like a man who is a gentleman at all times (I am a bit "traditional" in relationships). If you feel you have more integrity than most, we will be a good match.I believe I have the above traits plus enjoy wine-ing & dining and all sorts of adventures. I love travel of any kind, including weekend getaways, and have been to several countries. I'm very curious, empathetic, big-hearted, well-read, educated, and much funnier in person ;-) . I love parties, people, theatre, galas, museums, art, and similar cultural events (I'd love someone to take me to the opera one day. It's way overdue!). Basically, whatever it is, I'm probably up for it! I do ballet, garden, and just learned golf (love it!). I have creative pursuits (writing, photography, indie film, an occasional drawing) and always have some sort of project going. I stay busy, but I will always be there for family, friends. I fit in volunteer work. I used to mtn bike and snowboard/ski, but less into those these days. Still enjoy hiking & camping, love sailing/boating and just being near water (especially tropical). I can be a little goofy sometimes too, and enjoy a partner who doesn't take himself too seriously. I believe we all have flaws and become better people through effective listening, patience, thoughtfulness, and genuine communication. Anything else? Well, yes, there's more, but there's time to learn that in person. :-) I believe in taking time to get to know someone. What's the rush for the right person? A good relationship is built on friendship and trust, so let's work on that part first. I prefer a phone call first. If we click, then let's decide what's next!